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I didn't know Dummpy was in movies!
d*mm*y replied to VedaSloan's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
Hahahaha the actor was actually my dad, I did get most of his jeans, but I have a more manly appearance and longer body, but shorter legs :), very much the same attitude when a healthy young vixen is in the sights mmmmmmhhhhhhahahahahahawwww (anyone wana play damsel in distress!!) -
It is very much a cultural thing, In Canada we have pride in our Value and we have a strong tie to the money = value, different societies have different values and the money is not a direct correlation to value. My price is my price, however I do increase or lower it depending on the scale of the work. I get to estimate the work involved before I state a final price and that is a great advantage over SP's, in a brothel the ladies have a similar advantage they can size you up and determine your needs before establishing a price. As long as we Canadian's insist on tying worth to Dollars we will have issue with negotiations and not be able to compete, Rick your analogy of showing up to work and being faced with a major pay cut is unrealistic for 90% of the people in Canada, it is in fact what I have had to face and this year for the same work or more I will have a 15% pay cut. Instead our domestic industry will simply close doors as this is socially acceptable and relocate to more hospitable climates like Asia and Mexico. The old adage "I am worth it" needs a rethink it's not all about a $ amount. Some advertisers get it and they have learned to sell the sizzle, ie buy face cream because you are worth it? Look at the whole OC transpo fiasco, the city would have let them have the schedule if they had say volunteered a 15% pay reduction? However the drivers have definitely taken a 20-25% pay cut this year and now are left with no bargaining position at all. Anyway the government can only employ so many people at some point we are going to have to figure out how to produce and sell something other a natural resources to keep cash flowing in this country and our value = money thing is going to have to be reconsidered to keep us competitive.
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It is very much a cultural thing, In Canada we have pride in our Value and we have a strong tie to the money = value, different societies have different values and the money is not a direct correlation to value. My price is my price, however I do increase or lower it depending on the scale of the work. I get to estimate the work involved before I state a final price and that is a great advantage over SP's, in a brothel the ladies have a similar advantage they can size you up and determine your needs before establishing a price. As long as we Canadian's insist on tying worth to Dollars we will have issue with negotiations and not be able to compete, Rick your analogy of showing up to work and being faced with a major pay cut is unrealistic for 90% of the people in Canada, it is in fact what I have had to face and this year for the same work or more I will have a 15% pay cut. Instead our domestic industry will simply close doors as this is socially acceptable and relocate to more hospitable climates like Asia and Mexico. The old adage "I am worth it" needs a rethink it's not all about a $ amount. Some advertisers get it and they have learned to sell the sizzle, ie buy face cream because you are worth it? Look at the whole OC transpo fiasco, the city would have let them have the schedule if they had say volunteered a 15% pay reduction? However the drivers have definitely taken a 20-25% pay cut this year and now are left with no bargaining position at all. Anyway the government can only employ so many people at some point we are going to have to figure out how to produce and sell something other a natural resources to keep cash flowing in this country and our value = money thing is going to have to be reconsidered to keep us competitive.
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How is the recesssion affecting your business?
d*mm*y replied to a topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Well don't worry when you tour the bible belt of the southern states there as many Americans that think Toronto is the Capitol as Montreal! (no one ever says Ottawa) In fact I find many similarities to our southern neighbors and Torontonians. -
It is in some cases other members bashing members, and that is bizarre, all I am left asking is why as well? how could someone possibly gain from bad mouthing any of us?
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Ladies will sometimes drop their prices, but the service suffers and the lady caries a chip on their shoulder it is just no worth it. Now try going the other way add a few bucks and see what that gets ya!! now that is good stuff!!
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Ladies will sometimes drop their prices, but the service suffers and the lady caries a chip on their shoulder it is just no worth it. Now try going the other way add a few bucks and see what that gets ya!! now that is good stuff!!
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The SP side is only half the story here, this has been going on for years, and any smart guy will make their own mind independent of hear say and BS (I count you as one of the smart guys inaluki) The scary part is when it starts to tarnish hobbyists, how would you like a rampant romour about you being diseased or a Bad Date! The question is who will be next? One day you will get the dear John letter from an SP that says "I am sorry Inaluki but someone who I can't mention has said some thing bad about you so I can't take the risk" for me it helps narrow the field but some guys take it personally. I don't want to name names here and PM me if this is inappropriate but I know that my good friend Cowboy Kenny has gone through quite a smear campaign probably in part to his no holds bared blog but also because of his profile here and spineless people using the "I can't say who it is" excuse have made some astounding accusation about him, and me and others that I will not name in public. And yet they ask the girls to keep it a secret, that is BS.
