masterowls

I was just wondering if anybody out there has any connections as far as housing in the Calgary area. I am having a heck of a time finding anything even close to what I need, and I would really like to be in Calgary by Aug. 1st. My current situation is a little bit tense, so if you can help I would really appreciate it. Thank you.

The question I get asked most often, and the one I hate answering the most as is sexually active disabled man is, "can you get it up?" I have two standard answers. The answer I use most often is, "let's go find out shall we?" The other answer I use when I'm feeling particularly nasty is, "I am in a wheelchair, not dead, of course I can get it up" Each of those seem to have the desired effect. To be honest though I think people are just legitimately curious because it is a rather unique situation for most people. I just wish they would come up with a less crass way of asking the question.

Dear Cleo, the only indiscreet thing that happened in the encounter you describe is the way the former client reacted to the situation. In my view, there are two ways one could handle it properly. The first and probably least awkward way would be to simply keep walking. After all, it's not in the best interest of an escort to expose their clients in public. If, however, you're comfortable with it, the other alternative is simply to go for coffee and laugh about the whole thing. Your client overreacted extremely badly. That is, however only my opinion such as it is.

It has actually happened to me twice. Although the first time, it should not have counted :-) I only knew her by reputation at the time. The first time I was going down the elevator in my building, and a beautiful girl in a short skirt happened to notice that I had dropped a bag of potato chips, and pick them up for me. I introduced myself to her thinking that I might see her around the building again, and actually had hoped to ask her for coffee. When she told me her name was Jasmin, I couldn't believe it! I was friends with a number of her regular clients, but I couldn't get them to give me her phone number for fear of having her mad at them. I said to her, "so I finally get to meet the legend herself." She laughed and asked what I meant, so I told her about my friends, and the rave reviews I'd been hearing. She left me her phone number, and two weeks later took my virginity. And yes it was worth every dime! The second time I was walking/Wheeling in downtown Vancouver near the sea wall, when a lady I saw every six weeks regularly for close to three years saw me and invited me for coffee, which I thought was really kind of her.

Dezarai It's probably the best-kept secret in Lethbridge. There actually is an independent escort worth spending time with! She's a little hard to find, but definitely worth the effort! Right now she only accepts booking by e-mail through her website which I listed in this recommendation. I had a two hour date with her last night at a very reasonable rate. The photos on the website are accurate, so if you like them you'll love her in person. She left me physically exhausted last night! I will definitely be seeing her again. In fact when I told her I was going to write this review, I said I wasn't sure I wanted to let people know, because once word got out, I wouldn't be able to guarantee a booking in the future. LOL

My opinion regarding breasts is that they should be proportionate to the size of the rest of a woman's body. Breasts that are too large to be natural looking (even when they're not natural) are actually extremely unattractive to . They just look like overinflated water balloons. Besides, in experience over enlarged breasts are cold to the touch, which actually isnot that big of a turn on for me personally.

Newton, I agree with you, most Canadian citizens do follow just laws. I don't think asking a prostitute to obtain a business license, like any other independent business person is required to do is particularly unjust or unfair. However as we all know, there are always a few who choose to ignore the rules. What I am saying, is that we need rules that carry penalties that are stiff enough to deter people who might otherwise choose to take their chances without a license.

I have a question, I assume, that we are talking about how to best enforce compliance with any licensing program that the government may institute. Since in the example, we are speaking of the girl already having been issued a fine for not complying with regulations, exactly how would you suggest we make her comply with the conditions of her fine, since she has obviously chosen to disregard authority anyway? This is why I recommend mandatory jail terms. I'm not trying to necessarily criminalize the women, I'm trying to physically remove the ability for her to make money for a period of time to be determined by whatever authority the government chooses to put in place to oversee licensing. I agree the best way to enforce compliance is to make it too expensive not to comply. The problem is as I've said, figuring out some way to motivate compliance. I don't think fines will work, because if she's been fined, she has obviously already chosen not to comply.

Angela, 10 years would be the maximum, and only applied to repeat offenders. Yes it seems harsh, but the idea is to make it so prohibitively expensive, both in time, and in monetary terms, that no sane provider would work without a license. (Can you imagine 10 years of lost income) under previous laws, if a girl was arrested for the first time, she would often be out before the ink was dry on her paperwork. If we don't impose strict penalties for unlicensed sex workers, what incentive would there be for them to apply to become licensed? I'm not a monster, I'm just saying, we need to ensure that if Canada chooses this route, the penalties are stiff enough to make sure almost everyone complies with the rules, so that 10 years down the road the government can't say, "the licensing program doesn't work, let's re-criminalize prostitution as a whole."

