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Are you saying that you can judge whether or not someone is a "true gentleman" simply by the original email I sent? Well, unfortunately for you and many others who judge too quickly (if I may be so bold to say), I've been told time and time again that I'm one sweet gentleman in person (and that's AFTER sending emails as explicit as the one I sent). Simply responding to an SPs request to "tell me your fantasies" with some detail is an honest, respectful and gentlemanly thing to do. Who are you, not even having met me, to come off saying that I'm any less of a true gentleman for responding the SPs invitation to me sharing my fantasies with her?! Sheeesh!!!

Pure eloquence, suburb1.

Veronica, I am so glad that that "thorn in your side" has finally been removed!! I had no idea when I saw you that you were under such undue stress! You were as charming and sizzling hot as ever!!! It just shows t'go ya', don't it?! Pick anything in life and there's always someone out there to either f$%ck it up or tear it down!! Guys, plz take my word for it from personal experience. Veronica is well worth any inconvenience there may be in reaching her. I had no problem with the email approach. My initial letter to her was tasteful, but quite descriptive! Obviously she was not offended in any way and I think we hit it off the very 1st time!! Thank you Veronica, for the pleasure of your delicious company!!! Don XOXOXO

Joy, Regarding your comments: Don seriously just do what you have been doing and see how many of the girls will reply to you. If less than half reply then Katia and I are right If more than half reply then you are right and we are wrong Joy, I didn't realize that this was a contest where someone is right or wrong! I had originally wanted to present the experience to the Board for everyones' enlightenment and to stimulate some dialogue regarding the best, most effective way to communicate with an SP. I see by a number of the SPs' reactions that the fear quotient is quite high as far as "entrapment" is concerned or just being weirded out by my comming on too strong. I did want to know how much this actually plays a role in initial communication with an SP. I have discussed the legal issues with an SP and, apparently, there's still confusion as to what is legal and what isn't. With that in mind, I will never send another overly explicit 1st email again, simply because of what I've learned by starting this thread. My original intent was to emphasize the simple fact that I adore giving and receiving pleasure equally (truly my greatest joy is in giving multiple orgasms if the SP is interested and horny enough!!). Is that so gross or bad??!! You see, I don't want to be with an SP who is either too tired or disinterested in her ultimate pleasure. That is paramount for me. If you read my email, you see where ihe general emphasis is. After all, we are here to discuss and learn. It's NEVER a case of who wins or who loses in my books, rather that EVERYONE WINS when we share and discuss relevant topics in a positive and constructive manner and adjust our thinking, if need be, as a result of these discussions.

Ultimate Pleasure, my sincere thanks to you for spelling it out so succinctly, so clearly!! It boils down to a legal issue, whereby discretion is the better part of valor.....'nuf said. I have now learned a valuable lesson....I shall adjust my thinking accordingly.....

Katia, plz describe exactly what you mean by "different kinds of levels" for clients and Providers. Your comment sounds rather elitist. Are you saying that it isn't a question of personal preference, rather that only the lower "levels" (your word) of clients will write such an email and only lower "levels" of Providers will respond? Or, are you saying that clients who write such explicit emails are at a lower "level" and thus, will not receive a response from higher "level" Providers who choose to ignore it out of disgust? Please clarify and thanks in advance.

Perhaps I do feel a bit vindicated, but I won't gloat (hehehe)! By presenting my personal experience to the Board, I am grateful to all for their valuable (or is it INvaluable....never could figure that out..) input...after all, if it could happen to me, then something similar can and often does happen to someone else.....my experience on this Board has been nothing but a positive one...sincere thanks to ALL who design, maintain it....and , of course, here's to all of us eager participants!!! ...pant, pant.....xoxoxo (he then breaks into song....a la Bob Hope...) "thanks...for the mammaries;)"....uh,...i mean,....memories:D....."...and, to finish off with one of Hollywood's finest and most famous lines, "l'll be back...:cool:"!!.... it's been real....carry on....up the kyber.....Cor!!!

