loneskater

I do have a few things in mind. Or maybe I am thinking of things you should not wear lol. However you would need a trench coat to get there, just so you don't cause too many accidents out on the street :icon_smile:

I didn't assume anything. If u read the post previous to mine, that I quoted in my response, it is that member who mentioned: quote Or, more likely, the SP thinks you are mentioning this request in order to get a discount unquote. Neither that member or I said he was trying to get a deal we just said maybe some ladies think that since never heard of this situation being a problem. Maybe before accusing others of assuming things you should follow your own advice by reading their post properly!

Exactly!!! I have been in this business for over 30 years. I seen many SPs/MAs all across Canada and abroad and I never met any that were not willing to put there hands on my wiener. I even had to mention a few times its not an orange, no need to squeeze it tight to get the juices out lol As long as your willing to pay their regular rates, Ladies will just sit and talk if that's all you want.. Therefore the OP must be coming across as wanting just a hj for a lower rate!!!

Welcome to the board! Nice to pick a handle based on a favorite character, however since you are male, using a female (Danielle) handle will be misleading to the other board members. When they read comments from "Danielle" they will think you are a provider and will have to go check your profile to find out Danielle is male!!! Maybe you should reconsider your handle or at least the spelling!!!

No we have not considered it because this is the first time we are organising the social. Their didn't seem to be anything rolling about the next one so we decided we would organize it. We are doing this on a volunteer and free basis. None of us will be taking money from the door fee to pay for our time and gas to get this on the go. As simple as it may seems, it still involve finding and checking out the venue. Checking on the food and so on. Something that requires going to the location. However there is no ownership on organizing a social. The East Coast will be having their second one soon and did not require our assistance to organize it. Therefore if you feel a social should be held in Kingston, feel free to get the ball rolling. We will gladly share lessons learned with you in order to help. Good place to start, if you want Ottawa people to participate, is do a survey to see how many want to drive all the way to Kingston for an "OT social". If the date works I would be interested in attending.

As was mentioned in the pre-planning thread, the Sep social will be held at a new venue. Main reason behind, is that our previous location was becoming to public. This is the second time we have to change location for discretion purposes. There aren't too many places in the downtown core that can hold such a large group on Thursday so we would like to keep the same place for a while. Therefore I would like to remind everyone that the location is on a need to know basis. It will not be revealed until much later and only to those that are attending. So please keep it to yourself. All we will revealed for now is that it is in the downtown core so easy to get there by various transportation means. Keep in mind that discretion is extremely important in this business for ladies and gents. This is suppose to be an office party (meet and greet) so we have to be careful of what is being said in front of the staff. Also use of certain handles should be avoided. I don't think many offices has someone named Loneskater!!! Hope everyone has a great time and gets to meet new people. MisterT and I have already done a quality assurance check on the beer. it did meet our standards on all our visits. lol

Personally, I don't negotiate on rates. I once had a reg that moved away but would visit once in a while. Had an unexpected bill pop up during one of her visit to town so couldn't afford her rate at that specific time. She offered me a reduce rate since I had seen her many times but I didn't accept it as I felt if I was to see her I would pay her normal rate. However just saw this in shout: "Available tonight, prices negotiable." Hard to blame ppl for wanting to negotiate! I

So far seems most are happy with holding the next social on Thursday. Nice to take Friday off for those who can. I sure do but then I take every day off lol. Still no clear differences on which week. If anyone wants to add their comment please do so soon . Although seems summer is just starting, we will need to confirm the venue soon. Looking forward to meeting familiar faces again and hope other members come and enjoy the evening. If you never attended check out the feedback from previous socials. Its always an enjoyable event.

Happy bday! Have a most wonderful day!

Bonne Fete Evelyne! J'espere que tu aura une merveilleuse journee remplie de bons souvenirs!!!

Maybe it's me overreacting here and if so I apologize to the board and the above members. However, those sunshine girls pics usually have a little blur that accompanies the pic, a blur that usually reveals personal information about the lady that could identify her. One of the main thing about this business is discretion. Any personal info reveal here even if indirectly done breaks discretion. it also has no value to members in deciding which lady they would like to visit. I am not sure if clients would be very happy had they appeared in the newspaper for some reason and a lady posted it here. We also need to respect the ladies privacy. What they do outside of CERB is their own business, and it should be up top them to decide if they want any of it mentioned on this board. Again sorry If I am overreacting on this thread. I just don't think it show go on!!!

Well things happen and people sometimes make nervous mistakes or their nervousness cloud their judgement. I once had a reg SP that preferred coming to my place. So on her 2nd visit we never discussed my location again as I am located on a street corner and easy to remember the place. Unfortunately the neighbor on the next street corner who's house is similar to mine, except for color, bought a pick up truck same color and brand as mine with very little differences. So as the RV time approached, I peaked out my window and saw her pull into the other guy's driveway. I rushed to my door and shouted at her and caught her attention seconds before she rang his doorbell. We laughed at this every time we met afterwards. Thing is she had been at my place before and knew I was on the 2nd street corner but she got distracted by the other truck.. So I can understand some ppl making mistakes on a first visit.

