SmartGUY

...I think you're missing the point of porn for couples. The good stuff, used at the right time and under the right conditions. I agree that porn is usually option C (when the fabulously attractive partner is not available, and a lack of funds prevent me from visiting a fabulously attractive SP). But as a shared experience, it can be great. Not as background to sex. But as foreplay. At my place, we call it "pants optional" nights. Curled up on the couch in undies, watching some good porn and drinking copious amounts of wine, lots of mutual touching. The best for my partner is a long, gentle massage of her pussy through her panties. Once they're soaked through, they come off and more touching. All while watching some porn. Honestly, my partner likes seeing attractive woman being pleasured - not something she'd get to see without some female POV porn. Either way, its incredibly satisfying to see how long we can last before someone has to put their mouth on some part of the other's person's anatomy. I can assure you, while we've watched the beginning of many good porn movies, we've never seen the endings! For those of us too shy or inhibited to go to a Swinger's club, good porn is a great foreplay enhancer. You've got to do your research and look for productions that have the kind of actors you find attractive. We like natural bodies and don't like anything that's too abusive or rough. When we find the right one, bingo! It really amplifies the pleasure. The defense rests.

Both are out of the business.

$$$ and no GFE.

In Toronto, where I go on business quite regularly, the MPs are everywhere. From little holes in the wall to big, fancy VIP-type spas. I like the MPs in Toronto because they are convenient, and affordable. ($160-$200 for one hour) I have a couple of favorite MAs who know how to float my boat. However, in Ottawa (the voluptuous Bethany) and Toronto (Jennifer the energizer bunny and Crystal Blonde, you minx) I have found fantastic opportunities with indy MAs. It's more expensive, but more intimate. And you get more intimate, passionate consideration than MPs, where things are more restrictive. MPs: more convenient, more affordable. Indy MAs: more intimate, more expensive, more options, but tighter availability. SG

...but I find that like all my relationships, I find it best to let the lady set the pace. You find out more about an SP by watching how they ease into a session, how quickly they like things to play out, how firm they are in directions and how interested they are in what you want to do. Having someone say 'so, what would you like to do?' is a bit of a turn off. An admission there is no chance at chemistry. If someone is doing something I don't like, or doing it too quickly, or yakking and not getting to the good stuff, I will be more assertive. Personally, my favorite SPs are the ones that seem to know intuitively that I want a quick, passionate start, a shot on goal, a restful interlude and then a freaky, intense second shot. The best ones IMHO are the ones that seem to get all that without a long, awkard conversation. I guess that's the difference between professional and enthusiastic amateur.

only out calls right now.Even for us in-towners, that's a libido killer.

Exchanged emails. $$.5 for an hour. Asked if that was all inclusive. Found out BBJ and Greek extra. When I inquired about how much extra, no response. Lovely woman. Vibe is a bit weird.

@Sin Cindy: does that mean the hair, or the thread?

I had the boys shaved clean when I had my 'Big V' procedure. Sexually speaking, best move I ever made. The shave is not only effortless, it's arousing. And the attention you get with clean shaven balls - well you wonder how you ever went without. Not itchy. No aftershave burn or irritation. And I just use the same old razor that I have always used. Come on boys. Get with the program.

I totally agree. I hate having to write "sorry about the short notice" emails but short notice, almost a spontaneous thing is sort of what makes this so exciting. I understand it's not as courteous in some ways. But sometimes I almost talk myself out of it if I have too much time to think about it. If you know what I mean.

Saw Chrystal this week. Very tall (so am I) and natural breasts that almost defy gravity. Attractive, a bit wide in the beam but great for guys like me that love the mudflaps! Incredible. Very sexy, talks dirty but not like a biker chick. Seems to love everything. You know it's good when you're walking out to the elevator and you mouth the word "Wow." Wow.

I also saw Bobbi on Monday. She is pretty cute. Great body and perhaps the most fantastic natural breasts I have ever seen. Not too big, not too small, perfect. Just big enough to speak Russian, actually. The best thing about Bobbi, however, is attitude. Completely enthusiastic, good conversation, lots of laughter and very much IN the moment when the moment presents itself. Big thumbs up on this one.

...but what about standing up? I saw Auralie and both of the fantastic releases she coaxed out of me involved me standing and her sitting on the edge of the futon so I could leave behind a string of pearls. I love standing up for the release and one complication I can see with a bed is if it's too high. Some bed frames are pretty tall, and then if you add mattress, boxspring and pillow top, then you've got a problem. Not insurmountable (pun intended) but I like the angle the old futon provides now. Call me sentimental.

...for the scoop.

With no agenda, I have two observations to make. First, there are an awful lot of travelling SPs making their way through town. It's as if there have been an uncommonly large number of lottery winners in the Peg, and the SPs are flocking here like never before. Second, several of my "to-do-list" SPs, and few of my tried and true SPs, are not answering emails or the phone. I don't think these two things are connected, but wondering if anyone else out there is getting a weird vibe. SG