Carrie Moon

I used to go there some years ago with other cougar friends.. wednesdays it was.. but very cougarish place.

yeesh. It was both a guess and a question.. which is why I said mechanics could answer that. you say you don't take offense and then in the same breath say shame on me. really? sensitive? btw.. reputable escorts don't upsell. The charges are up front and all-inclusive.

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re: an oil change. I think it's a way to get people into the garage so that they can then tell you what other services you require.. so that's probably written into the cost of not increasing it. That seems to be part of the pricing equation. Mechanics can answer that for sure though..

I've had it happen a few times that a guy will seek me out.. (not by appt as a hobbyist) to say he's dated an escort/stripper/porn actress before and would be not only okay with dating me but like it. It's been probably a handful of times in the last 6 years or so of online.. but a few times as well in previous years by phone. So rare.. but not unrealistic. As for clients wanting to date or me wanting to date them? it's happened quite a few times. Obviously they have to be okay with the job and I know a few escorts who are in long-term relationships &/or married who do just fine. The intimacy however.. is completely different with a relationship. They see you during good times and bad.. that's the real GFE:boobies:

Why would you say that? both of us.. last posters agreed it should have been longer because it was good.. I say that about any show I have enjoyed.. give me more!

your utterly succinct reality check made me chuckle.. I too find it amusing that people think you can just book and pay for a connection. In order to make a true connection you either do or you don't. 1/2 of that connection comes from the client! I luckily connect with alot of people. It usually happens when someone is comfortable with why they are there.. respectful and appreciative of the service. You would think that is not hard to do.. but for some people it can't be done. Even then I'm happy when they're happy. You don't know if you'll really connect for certain til you meet.

I was very disappointed at how short it was as well.. can't wait to see what the lawyers working on decriminalization are able to do. I get on my soapbox often when it comes to our right to determine what we do with our bodies... it's not the concern of the government. But hey.. preaching to the choir on here. I was so glad to see that they only showed women who enjoyed their work. I did an interview last weekend for a young lady doing her thesis on those exact misconceptions. She's doing her masters at Carleton university and was very enthusiastic about our profession. It warms the cockles of my heart to know people are getting more open and enthusiastic about our right to be sex-workers:mrgreen:

I clean myself with a spray mixture of vodka/water.. as I won't use products made with rubbing alcohol which are toxic. I don't just wipe as that is pretty much a 'half-assed' job. You may find this a waste of good booze :) Getting e.coli bacteria by wiping from back to front is unfortunately a very common way for the uneducated female to get bladder infections. Certainly you are correct in that bad bacteria and good bacteria coexist and we need both. The problem is that most people are wandering around with a disproportionate ratio of bad to good. Bacterial vaginosis is rampant and common. Eating acidophilus (good bacteria) in yogurt helps and taking antibiotics frequently does not.. then women end up with yeast infections. Call me uptight as you have.. but I also do not enjoy being licked anally. However... I do like a great fuck as you know.. so I don't think I'm that uptight.. to each his own :)

So sorry to have offended you Christine. That was not my intention.. ATM always makes me giggle now when I see it at the 711. After being in LA for a few months and filling out the forms over and over again of do's, don'ts.. with ATM clearly being in the columns of my don'ts.. since I don't do anal, DP it puts me similarly in a lower pay bracket than if I did. This is no different from one of the aspects that has been talked about here that certain acts put you into a different 'pay category' and that to stay 'current' you are encouraged to do them. I believe that if I offered full GFE or PSE I would indeed have more business.. How many phone calls do I get where I'm asked if I do anal and the guy goes on to someone who does.. or BBBJ... So to say I'm not choosy ... well you know that is not true. I'm choosing to see people who consistently respect my boundaries... in my body... in my home. We have both agreed that to offer something on a menu consistently is ridiculous.. I don't get girls who say they love to kiss? really?? every single person of the opposite sex or in some cases every person if they are bi? come on... everyone's mouth is appealing to you? Again.. it was not my intention to offend your choices. BUT since we're discussing it.. I have to disagree that it's as clean as a vagina. It is definitely not. A vagina is a 'self-cleaning' oven.. and most physicians will even tell you not to douche.. as it messes up the flora. An anus carries bacteria that just washing won't ever make me secure.

Sort of.. but at this point there is no 'white list'.. so no recommendation either good or bad exists. I think a good recommendation list 'white list' might be something some people would like.. but since in Canada we don't rely on referrals from one escort to another as much as they do in the US.. perhaps it's completely moot. I have given referrals to other escorts who require them but not often. It's a time saver if the person is white-listed somewhere. Preferred411 was mentioned by Brandi I think earlier.. but not utilized much in Canada as far as I know.

Ever since getting into porn and seeing ATM on the form of do's/don'ts I can't help but think of ass-to-mouth! yeuck I hope the rates on the airlines stay low. My latest trip to St. Lucia was awesome and an all-inclusive for 1000.. but seeing the resorts mosly 1/2 empty was disheartening.. so on one hand I enjoyed the cheaper cost while on the other hand feeling bad about the locals economy suffering.

exactly.. hmm. I recently started using a rebounder for exercise. Seeing how guys like bouncing boobies.. I could incorporate that into a warm up :)

A recommendation/referral program is not the same as a 'review'. No-one thinks reviewing clients is either necessary nor will anyone likely want that!!! BUT a cerb approved badge or what the erotic review in the US calls a 'while list' might be good for the guys who use references within this system. It's a quick way to verify a client as legit and put the prospective new escort of his choosing at ease. If a guy wishes to be more easily accepted for an appt.. all he has to do is show his email.. linked to his handle and then she can check another reputable escort has white-listed him... simply meaning he's not black-listed :) not necessarily details about the guy.. just that he's safe/respectful and hygenic :roll:

why not include sex as the workout! that's how I keep in shape :)

this cracks me up!

got my PVR set up to record it!