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Your enthusiasm shows!! Don't lose that innocence and keep up the common sense :)
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Plus one other thought, if I ever had anything bad to say about anyone, I would tell it to there face, and if I told someone else I would hide behind 'please don't tell them this" the only time I would say that is if I had an alternative motive and wanted to keep the lie alive as long as possible. Warning to anyone, if you tell me something that is damaging to someone else I am going to tell them and get to the bottom of it, I will not keep this kind of secret, that is wrong on every level. (well except if we were in prison and I did not want to get my ass raped) But then at least I would know that the rumour spreader was more dangerous than the one getting rumours spread about them. If you have to hide the identity of the tattletale than the truth is probably also hidden, and that person is untrustworthy.
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Just on a quick note about BBBJTC, this seems to be a normal service in Montreal, so if I were afraid of this kind of thing I would ask all my clients if they have ever seen any ladies in Montreal or that visit from Montreal! But wait a minute if they see someone that saw someone that had a visitor that had seen someone from Montreal it's all over anyway :( OMG I guess we just need to nuke Montreal.
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Over the past year I have been involved, and not willingly in several behind the scenes cerb witch hunts. Either myself or other members get strange rumours floating around about them and then it causes major grief. Some of the time it is started by jealous SP's and some of the time by users trying to stir the pot or angry. Often there are rampant rumours about a girl who is "dirty" the there was a lady this past summer who was giving excellent service and was doing BBBJ so she was of course dirty. Now I hear of another of my fav's who is giving BBBJ excellent service and guess what a donation of 200 so therefore she must be dirty, the only way you can clean BBBJ is if you charge 300+ of course. Now this kind of thing is fine and it is par for the course and I just avoid the ladies that believe this kind of BS. However I also believe that there are some impostor emails or correspondence going around, people impersonating my good buddy Pete for starters, ladies confronting me with strange and weird tales? And even a very trusted member here being implicated as the source and he has had nothing to do with any of it. Now I do believe that everyone should play it safe and not take unnecessary chances, however when someone presents something to you that seems a little far fetched, like a top poster forcing girls to have unprotected sex, or a volume lady spreading STD's, consider the source and verify the information. How do you verify, simply do a search on the member and check with other?s that now them, if you get an email from someone claiming to be a cerb member, send them a PM to ensure it was actually them. With a community this large we are starting to get people with more time on there hands than common sense and they are starting to have fun messing in our affairs. For me I could care less anyone can say whatever they want about me, and the ladies that are stupid enough to just believe them are not worth my time seeing, there are just too many good ladies out there to worry about. But some of my friends have been hit with this stuff now and I take that very seriously. If you are going to make accusations then be prepared to show proof ask for sources or proof either put up or shut up it's only fair this "oh we have to protect the source" BS is wrong, if someone makes a claim the accused should now who it was or it is a flat out blatant rumour. I think that I will start a Blog like CK has put up to try to bring some truth to these rumours, we can call it ?cerb rumours truth or fiction? and post all the known rumours? and determine there accuracy. My favourite one is the STD/STI thing, because at the rate that we see each other, I have done some math but that is scary so I won't post it here, the infection would spread faster than the correspondence so by the time you read it you would already have it. Sometimes it is about an SP that is a cop (that hole Amy is the LA was very funny) or engages in dangerous activity. Or a client that is a bad date for either behaviour or risks. Just use your common sense for this stuff confirm sources and think it through how rational is this accusation. I can guarantee you that there are some very disturbed people around here, the question is do you want to trust them or the ones they are trying to discredit? The last place you want to be is becoming buddies with someone who is not stable, if someone tells you something that seems to be a favour and help you to avoid someone else, you maybe making friends with exactly the type of person you are hoping to avoid, just a thought. While the face of cerb is pleasant and loving, the back rooms are getting nasty. And please don't chime in about how non of this has ever happened to you, I don't think that many are involved in all this just a few and I want this message to be a warning to any that have not seen the strange correspondence that it maybe out there, ya it's probably not you yet. When it was just me I could care less but now several of my friends are involved and it is getting really annoying. Now if you have a rumour that needs to be cleared up here is your chance, here is mine; I do have unprotected oral sex with SP?s, I do not have unprotected FS or Greek with SP?s. I do get checked every three months and am still after 16 years of a faithful visitor to the clinic incident free. (the first 10 years I did not go as often and saw my GP till he told me to stop bugging him and go to the clinic). The proof is in the fact that a few of the ladies that I have seen and have preformed and received unprotected BB oral service from are volume ladies, seeing in some cases 50 gentlemen a week, if indeed there were diseases being passed around buy this method we would all have tem by now, even if I have only had them for a year (when the first of these rumours started to appear). Also many of the high posters here have seen the same ladies and received and given the same service, so the option is to not see anyone that is a high poster, but wait what if a lurker saw one of them, or worse yet a lurker saw a girl that was not even on cerb but that same girl had seen me or a high poster than OMG there would be no trace of a connection through cerb! Can we please put this one behind us? Anyone else want to air out any unwarranted rumours please join in.