I agree with your comment. Also according to CERB rules reccos are a client area( Male or female) and providers are not allowed to comment in there. If a provider disagrees with a recco she is to contact MOD about it. The writer doesn't have to clear reccos with the provider in question. I also know that MOD would reprimand any provider that ask a client for a recco. As long as there are no negative comments its up to the writer to express himself. I do however make it a point to ask ladies before hand if they like reccos to be detailed or not. That is a personal choice not an obligation. Beside giving me their preference, I never had ladies that wanted to review my recco prior to posting it.

Not sure if things changed out east since I left in 2005 but I do know around here I don't pay cancellation fees to see a physician or a dentist provided I call to cancel. its the same with many other services. Over the years I only cancelled once on an SP and I been in this business since Thanksgiving weekend in 1981. Many here weren't even born then. My word is very important to me. I can say I had many more SPs cancel on me and again never expected something in return for next visit. and even if they do say will give you longer time next time!!! Will there be a next time or will it be like my last regular here who moved over the Holidays, owing me a large amount of money who seems to avoid getting back to me when I bring up the money she owes me. There maybe some bad clients but there are some bad SPs as well who love to be on CERB so they can get the protection about the fact we "clients" can't write anything negative here. It's a 2 way street here. U certainly would not like to be judge based on experiences with other ladies. Same goes for clients. It's easy to promise something for next encounter but there are no guaranties this would happen. This business is about respect both ways and putting all the great members in the same pile as those who are no shows or constantly cancel on ladies is not the best and I am sure unless every SP?MA's were to have an extra charge for cancellations, those with such a policy might see their business slow down. Again many of us make it a point to show up when we book however things can happen. An SP once told me her client hit a deer on his way up and he showed her proof of it next time he saw her. She didn't charge him a cancellation fee.

If I meet a new lady and she has a website I do take the time to read her etiquette and restrictions sections. I also look at what is in her ads. I like to meet as prepared as I can be so I don't have to ask tons of questions when we meet. As for cancellation fee, we should remember it's a two way street. I had ladies cancel on me as well many times over the years. When it happens last minute it can be as frustrating for a client as it is for the provider. As an example, I once planned a meeting with a lady over an extended lunch hr. Because she was not located downtown meant I had to drive to work that day. I normally took the bus and had a monthly bus pass. Also needed to pay for parking twice cause lot was full on return so had to pay for another place. I had no issues with extra cost to see this lady however the one day she cancelled on me as I was one KM away from her place. It was very frustrating, however I was very understanding of her situation and we agreed to get in touch later to re-schedule. I never at any time even hinted to her about the cost I incur or did I ask for a rebate on my next Apt. Things happened in any business. I understand this is the lady's livelihood but then any self-employed person who offer services is in the same situation. That's why they set prices accordingly! If u budget expecting things won't happen then U will come up short many times. Keep in mind that without clients, there are no need for providers. If ur going to charge a cancellation fee then what when you need to cancel? In this business like any other business there has to be some understanding and room for honesty. I saw a website recently where the lady said she would charge a fee after 3 cancellations from the same person. I thought this was fair. if a client cancels that often maybe he has planning issues. I have quite a few ladies cancel last minute on me over the years. Most time I was provided with a good reason at the time or ASAP afterwards. Never money was brought up on both parts. Things do happen and if someone is in this business and think there will never be cancellations then you are living in the land of dreams. However if a person has got a reputation for cancelling often or is a "no show" then its a different story. Understanding, honesty and good communication between both party can go a long way in this business and is a great way of ensuring an enjoyable meeting.

The socials will never be the same that's for sure! Wishing you the best in all your present and future endeavours. It was a pleasure meeting you at all the socials and having early morning conversations in chat. You will certainly ne missed here in CERB as well. Best of luck, enjoy life and many wonderful trips!!!

Doggy style, standing with the lady at the edge of the bed or on a couch. Hard to describe but when u cum standing up there is also some feeling going through the legs. Its like having a complete workout. I also like cowgirl and missionary with the ladies legs wrap around my back.

So true and even for incalls don't leave any traces around like a phone number on a piece of paper in a pocket etc... I have known quite a few ladies who have received calls from angry wives of girlfriends.

The way this is written makes it sound that those that are on here don't have a great life. I wouldn't assume anything about ppl that leave the board. Many have been here on and off. This is a lady I saw numerous times and will always wish her the best.

Having lived in Halifax for 5 years in the 2000, I would love to go as well but I will be driving to Chicago on the 20th. However, at least I will be attending the next OT social as I always do. Wish you all a great time!

Happy bday! Hope you have an awesome and memorable day!

I thought I seen something about this a while ago but could not find it. I rarely look at my rep points however someone told me earlier they were going backwards. So I checked mine and they did although I got more "Thanked post" Are we having a glitch again?

Look at the following thread. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=1311

Thought this might interest some people. Hoping the hot weather might stick around soon, I was watching a news segment about sunscreen and sunblock. After showing the different protection we should be using they showed a few meds, who actually have opposite effect on the body and will increase the chances of getting a sunburn. One of those is Viagra. So if someone uses Viagra, he should not be going out in the sun immediately after!!!