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Hey etasman, you must be old too! hehehe...

Cumquat, I must agree with you there. If you shoot your load in 5 minutes, too bad. Shoulda strapped on 3 rubbers! :) The other day this beautiful girl I know said her last client pulled out $40 and said that's all he's got and left. She cried. When I was leaving she took my money and said "Do I need to count this? Are you going to make me cry too?" That was a little rude of her, but I know where she was coming from and I told her she doesn't need to count it. I offered to slash the first guys tires if she felt like giving me his name.....but I won't tell you the rest of this story. :twisted:

It's a fad that I don't think will last. I use the "What are you doing?" on Facebook but it gets a little boring after a while too. We're all searching for that quick high, Twitter is it right now. Facebook was it last year. Before it was Yahoo, or AOL. Before that it was Freenet (remember that?) and even before that (I'm doing to date myself here) it was exciting to get Lynx working! And before that? Just getting a modem to connect to another computer and type "Hi" was a total thrill!

The problem is, SP advertises $X/hour so you show up and she smells like an ashtray, gives a lousy BJ and does the worst fake moan you've ever heard. Oh ya, she says BBBJ will be extra if you want that. You feel jipped! I mean, she didn't advertise this? All the reviews were great...I thought I was getting a Big Mac and I got a cheeseburger instead. So then the next time I go see a new SP I've never seen I'm thinking in my head "What if she's like the last girl? What if all the reviews are BS? Maybe I should try to pay a little less and if the service is good then I'll tip her?" I don't know...there's many sides to this debate. I've had SP's waiver on what they want to charge and ask me what I think it's worth....so I shoot a number out and they say "Okay, sounds good" but then I wonder what kinda service I'm going to get? What if an SP offers me a reduced rate in exchange for being a regular client, or because she likes me or because I give her a great foot massage every time? Am I an asshole for accepting the lower offer? I won't lie, any extra money in my own wallet is a good thing and times are tough, everyone needs all the cash they can get! All this being said, I always pay what I'm asked and quite often bring gifts and/or tip.

When self-pleasuring myself I will go after my nipples, but when with a girl I'm kinda shy and embarrassed to play with them, instead I figure SHE should play with them....but now I see the light! It's a two-way street really....when I see a girl playing with her nipples it's a big turn on for me too, so now I get it! I shouldn't be shy, I should just do it. Thanks ladies!

Interesting responses guys (and gals). I guess a poll doesn't really apply to this subject, there are too many variables...but I did one anyway. There is also the whole dominant thing about getting a BJ. Girl on her knees, or laying down lower than you, holding her hair or face or head..it's great! Now a 69 is great too, but it's more like a equal sharing kinda thing, not good for every situation. Just my

I'm sorry, but only a few women seem to give me the kinda BJ I really like. BBBJ is definitely a bonus (lots of other topics cover this, so let's not go there in this thread) What I DON'T like For some reason, a lot of girls seem to grab my manhood by the shaft and jerk it up and down while doing the BJ, like a HJ instead of the BJ. I don't like it, yet it seems rather prevelant in the hobby. Is this just some way to try and get the guy off faster? Slapping it against your face is okay, but please not too hard! Biting is not good either, neither is sucking so hard I'm left with broken blood vessel marks! What I DO like For starters, a girl that can DT is way up there in my books. I also like it when you hold it by the base and pull the skin down a little, so it's tighter. I definitely like a strong sucker, some up and down action, eye contact, BLS, long licks from top to bottom, tongue swirling, sucking just the head.....be gentle but determined!

I'm happy to see that some other guys are like me! So ladies, there's no excuse for ignoring our nipples! :)

Well I probably have the worst POS computer around here, so I decided to run this thing. Seemed to work! It found well over 1500 crappy old registry entries and other crap and now I'm about 100% quicker. Mod, you da man!

Well that sucks! I once tried to access anothers email account (just to see how easy it would be) and all I had to do to change this persons password was come up with their pets name. I mean, that's a pretty lame security question, don't you think? No wonder people's emails are getting hacked! Is this how Yahoo and Hotmail and all those places work? One lame security question and you can change the person's password and you're in? I just signed up for an online banking thing and I had to give my left arm! Kind of annoying, but at least I feel peace of mind knowing nobody's going to hack it.

Nice review! Ya, it's a tough call deciding whether to share your great experience and possibly cause an avalanche of business the girls way, thereby making it more difficult for you to see her, or not doing so. Nobody wants to feel like they're getting "sloppy seconds" that's for sure, but in the end, the girl needs the business to stay afloat. Trying hopelessly to keep her all to yourself won't work! It's just jealousy which will just eat you up! Unless of course you can afford to make her a "kept woman" complete with apartment, food, play money, car, boat, jewelry, clothes...holy shit THAT would eat you up even more!

Mod, I like your attitude "We'll purge them after 4-5 years". That shows your commitment to this site and it's users. It's comforting to know the admin is serious and in it for the long haul, and listens to us and comes up with some good answers. Thanks!

I'm trying to hit 1000 posts....long way to go! :)

When the girl screams "Oh Capitalman!" it's really weird.

Pffffttt! Hey man, pass it along man. What was that you said?

Service provider is giving me a pretty nice BBBJ and then her phone rings. She answers it, without stopping on me. "Hello? Ya...uh huh....SLURP! ....ya, okay how about SLURP SUCK a little later? Call me back before you get here 'cause I'm kinda SLURP SPIT SUCK busy at the moment." The bold letters are her making LOUD noises. I didn't know whether to laugh, get mad, leave or cum?

Self opening wallets.

I love that tattoo! I want that!

You'd have to see this girl to know why....it's like a clinic and extra services are sort of a perk, that you have to gently negotiate for or else you'll just get a great therapeutic massage.

Professional office environment? They must be bringing in girls then "test driving" them and making a video....like those sites you see on the 'net with a guy in an office doing different girls every day. Not a bad idea really......:)

It's up to the guys to do a lot of this stuff too! We need to be showered, or prepared to shower there. If we don't have a beard (does anyone actually have a beard nowadays?) we should be clean shaven. I shave my cock and balls too, but I realize not every guy does that....but the ladies love it and I love it too! I try to bring a couple of cold bottles of water with me and when possible I bring a small gift like chocolates or whatever the lady likes (research a bit on their website or whatever first). Not always though, sometimes I think my donation is good enough....depends how rich I'm feeling I guess. Anyhow, good communication is key right? A few emails back and forth before a date is a good idea.

I guess there's as many ways guys like their nipples entertained, as there is guys! I had a hard time making up the poll answers, I wasn't sure what to say.....sorry if I did it weird. Personally I love my nipples played with, sucked on, pulled and eventually biten or pulled hard, but only after they've been warmed up and we're in the heat of the moment. You can't just jump in and grab them! I did once make myself come just by playing with my nipples....but it's hard to do. Nipple clamps are a cool thing too, but again you have to warm up to them. Thanks for all the answers guys!

Marie has a number and wrote me a receipt for $60. Obviously my visit was a little more expensive and involved a little more than just a massage!