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Just to speed thing a long; http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=22341 still waiting for my reply, and it has already been 4 minutes!!
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Now that's a strange coincidence! :D
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So V-day rolls into Family day, and we all try to figure out what to do with this new found holiday?? I see many of my cerb buddies utilizing the day to catch up on posts! I guess we are a family too :) Just another day to me, but anyone got any special plans? Or if you are reading this feb 17 or beyond what did you do with your new found holiday?
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How is the recesssion affecting your business?
d*mm*y replied to a topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
You said a mouth full there, I would never take advantage of the situation and if the service warranted extra i also leave a tip, also if the price is low I will augment my donation with some cool gifts. Gifts do get the ladies in a great mood, they can range from $15-200 and I get as good a reaction from some of the $15 gifts as I do from some of the $200 gifts. -
I would assume that Hailey was long gone and the pimp continued to use her name as long as he could and it caught up to him. Do we know any other associations to this name or person i.e. who is Emma? Because this pimp will probably continue to recruit ladies and may do this again with a different girl if he can.
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I want to know where the presentation will be! That will be one great party woo hooo to bad it's not like the academy wards and the nominees all have to show up and the winner announced that would draw some crowd I am sure.
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what I really think of cerb. A rant
d*mm*y replied to Pretty_Playmate's topic in Ottawa Discussion - Escorts
It's like anything else in life you get out of what you put in. 0 effort = 0 reward, if you contribute and make an effort it is a great place. -
For the ladies: coming out of the closet
d*mm*y replied to VedaSloan's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
It can be very rewarding passing on some of the good fortune with loved ones, the main fear they have is that it is drug money or organized crime proceeds. The options are to trickle a small amount, donate anonymously or tell them where the money came from. If you set them up properly they will be relieved it is not from criminal activity, and accept your kindness in the spirit it is intended. -
How is the recesssion affecting your business?
d*mm*y replied to a topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I was thinking exactly the same kind of thread, we had a rescission thread in the fall but a follow up is in order. I am seeing $100 deals, some extremely good service and ladies at $200 and getting calls and emails from ladies that have seen me in the past wondering where I have gotten to. Interesting times ahead there seems to be a market adjustment happening. Also in my business it was a very difficult winter to say the least, however early market indicators are showing a quick bounce back for the nations capitol not so much for other parts of the country so I think we will see the trend of visiting SP's increasing and there rates staying competitive :) Looks like Dummpy may have a revival this spring yeah haw, and just for the record I hate being broke!! (of course my definition of broke may not be the same as others) I have had to stop my flow of steak diners and sometime do pizza instead, I have to hunt in the world of $100-200 SP's instead of my usual snack bracket, I have been eating breakfast at home. All in all the recession is being hard on me. Some of the other drastic measures include taking the 4 cylinder or 6 cylinder BMW out more instead of the big V8 to conserve fuel (not as big an issue now that gas is reasonable again). My Hot tub has a leak and I have been hesitant to get it fixed because of the cost both of the repair and ongoing cost to keep the thing running (@150/month), you get the idea and probably don?t me to rant about all my problems, Ya it?s been a tough winter. -
At 160 an hour she probably has a faithful following, to start posting and adverting will significantly up her time commitment, and the posting and responding time is not compensated. So at 200 or even 260, when you take into account the extra time energy and possible lost opportunities with existing regulars because of scheduling conflicts etc... she is probably in a break even position. Just my 2 cents worth. The more you promote the more weeding and screening that is required. And with no pics up she would probably get 10 people an hour asking for pics, 9 of which "may see her sometime" this year if the pics are worth while.
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Naughty boys, see what you are in for ladies if this kind of thing become popular! Possible revenue threat! I know for a fact that Cap works for food!
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I made this incredible video of an ex-wife and I playing with her period, she could pop out tampons laying on her back with her legs up and spread and we had a glass shower door, it was very dramatic, but I am a little sic.
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hahaha someone has too much time on their hands :D