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I usually use independants but I have used PK and was very happy. PIictures should be updated on the girls as they might not be recent.

I usually use independants but I have used PK and was very happy. PIictures should be updated on the girls as they might not be recent.

Thank you all to those thst PM'd me with your kind words. I understand why you can repost...

Thank you john, it really is bad for both in my opinion. I am not trying to take blame away from myself as I obviously hurt her but did not intend to. I apologized and accept her wrath. Additional Comments: Thanks Meg, I do wish her the best and those that know me know this must be a mnis-understanding on both our parts. I in no way am trying to appear to be blameless. I know that there are going to be posts from guys who are still going to lambaste me, but they probably dont know either of us or have ever seen her to be so judgemental. Its too bad so many guys on cerb are too busy trying to score points or boost their points ratio to try to help us both get through this.

Well, Alex read this before I posted it and asked me to post it... I am sorry you disagree with it . This was not a half hearted attempt at anything, I have already received many nice PM's from people who do know and met me. And now that they know its me they dont see things the same way. Like I said there are many sides to a story... I don't really care what you believe, but felt I had to defend myself in someway. People tend to forget that I too was hurt by all this.. You realy have no idea what you are talking about.

Dear fellow Cerbites, I am posting this only because Alexg has asked me to otherwise I would not have. I can assure you that I dont have any self esteem problems, I am not controlling or abusive. I have been an active member here for quite sometime and I am sure many of the ladies here who have met me would say that I was a gentleman with them and very nice. What you are seeing here is a women scorned and trying to vent. Which is fine by me as I have stood by and looked at all your posts. The information has all been very 1 sided and not very fair to me without knowing my side. I would prefer not to get into too many details as I think this really should be a private matter between Alexg and myself. But after 4 pages of negative posts I really have to post something. Its true that I did have strong feelings for Alex. After so manay years of being my constant SP how could anyone not. I viewed her body as a work of art as anyone who has seen her would agree. I have the upmost respect for her and would never demean her or abuse her intentionally. I seem to have to address a few issues reluctantly. Alex was having some self image problems as she started to sag where maturing women do. I always told her that she was beautiful and did not need any surgery to make herself better. I assume that she felt she really needed it so had a breast lift. When I first saw her after her surgery I was shocked. This beautiful work of art has been badly scared beyond belief. I am sure it showed in my face but what could you do. I see she did not take that well. Later on she admitted that the surgery went wrong and her doctor was going to give her another free because it was so bad. I tried to be honest with her and told her that she shouldn't do it as it might make it worse. Now I believe in honestly and I was trying to be a friend. Should I have lied to her? Should I have not have tried to be a friend and give her my real Opinion? I noticed that others have posted in her recommendations about her scars, I did not. I was concerned that men would not be able to overlook this as it was really shocking. The second fiddle thing is a fabrication. I had mentioned that I was with another Sp VJ on many occasions and we were discussing pictures that Alex wanted to take. I said I could contact VJ and asked who did her pictures on her behalf to see if she could get the same photographer. I never mentioned a 3 way, it was Alex however who said she would not like to have to do a DUO with her as VJ was so Beautiful. I never even suggested a DUO for them with me. The Icy comment is true. I had panned a special Birthday 3 hour session and gave a list of things I wanted to do and Alex agreed to them. We were texting and it came across all wrong. I said you better rest up because we might have to icy your pussy down from all the action we are going to have. This was intended as dirty talk and what not meant to be demeaning in any way. You ever text something and mean 1 thing and the other person takes it as another? well this was the case.. Sort of having an SP say I am going to ride you so hard your not going to be able to walk straight.. Do I take that as demeaning to me? No. I tried to control her? This is just ridiculous.. She is in total control the whole time. I have no control over anything in her life and never tried to. I think we can agree that the SP in control. Yes I brought her many presents but never asked for anything extra in return for them. I made this clear to her many times that I enjoyed giving her things. I am sure there are other things that were said but its all to personal in my opinion. I have said this many times and I will publicly. Alex I am very sorry if I said anything hurtful to you this was never my intention. I believe that most of what happened was a mis-communication on your part and bad humor on my part. As a good for instance when Alex told me she did not want to see me anymore I said that I wish her well and thanked her for the time we spent together and would always treasure it. In her world I found out later that to wish someone well is like flipping them off. Who knew? So my fellow cerbites, please don't judge me so harshly. I have the utmost respect for SP's and anyone who has seen me would a test to. Alex I believe feels she made a mistake and acted to quickly in telling me to go away and is now looking for affirmation for her actions. if this is what she needs then so be it. I am humbly apologetic to you Alex and am incredibly sorry if in any way I hurt you or treated you in any manner than that which you felt you should be. I am sorry for any feelings I may have caused you and wish things were different. There are 3 sides to ever story and this was a sample of mine. I hpe that I do nt have to answer any more on this and you will all left me feel some of the Cerb love also. I was deeply hurt also after 3+ years with this Sp and am saddened that we could not end it as friends. It is too bad that even more messages are going back and forth that are not very nice.

