masterowls

Gotta agree, her pics are hot...I just might have to take a 3 1/2 hour drive to Ottawa to meet her. And her pics aren't the only thing she has going for her, she is very intelligent and articulate too...brains and beauty, a very sexy combination RG Don't forget, kind caring, and extremely sweet.

Meg, I can understand refusing a client based on the fact that you can not accommodate a physically disabled client. Most of the women who turned me down did not express that that was the problem, although two actually did. I even had one lady say to me, "sorry but I don't see cripples" that was without a doubt the single rudest turn down I ever got. I don't think any service provider here would ever be that disgustingly rude to her client. In fact the overwhelming majority of ladies here seem quite upset that this is even an issue at all.

Lindsay, it's actually much more common than most people think for an escort/service provider to refuse to see disabled clients. I personally know of six potential clients in Vancouver who gave up on the idea of being with a service , simply because they were tired of calling girls, only to be turned down based on their disability. Fortunately I was able to put them in touch with a few good providers who don't have a problem with seeing disabled clients, and they are now very happy clients. I've even had a provider ask me if it's possible to catch cerebral palsy by having sex with a client who has it. Just for those of you reading this who don't know the answer is ABSOLUTELY not. There are exactly 2 ways to get cerebral palsy, first and most common is birth injury of some kind. Second is severe brain trauma due to a accident. This is not common as it requires some pretty serious injury, and some body who is injured accidentally that badly would probably die first.

I hope you sent the jerk packing... preferrably with sore balls for wasting your time.

I've been shot down by a lot of girls who are for whatever reason not ok seeing disabled men. I was somewhat hurt/disappointed until I realized 2 things about it... 1. I probably wouldn't have really had great fun with them anyhow if they're that uncomfortable, and 2. by them turning me away, some more tastefully than others btw, they forced me to keep looking and find Allie... Allie still rocks my world in ways I didn't think were possible 3 years later, so the way I figure it, they all did me a huge favor turning me down.

These Women should realize they risk exposing your personal info too,... What the hell went through their heads...?

The thread is open to anybody with a positive story to share about the relationship between a service provider and a client. I'm happy to hear that you are enjoying the thread. It was kind of the whole idea of starting it.. :-)

Lexy, I think you may slightly have misinterpreted the intent of the thread. It's here to show you and other SPs that some of us do have genuine affection for our service providers. By no means does this exclude service providers from participating or expressing opinions. In fact it would be nice to know the thread is having the desired effect. I know that there are days when some of you wonder why you bother working, this thread is intended as a little moral support. :-) Additional Comments: Sometimes the best thing in the world is to hear, "I'm here, I care, and what you're doing Matters in my life, so don't stop."

I have a question. What kind of complete moron would see Meg, and not take advantage of MSOG? Meg is one of the most beautiful girls, both inside and out that I have ever had the honor to associate with. I hope that if she ever comes my way, she'll save a session for me. Additional Comments: If Meg can't get a guy to cum at least once an hour, she better call 911... The poor bastard must be dead... Hells bells man her pics are almoat enough for me, god knows how often I'd bust a nut if she were actually touching Me...lol

Scott, The answer to both questions is quite simple. A serious malfunction of the logic center of what passes for a brain. :-)

Nikki, I don't blame you for being angry at the money thing... Personally I'd have said, "I charge what I feel an hour of my company is worth. Obviously you agree because you are here." Personally, I don't even verbally discuss money at all during sessions, except to tell the lady where she can find her envelope. Both She and I already know her rate and what I booked, so discussion seems kinda pointless. You ladies charge what you think you're time's worth to perspective clients,we clients pay cause we want to see you... it ain't rocket science sheesh...:)

A good rule of thumb here, is, "I''f I were an sp, would I feel safe/happy answering that? " Try to remember especially at first, for all the SP knows, you could be some creepy stalker guy. If you wouldn't feel comfortable giving the info to a total stranger, don't ask an SP you just met. Good topics:1. Favorite music... 2 . Favoriite Wine, Victoria secret or La Senza, and what size... ? 4. Do you have the latest Ipod? 5. (And this always breaks the ice well) I just heard a funny joke, would you like to hear it?

Well said, for myself I would find it difficult at this point to see somebody other than my friend in Calgary. I say this because I feel connected to her in a way that would be hard for another provider to match. As long as she is willing to travel, I really don't see any need to experiment with others, even though she has said she would not be jealous. Why mess with a good thing?

It takes less than 20 seconds for me to send the same e-mail using my voice recognition software, and I don't even have to be at the computer to do it, so I really have no excuse. :-)

I think those of us that have found a special SP, who understands our needs, makes us laugh, or otherwise makes us feel special are all extremely lucky. I think we owe it to other friends in the hobby to make sure they know there is a special girl out there waiting to be found. Also make sure those we consider special are aware that they offer something unique. Encourage them to keep doing it.

This particular lady definitely does occupy a special place in my heart. She is everything you say, and much much more.

As I said in the "why we love our job" thread, I really feel that we need to express the ladies that we appreciate everything they do for us. This thread is simply my way of doing that. I hope more guys would post stories about why they love being with SPs, so that if one of the ladies have a bad day, they can come here and see that some of us do actually care.

