SmartGUY

...I think you're missing the point of porn for couples. The good stuff, used at the right time and under the right conditions. I agree that porn is usually option C (when the fabulously attractive partner is not available, and a lack of funds prevent me from visiting a fabulously attractive SP). But as a shared experience, it can be great. Not as background to sex. But as foreplay. At my place, we call it "pants optional" nights. Curled up on the couch in undies, watching some good porn and drinking copious amounts of wine, lots of mutual touching. The best for my partner is a long, gentle massage of her pussy through her panties. Once they're soaked through, they come off and more touching. All while watching some porn. Honestly, my partner likes seeing attractive woman being pleasured - not something she'd get to see without some female POV porn. Either way, its incredibly satisfying to see how long we can last before someone has to put their mouth on some part of the other's person's anatomy. I can assure you, while we've watched the beginning of many good porn movies, we've never seen the endings! For those of us too shy or inhibited to go to a Swinger's club, good porn is a great foreplay enhancer. You've got to do your research and look for productions that have the kind of actors you find attractive. We like natural bodies and don't like anything that's too abusive or rough. When we find the right one, bingo! It really amplifies the pleasure. The defense rests.

Both are out of the business.

$$$ and no GFE.

In Toronto, where I go on business quite regularly, the MPs are everywhere. From little holes in the wall to big, fancy VIP-type spas. I like the MPs in Toronto because they are convenient, and affordable. ($160-$200 for one hour) I have a couple of favorite MAs who know how to float my boat. However, in Ottawa (the voluptuous Bethany) and Toronto (Jennifer the energizer bunny and Crystal Blonde, you minx) I have found fantastic opportunities with indy MAs. It's more expensive, but more intimate. And you get more intimate, passionate consideration than MPs, where things are more restrictive. MPs: more convenient, more affordable. Indy MAs: more intimate, more expensive, more options, but tighter availability. SG

...but I find that like all my relationships, I find it best to let the lady set the pace. You find out more about an SP by watching how they ease into a session, how quickly they like things to play out, how firm they are in directions and how interested they are in what you want to do. Having someone say 'so, what would you like to do?' is a bit of a turn off. An admission there is no chance at chemistry. If someone is doing something I don't like, or doing it too quickly, or yakking and not getting to the good stuff, I will be more assertive. Personally, my favorite SPs are the ones that seem to know intuitively that I want a quick, passionate start, a shot on goal, a restful interlude and then a freaky, intense second shot. The best ones IMHO are the ones that seem to get all that without a long, awkard conversation. I guess that's the difference between professional and enthusiastic amateur.

only out calls right now.Even for us in-towners, that's a libido killer.

Exchanged emails. $$.5 for an hour. Asked if that was all inclusive. Found out BBJ and Greek extra. When I inquired about how much extra, no response. Lovely woman. Vibe is a bit weird.

@Sin Cindy: does that mean the hair, or the thread?

I had the boys shaved clean when I had my 'Big V' procedure. Sexually speaking, best move I ever made. The shave is not only effortless, it's arousing. And the attention you get with clean shaven balls - well you wonder how you ever went without. Not itchy. No aftershave burn or irritation. And I just use the same old razor that I have always used. Come on boys. Get with the program.

I totally agree. I hate having to write "sorry about the short notice" emails but short notice, almost a spontaneous thing is sort of what makes this so exciting. I understand it's not as courteous in some ways. But sometimes I almost talk myself out of it if I have too much time to think about it. If you know what I mean.

Saw Chrystal this week. Very tall (so am I) and natural breasts that almost defy gravity. Attractive, a bit wide in the beam but great for guys like me that love the mudflaps! Incredible. Very sexy, talks dirty but not like a biker chick. Seems to love everything. You know it's good when you're walking out to the elevator and you mouth the word "Wow." Wow.

I also saw Bobbi on Monday. She is pretty cute. Great body and perhaps the most fantastic natural breasts I have ever seen. Not too big, not too small, perfect. Just big enough to speak Russian, actually. The best thing about Bobbi, however, is attitude. Completely enthusiastic, good conversation, lots of laughter and very much IN the moment when the moment presents itself. Big thumbs up on this one.

...but what about standing up? I saw Auralie and both of the fantastic releases she coaxed out of me involved me standing and her sitting on the edge of the futon so I could leave behind a string of pearls. I love standing up for the release and one complication I can see with a bed is if it's too high. Some bed frames are pretty tall, and then if you add mattress, boxspring and pillow top, then you've got a problem. Not insurmountable (pun intended) but I like the angle the old futon provides now. Call me sentimental.

...for the scoop.

With no agenda, I have two observations to make. First, there are an awful lot of travelling SPs making their way through town. It's as if there have been an uncommonly large number of lottery winners in the Peg, and the SPs are flocking here like never before. Second, several of my "to-do-list" SPs, and few of my tried and true SPs, are not answering emails or the phone. I don't think these two things are connected, but wondering if anyone else out there is getting a weird vibe. SG

...to ask why so many guys feel the need to post replies to threads when they just want a PM? It's the spam of the review boards. Not a rhetorical question - isn't it better if you want a PM to PM the person and ask for the juicy details? Just saying. Oh, and Amber is great. Probably the best overall body I've seen among Peg providers.

