Carrie Moon

wowie! congrats lovely lady xo

I have been in plenty of threesomes over the years.. both on and off camera.. and when I'm with a partner who I know is 'ooing' and 'awing' way over the top.. I'm completely turned off and have no clue what to do .. to either match her fakeness or just fade into the background. BUT when this happens I'd say 50% of the clients/viewers love it.. and the other 50% are turned off like myself.. When it's genuine fun.. I"m in heaven.. and have a blast.. and this is evident to the participants/viewers.. Unfortunately I don't usually know the lady in question is disingenuous until we're in the thick of things.. and she's practically cumming before we've even started! ugh.. bleh and ick.. lol.. I personally don't know how someone can fake it for an hour or two and not be strained from it..

Oh of course.. I'm not saying I advocate gov't influence.. I'm just stating that it's possible. Same as my feelings in the rates thread.. I want always to be my own boss.. I think if it ever came down to the gov't telling me what I can and can't do with my body.. I'd move to live where I once again had freedom.

It's not the least bit silly though to draw lines as to what is the level of comfort to take where risk is concerned.. I draw the line at BBBJ.. but I enjoy daty.. so that's my level. Some choose BBBJ but no CIM. Some enjoy BBFS and this is where 95% of us I'd say draw the line at level of risk.. Some enjoy BB anal.. and that's where those who offer BBFS may draw the line.. BB anal is definitely riskier than BBFS.. Wherever your line is... your choice. At least for now anyway. In Australia.. BBBJ is illegal for providers to provide as part of the service in certain provinces. I believe Queensland? last I looked..

hmmm. risk is risk is risk? nope.. driving on the highway is a risk for sure.. driving at 50 km/hr over the speed limit is riskier.. 100? riskier yet. Using that logic.. BBFS is no riskier than BBBJ

I have noticed it esp in the ads.. but I think it comes from the influx of people who are used to posting on CL in the past and the general tone of that ad forum was more crass... To each their own. You attract what you like and what is like you :)

I think you missed the part where I said CBJ providers. I wasn't disqualifying that BBBJ feels better. Of course it does. I was saying the game with trying to find a 'cleaner' bbbj provider. The mentality being that a girl who normally provides CBJ.. and sometimes provides BBBJ may seem 'cleaner'.

I love dirty talk as well.. It took me a while to get used to it.. but having 'lines' given to me helped initially and now it is way more comfortable. The breathy sounds one makes with dirty talk and whispers gently in the ear are what makes it good.. even more than the actual words themselves usually. But one thing one of my fav regulars said to me once that sent me over the moon? 'When I fuck my wife.. I think of you!' Holy crap! badda boom badda bing.

I have done a ton of duos over the years.. and many of my colleagues are BBBJ preferential. They do love the taste of cock without the condom. BUT the most frequently advertised condom is Trojan.. and they are the worst goddam tasting and smelling condoms on the planet. I would never ever ever use one for a BJ. I used to use flavoured ones and loved the variety of flavors.. strawberry and banana being my favorite. I've even encouraged clients who lament that their wives won't blow them to encourage them to play with a flavored one to get them into a different head space. Now however I just use Lifestyles. They come in L sizes too.. only use lubricated as unlubed have a stupid powder on them of some sort. They have zero taste to my sensitive palate anyway.. and I love using them as I feel 100% safe in my activities While risk of BBBJ is obviously less than BBFS.. it's always there and while people get tested.. you're only as safe as the last person you had an encounter with. Too much risk for my sanity. The reason guys ask CBJ escorts if they're open to BBBJ is because they believe that lady is seeing less clients for BBBJ and is therefore more 'clean'. They consider themselves one of the few she will offer this too and therefore less chance of risk. I used to have a client pressure me constantly for this for an extra fee and came right out and admitted this was his M.O. I finally got tired of it and refused his appts eventually. He literally pulled this every single session. It became mentally exhausting for me. Now.. having said that. I don't begrudge someone asking in the heat of the moment briefly.. so long as they let it go as a wistful wish. I will then incorporate their wish into a sexy roleplay talk. Let's face it.. while sex feels really good.. it's 90% between the ears.. the dirty talk about the risky behaviour is often hotter than the actual behaviour and you don't leave wondering if you're safe.

I will echo Fortunateone's posts. I'm a CBJ only provider. I do duos with many colleagues who are BBBJ providers. I put the condom on when I am performing.. they take it of when they are. My comfort is paramount during an appt in order for me to perform at my best.. and as for CBJ being 'useless'. I don't take offense.. that is the opinion of several who haven't experienced a great CBJ. There are literally 1000's of happy customers in my wake who can say they not only enjoyed it but didn't leave wondering if they were safe or not. This is not to dismiss my many friends and colleagues who partake in BBBJ. The risks are low.. but they are still there.. or why get tested at all? As for trusting the clients to get tested regularly? few do.. believe me.