I've always offered DATY but yes.. when I briefly escorted for an incall agency in Victoria... we had to charge extra for that service.. this was in the 90's when I was there for a couple months. As for kissing? I'm like the Julia Roberts character. That's for whomever I'm dating. My clients respect that I don't kiss and we connect on several other levels. As much as GFE and PSE are in high demand.. they are not the be all and the end all of being good at customer service. AND this is not a dating service. It is a luxury service. Some need kissing and go for it.. others do not see the absolute need for it from a provider.. thank god :) I'm good at what I do.. I just don't kiss. And safety first.. fun 2nd. You can't catch hiv no.. but all the other serious diseases apply. My CBJ is pretty damn good... after all I've had 20 years practice at it!

GFE usually includes BBBJ as well... therefore I'm not a GFE. It's a shame to be classified in any way.. but there it is. I blogged about it. I find service to be a hell of a lot more than a bunch of acronmyms. http://www.milfcarriemoon.blogspot.com I think these uncovered services are risky and that these requests and demands endanger girls.. but that's just me :) It's getting so that several working girls are actually getting requests regularly for uncovered full-service! at least in the US. The rating system for a girl on the US review boards won't even allow a girl to be rated above 7or 8 unless anal, bbbj and DFK are included on her menu. YIKES!

I.. like Christine (not Joy.. that's not her name.. that's her site).. have been an escort since the 80's as well. I started at an agency because I had no idea about doing incalls until a fellow escort explained what it was. I never went back to an agency after that. I love being an independant for more reasons than just the money. Christine is quite correct in that a girl can be an escort for just an evening without any expenses other than a computer to advertise (or in some cases a friend's computer to put up her ad). This has definitely increased 'the supply'. Demand has also increased for the same reason supply has.. the internet which has already been covered. Both have increased as well because it is more socially acceptable to be an escort or see one than it was in the 70's and 80's. Personally the decline in business for me occurred when Nortel layoffs happened. The guys in the high tech industry had substantial discretionary income and also brought alot of visitors from the US up to see them. Then it was SARS. Girls started coming from Toronto to Ottawa. Similarly from Montreal to Ottawa. Many girls started touring because of the internet and the ease with which to advertise quickly. Some don't even rely on papers at all whereas this was my only tool in the 80's. Way too many factors to succinctly tie it up in one statement. Escort boards in the US tell a different story. Women there who don't want to get busted use the boards as a means to 'verify' clients. Online services do this for them as well and escorts use references. This was unheard of before the internet. In Canada thankfully the laws are more lax so we can relax and all try to see escorts and be escorts.. whether for an hour, a day, month or years. There are other reasons why the business hasn't garnered an increase in wages.. but I do recall going to Europe in the 80's just prior to getting into escorting and my fare to fly to London was the same as it is today. So for me that hasn't changed either despite gas prices rising dramatically. Sometimes the market won't bear much of an increase. btw. at the time I started escorting in Toronto. The outcall was 200/hr plus 40 for the driver minimum. It's much much less than that now.. certainly not more with the girls getting the same percentage. Oh and as for the Asian massage parlours in B.C. I hear the same thing in Toronto. Not at all sure about Ottawa's scene.. but it's like the dollarama. I shop there and don't think much about where it's made or how hard someone may have worked to provide it at that cost. A client sometimes will think only with his short-term consumeristic intent and may get a bargain.. but if he get's whatever is in the grab-bag.. he shouldn't then complain. 40-60 bucks doesn't give you the option of selection in my understanding at an asian parlour.

Obscure conversation is my specialty. I was a naturopathic physician but love to converse about what some people might consider off the wall stuff... thankfully more and more people are open to banter about more than politics and the weather :)

I don't have another job except for the porn.. but yes I would find it weird if someone I saw every day came to see me for an appt... or a male friend I hung out with alot. It's 2 separate lives for me. I used to be a physician and it's basically the same principle. Don't treat family members or friends. Or as most client would put it.. don't shit where you eat! Plus why tell a co-worker? you'd be jeapardizing your job or at least making your other job an uncomfortable place to be worrying who knew and who didn't know. You are expected to respect his anonymity but he is not for you :)

A couple years ago when I moved to Toronto from Ottawa.. my mover emailed me after the move to tell me he knew who I was and that he was a fan.. and had one of my magazines. Personally I was grateful he told me after the fact rather than during the move. I had only recently started doing porn at the time so wasn't that well known! what a small world. Now it happens to me more often that people I know book me. I had a client last week that was 20 years old and had met several times thru a friend's friend. I think he would have been 15 or so when we first met. I laughed and said you can now literally say you've been with your mom's hot friend! I prefer that a client just smile and nod when in public. I once had a client say hi to me in a grocery store and my boyfriend (now an ex) and his son were right around the corner! awkward.. I had to whisper to him to go away right away..