namssa

Great to hear! Best wishes.

Ahhh.......Cato, you are the first on on this board to figure that out. Took about 18 months for the first mention on another board after joining. Jackie, you are a real sweetheart as well, you took my pooning cherry with grace and class. You were patient with me, as I was pretty nervous and you set my path for awesome Indie Girls. Thank you, Jackie.:bowdown::bowdown::bowdown:

To the OP, I do not think you have much to be really worried about here. Someone is just trying to prey on your fears and get inside your head. For the most part I would just ignore them, it is very unlikely that you will be able to change their mind through a debate. I had a somewhat similar experience where I sent an email in response to a CL ad, but a person that was not supposed to see it, found it and emailed me. I was told they had my IP address and home address and that the authorities were on their way over and I was threatened with bodily harm as well. I laughed it off as I had done nothing illegal, and told them that they were full of crap and did not have anything of substance. Nothing ever came of it at all, it just went away.

I can certainly understand where you are coming from, thedriver. It can sometimes seem to be a daunting task to come up with a reference for some SP's. Given your situation, this is what I would do, if I had a similar dilemma. I would research and find a local SP that you could see a couple times a year and could build a rapport with over time. You could have something positive about you that stands out in her mind, so that she remembers. Ask if you can use her as a reference once in a while. Keep in contact with her occasionally via PM or email so she remembers you. If you do use her as a reference, ensure that you send her a message ahead of time, so that she is aware to expect an inquiry. If everything goes well and you get to see the new girl, drop your reference a quick thank you note. Also, most SP's will work with you if you have a "situation". Another thing you can do is become an active, positive and regular contributor to CERB and she can see your personality and general attitude. I have been lucky enough to be able to use my posts on a forum as a reference of sorts to see a new girl. Hope this helps. namssa

Just thought I would drop a note to any Alberta guys (and gals) that might be interested in seeing Ms. Emily Marie. She will be here the first part of February for your pleasure. Edmonton: February 8th 3pm ? 15th 11am Red Deer: February 15th 3pm ? 17th 11am Calgary: February 17th 3pm ? 23th 1pm

Usually through emails or PM's and my discussions with an SP setting up a session I will discover something mentioned in passing that might suffice as a gift. I also ensure that I visit the SP's website if she has one and thoroughly read any recent reviews for clues as to might make a good small gift for a lady I am seeing. Fruit in some form, some specialty water, Starbucks coffee or perhaps a wine on a rare occasion make a good gift for a first meeting. Make sure you research well though to ensure your gift is appropriate and not expensive. No sense in bringing wine to a session if you girl is perhaps a solid member of AA, that is just bad form. Same goes for say bringing coffee if the girl does not like it at all. Pay attention and you can pretty much find something that will work.

No vaccine for me. Getting the virus and having your body naturally fight it makes your body stronger and better able to challenge the next infiltrator to you immune system. Guess it is the saying, "What does not kill you makes you stronger" thinking. Basically, the more you stress your body and have it do things naturally, the stronger you become overall. Not meaning life stress that leads to depression, suicide and such, but rather the every day life stresses. IMHO, taking lots of meds and being an obsessively clean person really does not do your body any favours. Better to let your body fight germs naturally.

There is no real reason to be concerned about the check in counter, just walk in like you belong there. Be polite, discrete, just like you would every day. If I walk past the people cleaning the rooms, I make sure to say "Hi" to them. Everyone at the hotel, from the desk clerks to the cleaning people are too busy and have too much going on to take much notice.....unless you stand out in a peculiar way. Just make sure that you don't draw too much attention to yourself and you will be fine. Hotel or private incall are my preference.....something kinda naughty about each of them for me.

Happy Birthday SA, my friend. Hope that you had a good one!!

Just a quick note to anyone in the Medicine Hat area at the end of January, beginning of February, 2011. Keissy Hennessey will be in the city and Crystal X the resident "Sex Kitten Nympho" would make an awesome spinner duo to enjoy. That would be a great way to start off the new year and pretty difficult to top. I am not sure if Keissy does duos though, but something tells me that this would be possible. Damn, I wish I lived in Med. Hat right now.

