I think its a big mistake to fall into the pressure to BBFS. The issues out there today with STD's, pregnancies and the impact it can have on family and friends...its not worth it. We engage with escorts, it still should be with respect to them and their bodies, mind and souls as what we want them to do the same to us in the bedroom which is to treat us with respect.
They are some of the sweetest people I have met who are only there to fund their education, families and their long term careers and are doing something they enjoy. It doesn't mean they should be abused in any way.