Carrie Moon

People using definitely and spelling it definately. Most commonly the use of your instead of you're bothers me.

I know. I forgot all about swedish berries. I used to eat them all the time. I have been avoiding sugar as much as possible these days but they do make them sweetened with fruit juice as well. I just couldn't believe last night. I literally ate a whole bag of chips except for a few handfuls in the bag and then fell into a stupor which made me go to bed early :) ah... sweet dreams though. Oh. and another thing I can eat and eat. Nachos.. the way I make them with chili on top. Eh? you've had them at my place.

I had a craving for my favorite potato chip.. and am indulging after dinner. Dill Pickle chips. However once I start.. I end up eating the whole bag often! What real food (not pussy ) can you not stop eating once you start? others for me that come close are cheesecake and of course chocolate but I can usually save those for later.

Cupids is now owned by a female but she bought it from a man about 5 years ago.. she would be able to confirm if that was his name. Tough break to have her reputable agency tarnished by this guy's behaviour. Check with her.. She advertises on your site after all...

Shaved is sexy.. stubble is not.. I'm very sensitive ... I also shave every single day. I find that doing it in the bathtub seems to keep everything soft enough that I don't have ingrown hairs or cuts. A bonus to a guy shaving is it makes the cock look bigger without the shrubbery!

I'm confused. Why would a provider refuse email outside of cerb? Providers??

welcome to Cerb. You have some lovely pics :)

She's been invaluable to me over the many years I've known her and we've also had some pretty fun sloppy duos during that time. Kisses to a sexy, randy lady :)

related rant: okay.. I just got a phone call.. we spoke for 2 1/2 minutes. I'm in the middle of unpacking in my new lovely home but of course I pick up the phone for business. He was polite and proper and we had a lovely chat until the last 20-30 seconds. Him: What are you hours. Me: generally 10 am til 10 pm. Him: I like your photos. Me: thanks! Him: are you related to Amber Moon. Me: short explanation of how I know her re: porn, duos etc but no we're in no way related and a few good natured laughs thrown in. all fine so far. Him: I don't see her advertisement anymore. Me: I haven't spoken to her in about 6 months but I know she's only been available very part-time due to a full-time day job. Is her site still working? Him: what is it? Me. I think it's ambermoonxxx.com pause.. no sound on the other line. He is looking it up while he speaks to me. Seriously? me: Are you actually looking to get ahold of Amber? I can certainly give you her details but if you're looking to book another escort and not actually me you can look up her information on your own time.. not mine. (now my tone has changed to a bitchy one) Back to customer service industry. When I worked in customer service I got paid for my time regardless of what information I was giving the customer.. even if it was to refer them to someone who could help them when we didn't carry what product or have the service they wanted. Different thing. I'm human and get irritated by such things. Stupid questions/time wasters come in all forms. I am not ''reeling'' that client in. Had he been honest and just asked me and then said thank you for the information fine.. I'm happy to give it... but to let me listen on the other end of the phone while he surfs on his iphone??? rude! I explained to him that even to do so while looking at my site would be a waste of my time. Go look it up on your own time and come back if you have more questions with another phone call. Some guys have no common sense. I only go to a company's website while on the phone with techsupport if need be for a company..

Holy crap! I had no idea.. thanks :)

