Carrie Moon

I didn't mean pressured individually by you or any other patron.. I meant in general to make ends meet and it's highly competitive. okay.. so one more question if you don't mind. You implied that these guests were still paid.. how do you arrange that out of curiousity.. do they bring it up after you invite them that they need to be paid for their time or do you when you invite them? additional comment: I have emotional bonds/attachment to clients without kissing .. just an FYI.. I also had my longest relationship with a man who didn't enjoy kissing and we were very much in love... 6 years. Intimacy/attachment is possible in many many different ways... but you do in fact put that on your list of requirements for an encounter.

Hang in there hun.. we all have those what I call 'theme days' when the next guy seems to be ruder than the last.

Funny to me how this same theme has come up twice in about a month.. about cuddling, kissing a provider and then there may or may not be "full service required" and what the thoughts are on that. I know SA you say this is not about you personally but you have provided your experiences.. so I feel free to once again comment on them. Hope you don't mind. I'm wondering now if your foray into the world of seeing escorts came from initially visiting with dancers and for how long. I'm not a dancer but over the last decade or more it seems that they've encountered a strong pressure to provide sexual acts over and above the previous no touch rule... many also providing ''take out'' service... which is what it sounds like you've been receiving at your home. I would imagine this is much more preferable than getting a private dance in the club and can definitely see why you'd enjoy that. If this is the case and your primary experience has come from this background before outright hiring an escort you've only met online.. there in lies the difference and may be what confuses you now that you've met a few escorts who are not dancers. Keep in mind that many hobbyiests don't have this background and many in fact never venture into strip clubs never mind have the opportunity to have one visit their home.. so they don't have the same experience you do. Also keep in mind that this type of GFE phenomenon is rather new to the escort world and really only been coined and discussed since the internet boom.

Actually you asked if anyone thought you lived in la la land.. more than once so I thought I'd tell you my opinion on that matter. Why ask if you don't want an honest answer? You are describing your personal experiences as backup to your assessment.. so it is open for discussion no?

You claim that several girls you've met as dancers want to be your girlfriend or have been.. what about in the square world? Any who you haven't wooed with financial incentives? Any who you can be sure like you for you? A client of mine held the same view as you..with several sp's including me and by about the 6th regular girl he starting seeing found that the sp who was previously a dancer he first paid for her time.. ''fell in love with him'' and wanted to marry him. He ended up being taken for quite a bit of money before finding out she was not only already married but had no intention of following through on the fantasy he held about her... but rather loathed him. She kept up this pretense for several months. So again.. I say until you take the money out of the equation or gifts for that matter you are probably accustomed to being what I coined with him.. a ''friendship whore''.. as he was also someone who coudn't say no when various friends asked him for favours often in the financial end or borrowing his vehicle, staying at his place when in need of a roof over their head etc etc.. I am one who thinks you live in la la land.. and I don't see why it needs to be one extreme of the other. If you genuinely were interested in the reality of what sp's think.. ask them! ones especially who you are not directly paying for their time. Seems to me you've already decided what you want to see and chose to ignore what most people have actually said on here. As with any employee.. I don't know about you but I couldn't honestly answer to my boss when in the square world.. what I really thought of him to his face if I didn't like him.. for fear of losing my job. Plus I've been in enough strip joints to know what kind of schmoozing must take place to earn money. Not my game. The clients who see me for instance don't ever have a fantasy that I'll date them.. they may ask me to role-play but they are always realistic about why I'm there.. and they are respectful and happy to pay me to fulfill their needs. In my case at least and I know several other sp's who are the same.. we like several of our clients and yes look forward to seeing them regularly... but we also give very good service to the ones we don't look forward to seeing. Most clients do not look to sp's or dancers for possible girlfriends. Consistently blurring the lines makes reality difficult.

well if you look into it.. there were a lot of innocent peaceful protesters put into custody.. not just violent ones. Let's not lump them all together. http://www.prisonplanet.com/peaceful-protesters-attacked-arrested-while-cop-car-arsonists-left-alone.html http://www.facebook.com/?ref=home#!/note.php?note_id=397205503638&id=511491565

Damn. Now I want those boots.. they're gorgeous!