There is a special lady in Calgary I see when I have the financial resources. I won't name names because she doesn't have a presence here, and I'm not sure how she would feel about having her name mentioned in public. If you want her name, feel free to contact me, and I'll give you the information. My friend in Calgary is not only beautiful, funny, and extremely sweet, but has a lot of class. She always brings a nice bottle of wine on our dates which we share together while we talk. She shows up in incredible looking outfits, and is usually mildly embarrassed when I tell her she looks incredible. Last time I saw her, I explained that because of my disability, seeing her was costing me approximately 3 times her donation in actual expenses (extra hotel room for caregiver, food expenses for caregiver, vehicle rental because I don't have a truck big enough for my equipment, etc. etc.) not to mention finding a hotel room in Calgary when you're in a wheelchair, is not as easy as you might think. When she heard this, she said, "I don't usually travel outside Calgary, but for you I'll make an exception to the rule, next time you want to see me, let me know and I'll come to you in Lethbridge.". I thought this was really sweet, because my financial issues are really none of her concern. As long as she is willing to travel and still wants to work, I'll probably keep going back. Especially since our dates tend to end with me physically exhausted... :-)

I'm glad you like the post. It has very little to do with being sweet however. I think most service providers, at least the ones who really enjoy the work are seriously under appreciated. We don't tell you enough just how much of a difference you make. I think I'm going to start a 'Things that make us love our Sp" thread, Just so when one of you ladies have a bad day and wonder why you bother... you can read a post or 2, and see that some of us do really care about you hard working SPs

I think it might be nice for us hobbiests to start a similar thread, as to some of our best experiences with service providers. I think it would be nice for you to understand the impact a good service provider can have on a clients outlook. There is a reason we treat you special. Because many of us actually feel you are extremely special to us. The girl I usually see in Calgary, has on many occasions unknowingly bought me out of pretty serious depression, just by being there with a smile a hug, and well lets face it, some mind blowingly good sex...lol. I don't know if she truly understands the impact she can have on my life at times. I wish I could let her know, but I don't think words are adequate. I think you girls need to hear things like this a little more often. There seems to be so much negativity lately. We need to refocus on the positive and just remember why we're all part of CERB to start with. On behalf of the guys... We love you Ladies... HUG For the record none of my friends understand my willingness to spend months saving every penny I can beg, borrow or steal just to give it to my friend in Calgary. My standard answer is, "1. for the duration of the date, I feel like a king, 2. Unlike the women I date, she has never misled, stolen or in any way promised me anything she didn't deliver beyond my wildest dreams and 3. Have you seen her?:)"

Agreed, life happens, and sometims 1 simply cannot be where 1 is supposed to, but in todays world of laptops pdas smartphones, internet caffe, mesage boards and gods know how mmany other ways to sltay connected, you cannot tell me there's no possible way you could somehow touch base if something comes up. A noshow is simply too lasy to make the required effort.

Lexy, Depending on the rate, it can take several months for me to save up enough cash to go see a provider. For instance, the lady I see in Calgary, can take me up to 10 months to save for a two-hour session. Unless I'm dying, there is no way I'm going to miss an appointment with her. (Aside from the fact that she is probably the most talented provider I've ever seen :-)) for me, I prefer my providers to consider me a friend with financial benefits. Wasting her time is not very friendly, so I don't do it. :-)

I'll admit that the rating I propose would only cover ladies who have a presence here... but since it's most likely I'll try to date a lady I met, or saw reviewed here before surfing 30-40 other sites...(well maybe not literally but you get the point) some Idea who's reliable would be good, and like I say it might be useful to the ladies too.. No one system is going to be foolproof and at first there may be bugs, but judging from the size of this thread, noshows on both sides are an issue. All I'm proposing is 1 way to identify who is doing it regularly, so that both sides have all the info to make informed choices as to if they want to book or not I'm not proposing it be used to attack or impune anyone..

To answer the question, the purpose of the thread MO was describing is not to "get back" at the SP. It's to advise potential clients of the situation the experienced, if enough of these threads arise then clients will start wondering if they should really book with the SP. Thank you for clarifying my point. I do not advocate, and never will support maliciously attacking an SP or anyone else. On the other hand, I do believe that potential clients have a right to all available information regarding the provider they are thinking about hiring, including whether or not they are known to cancel with no notice. For myself it takes several days trying to organize personal care around my appointments with service providers. This can include having to call the office and ask if they can send my care aides at different hours, or for more or less time. depending on what I've planned. If I'm hiring somebody new, I'd like to know, that they're going to be on time. You see not only does making these changes require effort on my part, but it also requires my case manager to make changes to her staffing plan for the whole day, which in turn inconveniences the caregivers. I'm fortunate in that my case manager is a sweetheart and will try very hard to give me what I want. However if I start changing times every other day to accommodate an SP who has chosen not to show up, eventually she is going to start saying no. Therefore I say again, even here, there should be at the very least a reliability index of some sort perhaps similar to reputation points like we have for the boards. No one needs to attack anyone that way, but it would rapidly show who has a tendancy to leave clients hanging. And the girls could use the same index to see if a guy is likely to noshow on them, before they book.