Rule of thumb would be "slow and easy wins the race", make sure you use lots of lube and listen/be aware of your partner. Make sure that you are not coercing anyone into doing something they might not really want to do. I was never nervous about Greek my first time doing anal with a woman (yes, have only done it with women, lol). I pretty much knew the drill, the problem that I had was finding a young lady that was interested. Once I found the right candidate, I eased on in and it was all good. Reminds me that it has been a while and it is time to make another visit to the Isles.

Ottawa is a fantastic city to visit. Have fun and enjoy!

Most of the girls that I see are travelling SP's and I see them at their hotel incall mostly. There are a few girls that I see at their private residence in the big cities and a couple of them use a second apartment or condo as their incall, so not their primary residence. Occasionally I visit a MP, but that is becoming less frequent. I would not see any SP's at my home due to my personal situation. I would and have seen SP's at their private residence for a session. Not sure how the ladies work it, but I would think/hope that not just any guy gets an invitation to see a lady at her home. I think the ladies feel much safer at home for the most part. Perhaps the guys that visit are known to be of good character and his posts and reviews are researched by the SP to help judge if he should be admitted. Feeling is much more sensual and erotic seeing a girl at her place (helps for that GFE feel) and some ladies have a great set up. One girl I see has a basement suite in her home set up as her incall and she has done a very nice job setting things up. Everything you need is at hand, and when she is done and you leave, she only has to go upstairs and she is home.

Antlerman and Megan'sTouch offer some great advice. Suggest that you read it a couple times and come up with a scenario in your mind and you will be almost there. The toughest part is going inside the studio and getting that first session. In fact, the first few will be stressful but after about 3-4 it will start to get easier and the butterflies will go away. We have all had that first one and it is the most difficult. Go in there with a positive spirit and confidence, smile and be polite and you will have no problems.

Although the OP did not a actually ask a question in his post, it can be assumed that he is indeed looking for information on how to go about getting a reference from a SP. One thing I did note that could potentially be a concern is the personal information that OP provides to the SP that he wants to see. Of course, 99.8% of the ladies on CERB are upstanding and there is no reason to have concerns about their integrity. There is however, a small percentage of ladies that could possibly use some personal information that the OP may divulge to harm him in some way should the relationship turn bad. Be very careful about any identifying and personal information that you may provide. Although this is a very small concern, I feel that it is something that should be pointed out to anyone that may be new and not be aware of what could possibly happen. The following I have taken from another post that I made in another similar thread and modified it to suit the OP's question. As a new member with no references and very few postings, it can be difficult to see the occasional SP if they request one. When I started a few years ago, I was in exactly the same situation. I read the boards thoroughly for about 3 months to absorb all the information and techniques for how to approach this hobby. Although you don't need to read for that long, I would suggest reading quite a lot in the beginning, especially the newbies section, the sticky's and learn all that you can, it will pay off in spades down the road. After you have a good feel how CERB works and have a good feel for things, find a good quality lady to see that does not require a reference, I suggest one that has good recommendations here, you are attracted to and meets any other requirements you have. Note any requirements she has for contact, meeting, donations, etc. and follow them. Be polite when you contact her, be very clear in what you are looking for and understand what she is offering in a session. When you have found the girl you want, book a session, make sure you are very well groomed, dressed nicely, polite and friendly when you meet. Arrive a few minutes early if you are going to see her, and follow her rules (phone or text when you are near, etc) for contact, be very discrete if you are seeing her at her hotel or incall. When you get to her door, knock quietly and wait, it will seem like a long time, but it is not, lol. When the door opens, she will likely be behind it and poke her head out....smile and quietly say, "hi", and in you go. After the session, if you had a great time, take a few minutes and post a recommendation on CERB of your experience. The next thing you should do is contribute to the board whenever you can with accurate and positive information. Become a regular contributor, the girls will read and note your posts and your recommendation will be noted in memory of future girls that you see. Build a good, solid reputation as a great guy for the ladies to see and as a good contributor to CERB. If you do the above, you will be able to use many of the girls that you have seen for a reference. Before using a lady as a reference, make sure you ask them and have their approval. You may want to BCC the lady that is the reference the information that you send to the lady seeking the reference so that she is fully aware of what you have sent. This could prevent some possible miscommunication between the ladies in question. If you do the above, it will take you a long way to seeing the ladies that request a reference and you will be able to provide one with ease and confidence. After some time, your reputation may precede you and in some cases you may not be asked for a reference even though the lady states that she needs one. I hope the above may help you in your endeavour to see some of these fine ladies. namssa