Here is my idea for prostitution laws in Canada.1 license prostitutes. Any prostitute without a license should be subject to a lengthy prison term. Up to 10 years. This would make it unprofitable not to get proper licensing. 2. In order to prevent human trafficking, trafficking in women, make it impossible to get a license without proof of either immigration or citizenship for at least two years. This would make it difficult for traffickers to support the women long enough, so that it would become difficult to make any money and they would go into more lucrative business. I also support the establishment of red light districts within any major city along the model of Amsterdam, where if you are in that district it's assumed, that you are either selling, or looking for sex, so nobody is particularly offended by the fact that it is prevalent. This would make it much easier for the police to look after public order, and check licenses. It would also almost eliminate pimps, because the main function of a pimp, is to ensure the smooth operation, and safety of his girls, if the roles filled by the pimps are no longer required, they would very quickly become a dying breed.

Unfortunately, I do get a lot of resistance from family members regarding my hobby expenses. However, my attitude is that they don't live in my body, or fully understand what it feels like to me to need companionship and not have it. My standard response is to say, "I'll stop, if and when you can provide me with a way to meet somebody who will be willing to take care of my needs, in the meantime, it's really not up for debate." That argument tends to keep them quiet. None of my family like the idea, however none of them have been able to overcome my logic either. LOL

I believe strongly that the only way the stigma around the industry, both for the clients and for the ladies is going to go away, is for us to do what gay people have done. I think we should have a sex work pride parade. We need to stop acting as if we have something to hide. Ladies, you need to think about the message you're sending when you don't show your face in your pictures. Gentleman, while you might not want to advertise the fact that you see ladies, if the subject comes up, you may want to explain why you hobby, instead of trying to deny it. If the subject came up, you're probably already busted, so why not use the opportunity to educate people. If we all do our part, eventually, most if not all of the stigma will by virtue of the fact that nobody is ashamed of what they're doing, disappear. This may seem a radical approach, but I believe it will work in the long run.

I cannot believe, that this subject has come up yet again! Gentlemen, recently I did have a lady no show on me. I was absolutely furious because I'd taken the time to make the environment as nice as I possibly could. It turns out, she actually got to my building, and then got a panicked call from her baby sitter. The next morning I got up and there was an e-mail explaining the situation, and asking to rebook. Of course I did wind up booking again, and the first thing she asked was if I was angry at her for last night. I told her, that until I had gotten her e-mail, I was furious, however, since she had obviously made an attempt to cancel in a respectful manner, and I understood that family considerations come before work, I really had no reason to be angry with her. Simple communication really does work guys, let's start giving these ladies the same simple respect we expect from them. Luxie, speaking for all the respectful men here, I'm sorry for the actions of this disrespectful idiot.

What I find annoying is, on the 1 have we have the government, aids/std folks sayinfg in PSAs, "be responsible, If you're going to engage in anything that may elevate your risk, get tested regUarly" Then we have dpctors ddeciding we don't need tests.

To be honest, reason 4 is true for me, altho I'm usually quite vocal about what does and doesn't work. For instance I don't mind being soft and gentle in foreplay, but when it comes to sex, I like a partner to take over and just pound me, I mean I'm disabled, not made of glass, if it's too gentle I get bored, if you bore me there really is no point. I think that's part of why I tend to like older ladies. They tend to have found a balance between soft enough to be cuddly and sexually aggressive enough to be exciting when the time's right.

