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UT, man dude you have no idea how your leaving took a piece of me! I am overjoyed to have back contributing :):):):D We evolve but one thing is always true we need to be social as well and it is rare that like minded individuals walk through our lives, welcome back weasels, camels, goats and all!!

Simple elegant "Sexual Transformations" ya that will be the title of my next book! It will be at least 12 chapters, starting with chapter one the 14 year old horny kid playing with twins in there aunts basement right through to Dirty old man slut :) and man it has been a seriously crazy ride right through. I could even write about my first love, I was 8 and she was 7 and we played Dr. like there was no tomorrow! Now the party got a little exciting when I met the true love of my life and ex stripper who was working as an escort, that was truly life changing (not to mention the first divorce!!), then a series of hardcore freaks walked across my life, and wife number 2 showed up. This was the most extreme sexual person I had met, she loved group sex, was a feature dancer, and introduced me to a hole new culture of swinging. Then I met my first sub, and then another and another. At every turn I have evolved, the greatest lessons I have learned are, sex is a selfish act, take your pleasure, and the reality is never the same as the fantasy. One truth about sex is the more you are into it the more you will heighten the experience for you partner(s). Being selfish about sex is the best thing for you partner, the energy from getting someone off IS the addiction, the ultimate partner for me gets off on a combination of pain and pleasure.

I think it is safe to say that she is still crafting her skills.

I think with his return and in anticipation of many great threads and thought provoking posts (not to mention his tremendous contributions already) we should nominate Ulixthesetrojans! Besides his journey was not finished when he left of course he must continue :D

Soccermom is mid thirties very milfable!

Finally an SP with some balls! (I could not resist please forgive me) Damb lady you have an amzing portfolio it captivates me every time I click on a picture!! It would be great to meet you.

I too am a believer in devils advocate and looking at 2 sides of the story. So the lady excuses his rude behavior and see him anyway? What if this turns out to be the date from hell, the guys is a jerk and his personality in real life is exactly as it is online! That is also a scenario that did not get played out. I have been "stood up" on short notice or no notice more times than you can count, I probably hit 50% between cancellations with in 24 hours and out and out no shows, it goes with the territory. We are not ordering a Pay Per View show here, shit happens. Over and over again we keep saying have a contingency plan, at the very least be happy that you have save $300+ and go buy your wife or significant other, or the lady you have had your eye on, some flower and a nice night out with the change. Sorry for the tone just adopting a writing style in keeping with the rebuttal. :-D And I do love a devils advocate!!

Under the proceeds of crime I believe that a crime needs to be committed? However more importantly if you are up front about what you are doing and declare the income I believe it is secure? Not sure how you declare it however if it is legal than you should be able to claim the income. I think the ones that get everything taken away are working underground and collecting social benefits in the eyes of the government. This is just my thought and I have no proof or understanding of this from the governments side however it makes sense that if you say that you are unemployed and take advantage of the systems in place to help people, and then you are caught making a good living, and buying things that other people collecting social assistance don't have, that you are going to have to pay the piper somewhere?

The way someone communicates speaks volumes about their personality, this is a person with no patients and limited people skills. Probably the kind of guy that needs an escort the most but will also have the hardest time finding one. Patients patients patients the ladies have a method to there trade and on the surface it may seem unusual to us as outsiders but these processes almost like rituals to some, are the way the ladies can do what they do. If you break the regular routine you are not going to get the service, the process is in no way designed to hurt or entrap the client if the lady is a known SP from around here, just go with the flow. On the other hand it does not hurt to be cautious about ladies we have not met or who have no recommendations or credibility (CL ladies for example). However even in these dealings a rude response is not going to get you a good outcome. I personally have a really hard time understanding how an individual can have any kind of anger or animosity to someone they are trying to make love to? If an SP pisses me off I can not imagine myself in an intimate setting with this individual.

His services are local sheriff, not the run of the mill service that we are used to butt a service just the same!

hard to beat Monique or Pretty Paige, of course they are safe GFE so might not fully qualify for your GFE definition.

You can get a half hour of very hot cam girl stuff, including full interaction with your cam if you want, it's the closest thing to being there at half the price. If i were in your predicament that's what I would do anyway.

I think this is not a black and white issue, there is clearly a criminal element to any illegal activities and the prostitution portion of our criminal code does keep a criminal element involved in this business. However it is disgusting to me the way that the media blends it all under one roof. It is all branded degrading and immoral, there is no difference in the eyes of the media. There are so many different levels and styles of sex trade it is strange that it all goes into one pile, it is like comparing a new car dealer to a chop shop dealing in stolen car parts and putting them both in the same category (I do apologize for the comparison however it was the best at the spur of the moment don't mean to down grade human life to = cars) I think you get my message? The media could stand to have a better grasp of the sex industry, how is a cam girl any different than a sex slave? to you and I they are worlds apart but to the media it is one in the same corrupt sex trade taking advantage of women.

Now that is an offer that can't be refused!!

I do have a special plan, might be a last hora for a little while :)

Cat, Alex, You guys have really contributed great thoughts to this thread. I guess if the lady is a social mood and I am in a social mood and we feel there is a level of interest to go hang and do something I am in. If a lady is on the clock and needs her time paid for than I will do the regular on the clock visit. I have rarely been accused of being cheap so I think my instincts work well. If you do not give a lady what they are truly worth than they will be resentful and there will be no social time, if a lady has been particularly good to you than give him a decent tip (at least $$$) or a nice gift, something personal that you have learned she will appreciate. I am so grateful to the ladies that have given me there social time over the last few months I have seen more ladies off the clock on the clock as my finances have been a little irregular over the last month. Alex dump the dead weight, it only makes you less enthusiastic for the paying visitors (it is really hard to get ready for the next client when someone sucks your energy away). And when you are on you are most definitely on!! You 2 are some of my most favorite people!! The three of us should play together sometime soon :)

No more than any of the rest of us! Nice first try Latteur, now on to the next. Glad you decided to hit over the $200 mark as well that always gets a happier lady.

This is the one type of business that police do go after, earlier this year a gang of orientals were broken and several sex slaves identified and freed. The last place you want to be is on top of this girl if this bust goes down.

And the scorpions keep on rolling! HAPPPY BIRTHDAY

You beat me to it, wife has one of those things looks like a mop and runs around trying to trip you. Hey but to each there own! Try mentioning this style massage to a Chinese lady and they will look at you like you are talking about the dog. I think you need to find a geisha girl for this experience.

Sales always include some flirting, I am a big flirt. I also make it perfectly clear that it is just fun and games, nothing more (usually bring up the wife and kids if it gets a little out of hand). I am sure that the ladies consider me as one of those all talk and no action types.

If she is not answering the phone that it is probably a knew thing to her, she is trying to sort out the sugar daddy angle and has not got all the bugs worked out. I often have lunch or breakfast or diner with SP's that I see, it is a lot of fun to hang out with them socially, when the clothes hit the floor the clock starts that my rule. I will buy them gifts and be extra generous with tips etc... if they have been nice to me, it is on my terms. There are some ladies that offer social dates on the rate card and this does not interest me, although I think it is perfectly legitimate.

K I am in, but only if I have a female to accompany me. Any takers?

There is this section called the recommendation section?? Or you can head to Montreal and get a lady in the lower price range (not sure why the price discrepancy). Just depends on what is more important time and gas or convenience.

And Cat is very well skilled in shower play, this is a worth while request with this lady if you are a water baby!