Victoria Jolie. So many great points! I would like to comment on some of the points you bring up. There are 4 types of ways of receiving data when communicating according to NLP (neurolinguistic programming), and therefore a variety of preferred types of communication. Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic and A-D auditory digital (data/information/science). When people first attempt to communicate with all of those to attract a mate they give off the best first impression but as they get to know one another better they relax and fall back to their dominant mode. You are not auditory.. at least on the phone. You may or may not be in person.. ie enjoy hearing naughty talk. I'm primarily kinesthetic and I feel out a person through their voice on the phone. ie. I get a vibe. I can also get a vibe from seeing the person's photo and especially their smile which is why I find it important to not only see sexy photos on a website but also relaxed smiling photos! Too many of the girls have glamour photos but none smiling.. I filmed with Niki V about 5 years ago and was so pleasantly surprised by her winning smile when I met her in person. Not at all evident on her site. I don't mesh at all with people who are A-D because they have no clue how to touch a person and can't carry on a conversation. Those people seem robotic to me. I do have a colleague who is like that and she's great for sharing information but we can't hang out and have a beer. A person who calls who is only interested in information without any feeling will not make me connect so I will not respond appropriately. They might go away feeling nothing or feeling ignored... either way no loss on my part because the session would have likely zapped my energy anyway... confusing me as to how to please them. Other times I have pleased them a lot but with no signals coming from them I have no idea until they thank me at the end of the session. I'm sure you've all had this experience. It has nothing whatsoever to do with your skill if you don't speak A-D :) My best clients are kinesthetic and visual like me. They are excellent skilled lovers who can soak up my attributes visually and touch me in a way that I feel I'm being sculpted from scratch by god himself. So.. before the internet.. we only had the phone. I used to do very well on voice ads because I have a sexy voice. My description was indeed what sold them as I booked appts with a mere 60 seconds over the phone. This can also conjure up a visual image to the visual client. Imagination is my most powerful ally both for the client and for me. I hear ya mod on the horrible voice. Sometimes an accent can even turn me off if it's one I associate abrasiveness with. I can usually instantly hear if someone is a heavy smoker.. but none of that will deter me if they are respectful and appreciative. I used to work a variety of customer service jobs over the phone and in person during my lifetime. When you work for someone else you have no choice but to accept the good and bad from everyone. As a provider however I have the freedom to refuse service in person or over the phone to anyone. I don't think any of the girls in this thread are saying that we are bitchy to the callers we don't like. The initial poster was merely venting and I think now understands why this happens. It will give her and the rest of us more tolerance which is the best outcome from this discussion. A DVD on how to explain better business practices for escorts? Possible but not very likely.. These same errors in business occur in every industry. Most restaurants fail that start up. Many retail stores have employees that don't seem to know what they're doing. Think of virtually any business you have dealings with and they all pretty much fall short. Also..trying to explain certain things about nuances is virtually impossible. The main reason some escorts are in this business is for the freedom to run things the way they want. Some are in the biz because they are inept at working in the real world whereas the ones who stand out have soooo much experience in the real world it translates to this business as well and they are successful and popular. There are so many girls who do a great job and you have way more choices than ever before so count your blessings instead of trying to help those who are bad at their job. Like attracts like. The ones who are lousy at answering their phone will get clients who don't care. The 'tire kickers'' (got that from Christine) will continue to call around til they get the price/activity that sparks their interest and care little how the girl looks or sounds. Then will complain about it afterward. Well.. you get what you pay for.. and you who put little effort into research deserve to be disappointed. sorry to be so long winded.. but just had my morning cup o'joe and I'm a bit verbose :)

Which is why review boards exist. Stop taking one for the team and learn from other's experiences. I have shot what's called content exchange with other porn actors and never received the footage... so I no longer shoot that way unless I also provide my own camera man. It's frustrating for sure but you learn. It's completely normal to live in the moment and once you get home you let other things get in the way. How many people forget to return a library book on time or a video? Film it yourself and then you're sure you have it. Such is true in any line of work.. not just the hobby. yeah.. it's called listening to your voice and jerking off on the other end of the line. We don't get paid for that :butt:

You can use a proxy server on your computer to block your IP. I can't remember the name of it but Christine knows (http://www.joyful-spirit.net)

I did this accidentally once. I wasn't done re-writing it and it was harsh on the first draft. Never again! I don't put the name I'm going to send to in the address bar until I'm sure I'm done. You see the email going and panic.. unsend! unsend! but to no avail of course :)