I[ believe in testing, but believe it or not, I have to argue with the doctors most times. The typical reaction I get when asking for tests is, "But you're in a wheelchair, why do you need a test? " To whit my response is, "Because my sexlife, and yes, I do have one involves sex with multiple women, some of whom I don't know too well, and I'm trying to be responsible and safe here, nows, would you please order the damn tests? sheesh." lol Even doctors stereotype disabled men as asexual... it's no wonder women outside the hobby have issues . uote=scottthecanuck;164336]Whatever you want to call this, a hobby, a business, a professional service etc, the fact is most of us enjoy it immensely. Certainly the clients do because hard earned cash is freely exchanged for the pleasure of spending time with a professional SP. I have also read many comments over the years by SP's who say they love their business and the work, heavens knows I'm not sure one could last long in this business if you didn't. Having said that if you're like me one thing always lurks at the back of your mind to put a dose of reality into one of the very real risks we all run in the course of our pursuits. That is the spectre of STI/STDs. To me its important to act responsibly for yourselves, and your (clients, colleagues, fellow hobbiests, etc) and get tested on a regular basis. For those who are interested and I hope that is everyone I have included two links. This is an excellent article about the importance of getting tested, I encourage all to read it. The second link is a directory of sorts for testing clinics and policies for each of the provinces and territories. All of the provincial links seem current save SK so I have provided a seperate link for SK here. All of the provinces from what I can see offer toll free helplines (anonymous) where you can get information, but not all of the provinces offer anonymous testing. Please when commenting on this thread do not feel the need to state "I've been tested and I'm fine". I wouldn't want everyone to feel the need to use this thread as a way of broadcasting their purity or to mistakenly draw conclusions from those who do not comment on it.

All you have to do is come down to Lethbridge hon... I GUARANTEE you will get more attention to your needs than you can handle... 1 of my major turnons is the look on a ladies ' face when she's having a mind blowing orgazm, which means I take the time to ask you what you like, and do my best within my physical limits(I can't move that much) to provide what you ask for.

Dear Amanda, I can to a certain extent I understand your problem. However I must state again, that your comments regarding Canadian men in general are in my opinion inaccurate, unjust, and unfair to men like me, who take great pride in making every effort to please their partner. I'm sorry you haven't had the great experiences you wish you had, but please don't blame the rest of us for the sins of a few.

Amanda, I usually agree with most of what you ladies say about us men, however in this case I have to say that you're wrong about Canadian men in general. I myself try really hard to do my best to make sure my partner actually has more fun than I did, simply because that is part of what gives me pleasure. I sort of resent being included in this "narcissistic" male culture you claim exists here in Canada. Maybe you are simply seeing the wrong men.

I find your entire argument both flawed and offensive. I have been in the hobby for 20 years. In that time I have seen many many many different ladies, and only ever had one who made me feel at all like was in a hurry to have me gone. It's utterly ridiculous to assume that these ladies aren't enjoying their work. Some of them in fact have left very profitable careers in order to provide entertainment and company for us. If in fact a lady has made you feel like she doesn't want to spend extra time with you, I submit that there may be some underlying reason. Maybe talking to the lady about this situation might be in order?

There are obviously women who specialize, or have 1 particular talent of which they may be proud. In general however I agree, saying you are "the best" at anything just comes off cocky. A wise friend once told me, "you might be damn good at something, but there's always someone somewhere just that little bit better." I also agree that the term #1 is misused. How is this determined, and by whom? Do ladies keep scorecards? LOL Last time I checked the hobby was about consenting adults having fun together, not some teenage competition over who has more clients, or who's better at what service. In my opinion the #1 best escort at any one given moment is the one a client chose to spend his time and money with, at least in his opinion. If not he wouldn't be with her.

For me, basically it comes down to 4 criteria: 1. do I find her physically attractive. I've been in the hobby long enough to know exactly what I like physically, so I rate the girl in my head.. if she scores less than 7.5 out of 10 on my scale, i generally tend not to contact her. 2. if I contact her does she respond within a reasonable time(I generally think 24/48 hours is pretty good) 3. how much do we have in common... I find that unless I'm in the mood for a quickie, I need to be able to TALK to her, so I do like to flirt by email or pm and find out a bit, even before I book. 4. rates... I'm on government disability, so for me cash is hard to come by.

Another quick way to make friends, is to join a social group. I belong to two. lonely, and special needs cerbites. Generally, people in these groups have something in common already, so it's easier to make friends. I find that generally if you make a friendship request, most people will, by default accept it.

Okay, maybe I'm just being picky, but please, try to keep information on websites up to date. For example, if your website says you have long dark hair, and you show up with platinum blonde, shoulder length (or shorter) hair, I'm probably not going to be impressed. I tend to try to avoid blondes, because for the most part, it just doesn't do anything for me, with a very few exceptions. If you change your appearance, please please please update the information.

I think you ladies should start charging a "filth tax" on anyone that inconsiderate. Maybe if you hit them in the wallet, they would have more motivation to clean themselves up before they visit you. I mean, if I take the time and effort to arrange to be clean, and well groomed, and it is hard for me to do, there is no excuse why someone can't hop in the shower on the way over to see you. Or failing that, ask to borrow yours when he gets there. Just my opinion.