The more I read of you, Hot Stuff Heidi, the more intrigued I am!!! As for Greek, I would never, in my words, assault a woman in that manner unless a woman expressed an interest in such an activity as adding pleasure to her encounter....after all,nerve endings are nerve endings....if treated with respect and sensitivity...it can add to the ultimate pleasure of the encounter, right?!..a gentle probing with a finger, tongue...but , different strokes for different folks...that's why honest communication is so valuable...

Yes, MrNiceGuy, I did think of that, but nowhere did I ever mention money. If we as a society can't send emails to people in confidence, then wtf!!? She wouldn't have to respond in any sort of similar detail either, just a simple "sounds interesting and exciting...". That way I would know that I'm not way off base with the SP in question....after all, she mentions the sexual things she does on her personal website!!! Why can't I?!

This YMMV term is totally valid, but why do both partners have to wait until meeting in person to find out how much they are incompatible because information was "undershared" in the initial email stage?! Seems to me it would be best to know ahead of time before a disappointing experience...unless the intention of the SP is 1st and foremost to get the money and the clients' interests are secondary... As for respect, she said that she was in school and said, "I'm not like other SP's that simply claim to be in school to sound better." A bit judgemental, perhaps? Where's the respect for her fellow SPs there?

Suburb1, thanks for your kind words....and you took the words right out....I agree with you and Joy (and, of course, HSHeidi!!)....there's nothing wrong with being explicit, it's just that the client would probably be best served and receive more replies by using Joy's initial email wording and hold off on the juicy details until the 2nd email (waiting in person is WAY too late, in my humble opinion!!). Joy your wording, "..I liked the way you present yourself and would be interested in discussing particulars for a meeting if it doesn't offend you".. would refer to a 2nd email, although you did mention waiting to see the SP in person 1st before describing wants and desires....not a good idea in my opinion. I'm also curious about using the word "offend". It kind of scares me as I think that, in the mind of the SP, she might receive something offensive or disgusting....NEVER my intention. How about, "If you don't mind me discussing details in my next email, I would like to share my desires/preferences with you...nothing gross or demeaning..just good, traditional hot sex!!!" Would that work for you, Joy?! I definitely wouldn't like to talk about it when I finally meet up...that's where and when the spontaneity is crucial!! And, of course, it's not like we have to go through a checklist as each deed is performed....lol!! If certain "activities" don't occur the 1st time but both partners are equally satisfied, then things can evolve naturally with each successive encounter. That's why I mentioned about a long term arrangement. Only then does the fun REALLY begin, when both are more comfortable and can truly express their sexuality!!! I sincerely believe that I worded my initial email respectfully (nothing, gross, demeaning, no profanity, etc...) but there may be some who would consider my 1st contact too detailed. Point well taken. As for Hot Stuff Heidi, I'm thrilled and definitely enticed by your reply....perhaps we can meet sometime and exchange ideas!!!!

Joy, I couldn't agree with you more!! It definitely IS about respect; respect toward the SP for sure (any idiot should know that....Quick, find me an idiot!!) but ALSO about respect for the client as in a quicker rsponse from the SP rather than waiting 3 or 4 emails later before finally responding. In my last attempt before she replied, I did ask if I was too explicit. Why did I have to drag a reply out of her? If she wanted to do a little research on me, she would have seen a couple of my reviews on CERB; ALWAYS with me showing great respect fot the SPs I've seen and offering glowing praise for their "attentions". Also, I wasn't too thrilled to find out that her ad was misleading as to offering incall when she no longer does. Where's the respect for the client there? That was a big waste of time for both of us for nothing. I asked her to see about changing her ad to accurately reflect her services (NO Ottawa incall); no change yet, I see. Either that, or it was a lame excuse to get me off her back. Unfortunately, it often happens that some of us clean, honorable, respectful guys have to suffer for the sins of others'. It goes both ways, too. I sure wouldn't like to see or be involved with pre-judging an SP without taking a bit of time to learn about where they're coming from on a personal level..That was all I was attempting to do.