I don't think you will a problem with this person any longer as once he reads your post we probably wont want to see you again anyways. There are 2 sides to every story and perhaps he was concerned that about your scars has I see it was mentioned in one of your recs by another member and did not want you to lose business because of it. The icing remark I hope he apologized. I can see some humor in it if he was comfortable with you enough to think you wont not be offended. I would hope that after 3 years+ you would have talked it out abit instead of just dropping him. Couples and such have fights all the time which is fine, but time usually heals those and thery make up. If he is not worth making up with then you both need to move on. It will be a lose for both of you. Since you posted it, it must be on your mind and important enough. I am sure you have many other clients to replace hm and there are many Sp's out there to fill his need.

excellent, cannot find any rec's or more info on her anywhere and she does not answer pm's.

Anyone have any more info on her? I did see her ads on CL and now on Cerb. No reco's yet. Thanks

An American!! Yes that might offend me but I would not want to get into a fight with you :)

I never even new those were there.

The best lube is something called GUN OIL. Non sticky, no taste and lots of slippery goodness. But its expensive.

Are you guys kidding? Geeze. The girl just wants her privacy what the heck is wrong with that. If you ask an Sp a personal question and she does not want to tell you, just grow a pair and move on. I cannot believe that this thread keeps going on and on and is now turning into a race thing. As a hobbyist its my choice who I see. If the Sp is unwilling to give information that I feel necessary for me to see her, then pick someone else. Seems to me this is all a matter of someone trying to get closer and more intimate than is wanted... Chin up Isabella.

I give a no BS review. I met with Karine19 today and all I can say is O M G!!! Maybe its just french girls but this girl has tremendous Oral Skills. I would go so far as to say top 5 placement in Ottawa including touring ladies. Very soft lips and a great kisser. Most sp's take a full hour to bring me to a happy ending based on their skill set, I could not even last 1/4 of the session time in the expert hands of Karine19. I thought that because of her age, it would be mechanical and non inspiring. Boy was I wrong. I highly recommend her. I may have found my new permanent regular SP.. :)

makes no differnce at all to me..

I use a magicjack. $30 for the year adn voicemail, call forwarding and you can take it with you when you ravel.

Saw her today. She is a nice girl. Safe GFE

I have the opposite, I can go for 1-2 hours and its not a physical problem.

Is there something about this time of year that makes some Sp's a little koo koo . I have noticed that every year around this time its time for Sp's to take a break..

There has been a new Girl I think her name is miss jenna. I see her advetise as dark hair and blue eyes.

You can bet that when this goes through finally (probably in a few years after all the appeals) The City of Ottawa will come up with a huge liscence fee to discourage it and drive it right underground again.

Any Kanata SP's out there available for Noon hour encounters?

I have to agree with you on this one.. I don't want to say the wrong thing as MOD is touchy on pricing issues. I got warned once already. I will say that many ladies outprice themselves with me at least no matter how much I want to see them. As we hobby more we also realize that other cities can pay a lot less than us. Its a balance and fairness in donations that have to be handled. I have a target price and don't go over it, no matter how much the lady might be worth it. As a result I see someone every week (almost) rather than twice a month. I would say that things have changed (for me at least) over the last year. I am much more selective. I would wait for a "special" before I pay a higher price. I think like anything the Sp has to know her clientele and what a fair market value is. For those that are fair to me, I can be generous in other ways.

well said.

Just take some of those cards from the guys handing them out on every corner...