I am happy to see short notice clients. I have several who only have a quick window of time to see me and when I can be available.. no problem.. These are not the type who plan ahead. If they have to stop and get correct change it bites into our time and they may not be able to see me. I'm okay with getting these guys change for 10-20 bucks if I have it handy. They are okay not getting it if I don't. It's the ones that feel entitled that ladies are referring to as cheap. If you are the former.. you are feeling slighted that ladies might think you are 'cheap'. Thinking ahead isn't always possible when someone thinks with their 'little head'. I don't mind those types of clients for the most part. I'm a go with the flow kind of girl if respect is foremost in the intention. As for disabled clients.. most of mine are so disabled that an attendant has the fee put away for me somewhere discrete. The client doesn't even handle the money! I recently even had a female friend of mine who contributed funds for a disabled neighbor of hers in her building so he could afford to see me! So I don't see what being disabled or financially challenged has to do with it.. they prepare even more than the able bodied person for a visit.. certainly not a fly by the seat of their pants encounter. I've never needed to give a disable person change. 99% of my clients are fully abled..thankfully those that ask for change.. I mention I will look for it at the end and quickly get back to other things.. so I'm not distracted. I search after.. while I put my robe on and they are getting dressed.. no time wasted.

shopping? me! me! me! :P

We are independent contractors. Unless you are with an agency or a pimp. Other independent contractors have similar issues with undercutting prices.. Ask anyone who works in a trade. Be it painting houses, paving driveways, building a deck... Even holistic practitioners, massage therapists, hair dressers... I'm quite sure there's no union or industry minimum for those and several other independent contractor jobs. The proposition of an industry standard is the pipe dream.. very unrealistic in my opinion. One of the best parts of my job is that I'm completely my own boss.... I do not want anyone dictating to me that I can't work for my own set price that I decide I am choosing. While I have chosen a minimum time that I will book for a client of 30 min.. I have in the past done 15 min appts. I even have had one regular who after booking his initial time for my min came back to see me several times.. but since he was a minimum wage worker and literally was in and out in one song I didn't have the heart to charge him more than $50.. In a set price model would I have to charge him more now? or do this behind the back of whomever is telling me the price I can charge? THAT right there takes away my freedom to be my own boss. No thanks!

Sounds like fun. I have done this obviously in my personal life but never yet 'catered' to it. I'd say 100% of my 'catering' is done indoors so far :P

I do offer this service for $100 extra fee on top of the session fee

I've been at this almost 25 years.. I started as a student and was charging $125 1/2 hr, $230/hr.. When I moved to Ottawa I matched what most ladies were charging $150 1/2 hr and $250/hr.. BUT when I was arrested in the mid 90's I went underground mostly.. and worked out of another ladies incall who's father was a judge! so I felt safe that he'd protect me same as her if it came down to it.. whether he would have or not.. I felt okay. She was only charging $80 for half hr.. so I matched it for the short few weeks I was there.. I thought I would be run off my feet!!! Nope.. same amount of clients.. including a few who found me under a different name (keeping in mind this was only paper ads and no pics) solely by my stats.. some guys have a type! I was also doing this in a completely diff part of the city in Toronto. I learned a very good lesson.. I may mostly get different clients at a different price point... BUT I got the same number of clients pretty much at basically 30% lower rate. Of course that isn't true to any infinite rate value.. Having said that...Lower rates generally will get you more volume and higher rates less volume. Rates over $250 now esp over $350 will bring you much less business simply because there is a smaller piece of the pie now to go around (less clientelle to escort ratio). You don't know the circumstances of anyone out there.. whether they have had a great deal of debt come upon them quickly and need to get their head above water? or do they have a comfortable 2nd income that makes escorting a part time venture. There are so many factors to consider.. and it's not an easy one.

I've been told my feet are softer than some other people's hands.. which is great for a foot fetishist.. but they are too delicate for high heeled uncomfortable shoes so I can't wear them for any length of time.. which bites the big one.. I love high heeled shoes.. any visitors to my home have seen some of my shoes displayed like works of art on my shelves around my home... but I only wear them laying down :)

Congrats on your 500th post.. You're also coming up on a year on here soon! xo

congrats sir!

way to go Cleo... rawr!!!

Way to go! Keep on posting!

@carriemoon