Joy, I never asked for a facial! Why would you say that? And I also mentioned very clearly that I apologized for the "shopping list". What is the specific reason that an SP would be turned off by my email? Isn't it better to know certain preferences right up front from the start and avoid any disappointments after money has been paid?

Recently i sent an email request to an SP ad on E.C. Her ad clearly stated "let me know your fantasies"....I'm not going to mention the name of the SP, but I replied as follows; Dear ....., Love your pics and your description of your services!! I'm a 40+ married man, 2 kids, squeaky clean, discretion a must for me! I'm very sensual and I enjoy using my oral and manual skills as well as any number of positions (miss., doggie are my favs) for the ultimate satisfaction of my partner. I can only truly enjoy myself if my partner is having lots of fun!! I get at least at much satisfaction from giving as getting!!! Also, the chemistry between us is so important for a good connection and satisfying encounter! If we feel comfortable with each other, I would enjoy an ongoing, long-term mutually satisfying intimate relationship with you as I find your physical and personality attributes to be very much what I would consider a perfect fit for me!!! I am often free in the early afternoons on weekdays. There are also times when I could be free in the later evenings. Some things that really float my boat!!: - a warm, inviting personality, cute face, sweet smile, good sense of humor (you appear to have all of those, my dear, especially after having read many wonderful things about you on review boards!) - DATY (oral and manual plus whatever toys you like ....mmmmm...). Face-sitting a must!! - your gorgeous, beautifully-shaped breasts which I would love to gently massage and suck on... - a cute bubble butt (I'm imaginning doggie style and a nice, arched back to present your booty so elegantly....yummy!!..) - miss., doggie plus whatever your fav. position is... - bbbj - sensuality, light touching/fondling/flicking of you with fingers, tongue, lips...... - multiple orgasms from you!! - I'm usually a one-timer ssog, but I like to make it last and then finally explode! I apologize for the "shopping list" above. Spontaneity is always the basis for a truly memorable experience. I just hought I should be up front at the start and let you know where I'm cumming from Please let me know if I can proceed to arranging a time with you within the next couple of weeks. Hugs 'n gentle kisses until then, Don xoxoxo end of email. I didn't hear back for a while. After 3 or 4 requests for a simple reply, she told me that my original request email was "far too explicit!!" I'm not going to judge the SP that she "should" respond and feel ok about my request and the way I described my fantasies. I jut want to know if I'm way off base to have expressed my fantasies in the way I did (as per HER request on her ad). She also said that she no longer does Incall in Ottawa which is contradictory to what her ad says. I would never have bothered her if I had known that in the 1st place. More importantly, is there a certain etiquette for email enquiries or is it strictly a personal choice? I have sent similar emails in the past, never with any negative feedback. Thoughts, anyone?

Guys, any way u slice it, it's ALWAYS a "spankin" good time with Alexxxis.... N.B. i think it's a British expression meaning "lots of good, clean fun"....har, har,..jolly good, what?!.... miss u already, Alexxxis...xoxoxo