I don't think there's anything wrong with being an optimist.. but why not also be a realist? There is nothing wrong with paying for sex.. in fact I embrace and rely on that concept to pay my rent! I'm happy to be a provider of such service and proud of the service and happiness I bring. Why pretend a rose is a tulip? I love both.

Secret Admirer.. I don't know how long you've been hobbying but in my 22 years of escorting all my clients have expected sex. Even with the dancers you have as guests in your house.. you claim to be hugging and kissing and cuddling.. which in my book is sexual contact. If I were only a guest or on a first date with someone I'd expect dinner our some other social outing and no sexual contact. If you want to call it something else by all means go ahead. But sexual contact of some sort seems to be on your agenda with dancers as well as escorts. In other words a rose by any other name is still a rose.. doesn't matter what you call it. Now.. if you say that paying outright for it is the same as a real-life date of gifts/dinner that guys pay on other dates.. I disagree. A guy buying me dinner doesn't guarantee him getting laid.. but paying me cash does. Real life dates aren't blind dates for me.. an escort date is. I don't ask what the guy looks like or if we have common interests outside of whether or not I offer the type of service he desires. I think you are mixing apples with oranges.. because the dancers you'd invite as you've said before are your 'friends.. you've met them presumably at a club and in many cases know them well before hand before you invite them to your home. Do you also meet escorts at a club? no.. or a streetwalker on the street where you can have a chat before arranging them to be a "guest'' in your home? Would they otherwise have you as a guest or be your guest if you weren't paying them? no.. and as well i would not accept payment in the form of dinner or jewlery for this service. Yes.. I do expect to be treated as a guest and treat my clients as guests like I would if I were coming over to do a tax return or whatever skill I'm being paid to provide. This one is a lot more fun however. I think that most clients if an escort invited as a guest to your home acted surprised that you wanted sex on the date and left without providing.. you'd not only be disappointed but put her on this board as a warning to others.

Christina Hendricks looks good in everything! even red... oooh. I found one of her in purple

pink? or teal? yellow? here's another purple one

I love green on redheads though.. Here's a lovely redhead in purple

ha ha!!! good one

I'm confused.. so sex with a client is legal only if he's over 18 or 16? Is a minor a person under 18 or under 16?

I have a few clients who look better with glasses on! I don't know what it is about some people who just look sexy with glasses...others look better without. I suppose it's the glasses themselves in many cases. Angela just got a new pair and they're really classy.

yes.. but for the sake of argument is a 16 yr old (or younger for that matter) client going to then turn around and ask for charges to be laid on an escort who he paid? was he coerced.. uh no.. how could he be if he arranged it?

Thankfully no damage was done to my car which makes me wonder if they had some sort of device to open it electronically.. I use my clicker to get in and out and never my car key.. but I manually lock my drivers side when I go out as the other doors lock automatically as soon as I'm in gear... They got in on the passenger side somehow. I only know this because when I went back after cancelling my cards and inspected the car the doors now locked again.. the passenger door was open an inch but locked.

Thanks Diva.. no actually. I'm not pissed.. just inconvenienced. My friends and the owners of the inn where we were were all way more upset than I was. Everything is replaceable in this instance all for free.. the only thing that cost me money was a new purse. I've been broken into twice in the last decade and that upsets me way more than this.. in both instances I moved immediately.. can never feel comfortable in a place after that.

:boobeyes:Bolding or adding a red color.. is much like making a stop sign red. How many people would drive right through it if it weren't red? I'm not so worried that you will 'drive right by' my ad because you are offended by the red. If such a little thing bothers you you won't like my red lingerie either.:cooter:

Huh? What sting. I didn't see any whips about.. Using words like nag and bitchiness one would think would have brought more of the backlash you might have intended.. but I frankly don't see what you do here. What is it you were looking for? The ladies (myself included) explained why we do this.. the strategy works fine... so how does it prove your point exactly? What do you suggest instead that might please us all? Since we are on the receiving end of what works and what doesn't and no other respective clients have chimed in either way and one presupposes none of us is hurting for business from our advertising on here.. what did we do to help prove your point?

Same here. I've had several 18 yr olds.. and taken the virginity of many men of all ages. I love having that honour. :bddog:

anyone see this in person? here's a vid for those like me who didn't. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KiLt40d_AbU

well some might say sex is a sport :bddog: