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I had forgotten about Linda, she is a keeper for sure! Shame her visits are so far apart! And yes for me it all about the behavior not really the actions, a GFE and CIM very soft and lovingly and a PSE can do a very aggressive naughty CIM same acronym totally different expereince.

You guys are missing a category, I prefer to use someone else's hand! In the late eighties they used to have jack and jill parties! very popular with aids scare of the day, the rules were simple, no lips below the hips and only mutual masturbation! A good party would have 3-4 Guys and 5-7 ladies :)

I think not unlike GFE, PSE if open to interpretation? I have never really understood either other than GFE if feels like your girl friend and PSE I am doing a porn star, but I have a simple one track mind! Not really sure what acronyms make GFE vs PSE. For me my GFE needs to include Greek.

Best 2 in my opinion are Monique and Pretty Paige, but PSE to me you have a real porn start body to start with. I am sure that Alex G could also do a pretty good PSE thing but I really enjoy her as a GFE so I don't push it as much. "A" for effort of the extreme style service would go to Erin XO and Redseductresses but they don't have PSE bods definitely the PSE attitudes! I do usually prefer GFE, but I not Ron Jeremy anymore more like Walter Matthau!

I don't think they ever promoted these :) I can tell you from experience the more players the more advanced choreographing required! One thing that is always fun is if one person is left out of the planning the balance plan an event for there benefit, it keeps things moving but it also keep the element of spontaneity.

Lets not forget we are in Ottawa, compared to the rest of the country there is really no recession here at all. The standard market indicators show that Ottawa is ahead of the curve financially, new homes starts are up 30% for the spring! just as one example. So I don't think many of us are actually notice a major down turn, for me it is always slow this time of year, but no more so than last year or the year before.

You are doing the right thing Piage, I have flexible rates and when business is good they go up.

That's easy Danny DeVito! If you squint I am almost as good looking :D

I guess us 1000 + posters have even more than to much time on our hands, does seem rather insulting to me. I have no use for them.

Don't get me wrong on this I am not some bleeding heart that thinks she is a poor hard done by and should be let of on a weekly visit to a shrink, the help she needs is in prison, they do have some well qualified psychologists working in the system.

This is true in fact if the lady provides the level of service that I have become accustomed to enjoy she will get the premium rate that I have become accustomed to paying. I think that some ladies have increased their prices recently not decreased them! And I am on a budget here, definitely feeling the pinch in my business.

She is an Ottawa treasure, and the feeling of sex without actual intercourse is unique, she is the only one that can achieve that with me. Thank you Thank You Thank You Michelle :D

OK I re-read the article, this is different than the one that I read in the paper? In the paper they talked about the victims of the fire and no mention of the lady ti must have been the report on the actual blaze that I read. The guy punched her at the elevator? I think it was related to excessive new years eve partying not SP's. But the flyer for massage is a strange thing to add to the article? I guess I need to read between the lines not to mention the lines more carefully. I still don't really get the full implications? other than this is one sick chick who needs psychiatric help.

I did not read between the lines on this? I thought she had a fight with another girl and set the place on fire? I did not think it was related at all, if indeed it was. In any event the girl is clearly disturbed and needs professional help probably from an institution at the least. I am glad that the paper did not pick it up from this angle jc and make it about the trade.

It is a touchy subject, I am old and remember days when this was not a big deal if the girl was on the pill you were good to go. In High school and University there were all kinds of infections and stories, I was able to dodge those bullets and to this day am not sure how? Now a days I think there is far less transmission of STD's because of the big Aids thing. I would not like to see an sp that offered this however as long as it is not with me the risk is mitigated. If I knew someone was offering it ti would not prevent me from seeing them, I would just make sure I was protected, that is why we call it protection. In recent histroy I have had mysterieses that have had relativly exclusive relationships with me and we have been BB. I am B with my wife and need to keep her saftey in mind as well as my own, if it were just me I am not sure I would be so careful, as I am not convinced of the epidimemic here in Canada.

I think it is just easier for clients and providers to meet and there are less rip offs. I think the ladies have always been there and the johns have always been there. I seem to remember a quote "the worlds oldest profession"

Have not booked Janeva in about 2 months but I think she is still around PM me for email and phone number. Not sure about Annabelle as I never saw her, but they did offer duos and there was a third lady at one point.