Brooke is absolutely the real deal. It's actually hard to believe they are what they are, but they are magnificent. Soleil as well has breasts to die for. Not as big as Brooke, but for naturals they are also magnificent. And Elle. Definitely Elle. All three woman have driven me to distraction with their breasts.

I gotta say, the whole issue of bait and switch is fascinating to me. However, nobody has raised the issue of whether this particular situation was bait and switch. To me (and MOD correct me) bait and switch is when you think you're going to see the girl in the photo and it's not the girl in the photo. Baited you with a hottie, and tried to hook you with a heroin addict. In this situation, it wasn't bait and switch. It was the girl, but she was showing off photos that were of the old, smaller her, and not the new bigger her. The outrage about KK is remarkable. I'm not defending this woman (haven't met her) but are we forgetting that many of the highly regarded women recommended on this site are a lot bigger than either the reviews let on or their photos reveal? I was recently with a long-standing SP who is on this board, and who has been on EC for several years, and she was much bigger than her photos or reviews revealed. Her service was excellent and although I would have preferred she had a bit less in the mashed potato department, I had a good time. Repeat? Not sure. Another upscale SP who is very, very good at what she does nonetheless is way, WAY bigger than she or anyone else lets on. I have been stunned, in fact, that no one has ever posted a review that reveals that. Live and learn. I don't like SPs who hide their true dimensions but I understand how it happens. But seriously, the pooners are the real culprit here. I've read reviews, taken the "not BBW but full-figured" hook and been presented with a much larger, much less fit-than-promised SP. Shit happens. So, those of you who are sweating KK's few extra pounds, give your head a shake. We all look for that size 2, and we're more than prepared to roll around with a size 14 and not say much about it either way.

You're the bomb, man. Thanks.

Okay, so if there's any intrigue, it's that the reviews are all positive but rather Spartan in their details. Some MPs provide standard fare, some go to FS. Some are firm on pricing, others scam you for a la carte items. This is just research; no one is writing an expose here. Like a lot of hobbyists, I'm always concerned about arriving at a place where I don't know the ground rules and then succumbing to the first enticing booty that shakes in my direction, and throwing caution (and my cash) to the wind. I was also intrigued about the membership fee. I'm aware of the legal history to this fee structure, and not opposed, but then again I don't go to Costco because I can go to so many other grocery stores, get the same thing and I don't have to pay a fee just for the privilege of giving someone my money. I'm quite convinced CMJ is a wonderful institution, very high end and (to the pooners on this board) almost a can't miss. On the other hand, you guys sound a bit like you've all sipped from the same kool-aid kettle. I;m from out of town and the PM option is supposed to be for fellow hobbyists to share the secrets of the trade. Sort of an honor among hobbyists thing. If you can't dig that, it's no biggie. But you shouldn't get uptight because someone asked. BTW - if you come to my town, and take the time to ask, I'll give you the recipe for the secret sauce and will good for doing it.

Sorry to be so thick, but could someone tell me what services are offered in the friendly confines of CMJ? I know how well-reviewed this business is on this board but I'm out of town and would like the no-BS, CERB scoop. Rates, services offered. Lots of recommendations for ladies - that's no problem. PM me if you'd prefer.

Not to dwell on the cosmetic things, but is Marie good looking or not. I sense more reviews on the "good looking" side but others, not so much. And what of her age - is she closer to 30 or 40? The skill and price seem to make for a great package. I'd just like to know about the wrapping as well.

Call me choosy, but I was lucky enough to find an indy MA in Toronto who not only gave a wonderful, penetrating massage, but liked to kiss. It was the most fantastic combination. I'm not a FS guy, but do like the snogging. Are there any indies in Ottawa that offer that service as a plus? Fingers crossed on my end. PM if you must. SG

Saw her recently. On the phone, she seems very exuberant, talkative. Those are things I like in a SP, so I took the plunge. In-call near Grant Park is okay, not great, but the location is low-profile so that works. She is attractive and I would say the photos are accurate. Service-wise, she gives fantastic CBJ. In fact, she is making me reconsider this as a form of pleasure; many times I pass on the CBJ, and don't encourage BBJ for obvious reasons, but she was really into it and it was reflected in my fantastic erection. On this occasion, she actually asked for FS, cause she hadn't had any in a while. If it was a line, it was a good one because she hopped on and had a thundering O, and then did me with great relish. On the downside, she's a smoker and I didn't care for that. Also, she specifically said DFK was on the menu, but at the in-call the real passionate kisses were saved for the home front. Sheesh. On that note, why offer DFK when you really prefer LFK and the client can decide if that's going to float his boat or not. I mention this because it was the second SP in a row who claimed DFK and turned in a tight-lipped, closed-mouth performance. Thoughts?

She is very, very charming. Very friendly. Massage is above average but then again, I've always believed the quality of the massage is a YMMV sort of thing. Finish is excellent. If you like lots of pleasant, sexy conversation, she's your girl. No FS for sure and additional items are on and off the menu depending on when you see her. (A woman's prerogative always triumphs in these situations.) Overall, very good value for Winnipeg, which is horribly under served in this area. Recommended highly.