I saw Veronica last summer for my one and only encounter wth her (so far). I had always intended to provide a review (forgive my delay, Veronica) so this is the perfect opportunity to offer my own 2 cents. My hour with Veronica was an incredible experience for me!! I arrived at her condo on a hot, steamy August day. Right off the bat I gotta say that most of her pics don't even come close to portraying her true natural beauty and vivacious personality in the flesh!!. She was super sexy in her red outfit and I loved her blonde hair with those cute bangs! To be honest, I was not at my best (fatigue) yet she got the "ball rolling" ..lol..with an incredible bbbj. I remember saying, "You spoil me so good, baby" and she replied with "that's what I'm here for"!. Then she started on top and I enjoyed the full view of her pretty face and full, firm breasts bouncing in my face. From there, I enjoyed a most delicious DATY. She was very vocal and appreciative of my oral efforts (I adore that kind of feedback!!). I love to make a woman cum that way and she let me know in no uncertain terms of my success!! Then we did miss. (her legs were pulled up right to her ears for deep penetration...mmmm....I get hard just thinking about it!) and I had a grand finish in doggie style which was so satisfying that my plan for another sog was futile ('cause of my fatigue that day, too). She proceeded to give me a most skillful and deep back massage, talking very knowledgeably about my various aches and pains and offering good advice. The hour flew by!! She was very genuine and sweet the whole time I was there. Within moments of leaving I texted her a thankyou note which she responded to very positively shortly after. I contacted her by email at a later date to enquire about her availability and she replied quickly, but I was not able to get my shit together (money, schedule) for another encounter. For my 1st time with her (hopefully not the last, lovely Veronica), we shared a good connection, I thought. My only problem was with the rate which I see she has adjusted. Believe me, if I had sufficient cash flow, she would be a regular for me!!! I have a sure feeling that future encounters (if I'm so blessed to see her again soon!) will get more and more intense and satisfying !! Thank you, Veronica for an unforgettable, sizzling hot 1st experience with many more to cum I hope!!

Ooopps!! Did I forget to mention her oral skills?!......So sorry, sweet, sensual Alexxxis...my supreme bad....Fellas, words cannot express....

I confess...I am a virgin...this is the official breaking of my cherry...my first official review!!! ( the odd clap.....x...x....x). But, for real, all you gentlemen out there who recognize true "artistry" in someone dedicated to providing an paralleled service in the industry...this is NOT B.S., mes amigos, but the personal, (5th time vsit and so proud of it) review from me, just a guy, of one dear, sweet, sensual fabulous Alexxxis....... Let's get right to it...quick question: Did you ever cum SO good and for SO long that your knees were shaking and you almost passed out?!.......meanwhile, the hour you've spent in paradise has been full of delectable delights...like a walk through sensual paradise (exquisite DATY with plenty of vocal "encouragements"....an EXTREMELY sensual experience with someone who is VERY attentive, vocal, relaxed...responsive beyond belief...a gorgeous, natural rack that deserves alot of delicate, yet purposeful attention.....legs up to her neck... Each time I've seen her she has worn a different outfit, since I never requested anything specific. Each time she seemed to gauge how I would like to see her; once it was, schoolgirl, then sensual European in a flowing b&w dress that showed off her gorgeous cleavage, all for the gentle fondling...I've enjoyed, miss., rev. cowgirl (one of her favs', from what I recall of session #1.....yahoo!!)., mult. org. from her, plenty of natural "communication"...msog...my biggest fear is that she'll get so busy that I'll be pushed aside in the rush....but, y'know...I'll find some way of carving out a delicious slice of time with this gem, you can be sure of that...!!!

Nice review, Brando!! No need for details!! The essence is what counts!! I have yet to sample the vast and ample riches of PK, but I'm starting to thing I've been going about this all wrong!!! I did, however, have the wonderful experience of an ES in Quebec City and it worked out incredibly well!! I spent time with a VERY special woman who was equally appreciative of me, something that REALLY gets me hot!!!

Thanks Pete, I've booked with her in Toronto for next weekend. Have you seen her? Any suggestions as to what she likes?

mrniceguy, Great news!! Thanks! I've emailed her already!! ..hope she has as much fun with me lol!!

Thanks funguy22 for the review. Sorry you had to toftt...I'll pass. I owe you a beer!

Would you be sokind as to pm me too on this "Candy Shop"? Much obliged!

Can anyone offer a review of Chantal? Otherwise, I'm looking at SPs in the Ottawa region or those who visit.

Would anyone have any recommendations as to SPs they enjoy who love cumming, hopefully more than once during a session? The louder the better !! I LOVE it when a woman gets as much of a thrill from a hot session as I do...REALLY makes it all worthwhile for me! Also, anyone know an SP who squirts. That would be a fantasy cum true for me!! Any leads great appreciated!