Great points from both sides. I also like to hear a potential client on the phone before I decide to see him.. so we are using that phone call to assess your demeanor for a visit. Prior to the internet the only thing you had to go on was the phone call. I do understand a client asking questions like general availability or if I provide a certain service, where I"m located... etc etc. But in no way shape of form should he ask my description or rates. I HAVE PHOTOS. The rates are clearly posted. I do answer anyway but I always ask when they ask this question where they got my number if they have to ask that. Not bitchy. Direct. I have been asked if my photos are recent to which I reply.. go to my blog where I update pics almost weekly. http://www.carriemoon.com I've been at this a very long time. It doesn't take very long to realize a guy is just asking questions to be a time waster. Some find it funny for some reason to book an appt and then not show/call.. they immediately go in my phone as such NC/NS and with no phone call to explain why they did this they continue to wonder why I don't answer future phone calls to me. You can't equate this business to several other types of businesses. Do guys phone a furniture store to ask questions only to be jerking off on the other end of the line? Granted if I'm in a mall when I answer my phone.. I immediately tell the person I'm there to explain the noise of children, overhead noise etc. You guys who are direct and normal assume all the other guys are as well. I even hang up on certain people. Rude? hell ya.. but only when warranted. Usually it's the ones who ask for a discount. I just say 'have a nice day'' and hang up on them. They don't normally call back.. some do however.. and no matter how rude you are to them... they keep calling. Again.. would someone call a furniture store. Ask if ''just for me? would you offer me 1/2 price?" and then keep calling back to ask the same when refused? We do deal with a bunch of weird calls I know for a fact other types of businesses do not get.

Nothing ruins a mood more than STD talk.. but what's worse is a guy asking during an appt or calling me up after having left the appt due to some guilt about having strayed and asking me ''are you clean"? Hell ya.. I'm clean and I plan to stay that way.. the riskiest behaviour I engage in without protection is DATY. I don't do BBBJ. Both are considered very low risk activities on the scale of risk. I have been told however I give better head with a condom than many women without.. and they do make condoms way better for sensation than they used to. Other than looking while getting undressed because I always like to see what I'm doing.. mirrors anyone?.. I don't do a formal inspection.

I always like to chat a bit but if the client is overly horny he makes it clear that he's not interested in a get to know you chat and only interested in getting it on.:butt: I have found it though that many are happier to chat after the pipes have been cleaned. :bddog: If a client is particularly nervous I will chat til I feel they're more at ease and then make it clear that the party is about to start if they haven't already made a move. Usually they can't talk anymore at that point because their mouth is full of boob.:boobeyes:

I don't things have changed much actually.. Summer said she made more money working independently considering you have to compete with sooo many other girls in the line-ups who all offer different rates! Giving half your money to the owners and then paying on top of that for rental of your room, supplies.. etc etc.. not all it's cracked up to me. I really had wanted to work in one but never was able to get a work permit/visa for the US. Now I'm glad I didn't :)

I totally forgot about that! I used to have a regular with Parkinson's disease as well. Certainly it's not as bad as being wheelchair bound but it's a disability as well. Parkinson's by nature calms down when the individual is using their hands. My woodworking teacher in high school had it as well and it took me a while to not be shocked when his shakes would stop everytime he used a tool.. especially the bandsaw. I kept imagining he would shake and cut himself. Additional Comments: Of course the major ''disability'' in our profession to make guys feel okay about is erectile dysfunction. The most frustrating thing for a guy who suffers from this is to try to enjoy the session regardless of whether or not they get hard or cum. Some can cum without getting hard and some not.. enjoying sexual activity despite an erection is a very valuable lesson for some.

Thanks Pete! I did 2 Canadian movies that were on our paytv channels and some as well were shown here that I did in LA. I only went to LA after being disappointed that there were so little in the way of professional companies in Canada making porn. It's the same as mainstream entertainment.. Canada takes a while to catch up.

Okay.. so you're asking if the client's age matters? That's different for every escort. Many prefer older clients and specify that they won't see anyone under 30 or 35. I only restrict my younger age to 18 and older. Older clients get the same service as younger in my case but all girls differ. Do older clients get more mileage? Not sure how or what you mean by that either...

Carlos. I think you need to clarify what you mean by mileage. Experience? how comfortable a woman is with her sexuality? Maturity does take a part in both but I've met girls and guys who were young who had way more open attitudes to sex than many counterparts my own age. Certainly I've gotten more comfortable with experience and age.. but someone who gets into their sexuality at 50 could be just starting out on the same scale as someone in their teens. All depends when you start experimenting with your likes and dislikes as well as how open-minded you are and comfortable with expressing yourself sexually.