I do know one lady that I saw last fall and she is on cerb through her cell phone and it is pay as you go. I saw another lady who posted a few times on CL who turned out to be a crack addict and I even had a review up here until I met her the second time and realized she was an addict. Both of these meetings were through the internet one from cerb and one from CL and both involved drugs and pimps, in fact I would suggest that at least 30% of the ladies on this board are in a pimp relationship and at least half of them don't know it. No one would knowingly go to work for a pimp, you realize after 5 or 6 months that the reality of thier action is not the same as the words of the promises. Yes Street level prostitution is a problem, my ex GF (the one I found walking the street 3 summers ago) once she found me found a supporter who unconditionally supported her, I was part of a safety net that got her into rehab and now she is clean and has been so for 3 years. She has tried many times and fallen off the wagon many times (she is almost 40 now), but every year she is clean is a win. These people are people and deserve our support, I do not believe that giving them $40 for BJ is supporting them however. Telling them that there is a place that is safe and resources that they can use to get out of it is important, they will eventually come around it may take months it may take years. That girl I met on CL I call once a month and ask her if she OK or if she wants out yet, I am there if she ever wants to make her way out. She has given me 2 new numbers and stayed in touch even though she knows I will not support her habit, she knows that I am safe. I am not stupid enough to get duped into a money grab, the only support I offer women in this situation is to drop them at the detox centre and get them in touch with the street outreach program, full stop end of story. That is what works, and that is what I am willing to do, any time of day or night, any day they just have to ask. For anyone in this situation, Ladies that are in this situation feel trapped because they may have warrants for there arrest and many enemies they don't want to go to jail or get beaten and labeled a RAT, if you turn yourself in at the detox center and employ the street workers out reach team the courts are very compassionate and may order a drug rehabilitation camp but you need it anyway! The charges are usually dropped or turned into parole and you can turn a new leaf and start your life over again, as far as friends and a community there is a great NA prgram here and they will chase off the undersirables for you. If you can keep clean for 7 years all is forgiven. After 3 years you can lead a very normal life and if you are enterprising you can have a full life with no thoughts or reminders of your past after 5 years. I know in junky terms that 6 months is a life time but it really is worth it otherwise within 3-5 year you are dead. Junkies have a death wish, they feel totally useless and a complete waist of space, they can't even commit suicide so this is the easy way out, get totally wasted and in a short while the drugs and street will kill you. Low self esteem is one of the silent killers of our society it starts with us, we need to ensure that everyone feels value and everyone feels they have a chance to contribute. The second we label one person not equal it all comes unglued it is fair to express disappointment in someone’s actions but not if you don't have a suggestion to improve it, if you can't help than don't just condemn. I apologize for the rant but it seems that we don’t want to think this issue through. Just my 2 cents worth.

Once you get comfortable with an SP and they are comfortable with you it is possible to include lunch or diner with the date, and then have a nice two hour session, but the hole event is probably 4-6 hours, many ladies will do a package deal for this and it does not always require a remortgage to make it happen. I find 2 hours plenty long enough to be hold up in one room, but if it is a package thing with lunch/dinner or other activities out of the constrains of a bedroom or hotel room than go for it, it is hard to find the special few that will do this without charging a huge amount, I guess it helps if you are good company. Many times if I TOFTT I choose half an hour, and might bump it to an hour if available. I do like to treat myself a few time a month to extended visits. I think with volume you need to reduce the time or else you go broke, I can't afford $500+ every visit! And I would rather see 4 ladies for an hour in one week than 2 ladies for 2 hours.

I remember when it was the only game in town, and my first several times were with street walkers. I don't think it is as big and scary as everyone puts it out to be. At the end of the day all kinds of ladies from very nice ones to total wacko's do this business on the street on the phone and the internet, I think it is no less dangerous to let total strangers know were you live. At least on the street it is very anonymous. Funny thing I was driving down Gladstone at 5:00pm 3 summers ago and found an ex girlfriend we reconnected, she has cleaned up moved on and had a kid but if I had not seen her that day I would always wonder what happened to her, now through the miracle of the internet we regularly exchange emails and pictures (not those kind you dirty pervs!!)

I was wondering if there were any connections, it did happen at the Radison after all. Of course I could be adding fuel to a fire that should be left to burn out on it's own.

Congrats Pete! And I do like the jacket CK, looks very familiar to mine, however I have a pink asscot and my monogram is perv.

I would rather that than a politician or lawyer, at least they are honest about their talents and expectations!

They have moved to BC

Happy Belated Birthday!! Been a little busy with the season but would not miss wishing you the best :)