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To make a life style change we need to believe there is either a detriment in the behavior or benefit in changing the behavior. Many men switch from Dancers to escorts because they believe they are getting more bang for the buck, many men stop seeing escorts once they find a significant other. You need a compelling reason to stop, that makes iron clad sense to you.

Over the years I have had the pleasure of knowing a few ladies. I have had relationships from different perspectives and at different points of entry and exit from the business. In the early 90's I had an escort agency and today I still talk to some of the ladies that worked through the agency, it is interesting to see how they evolved. People involved in the sex industry for the most part are passing through they have insecurities and fears that can only be met by this type of business. As they get the strengths to move on we should celebrate for them, this is a new mile stone in their lives and some will return but many do not. Be happy that they have found a place to feel self fulfilled without needing the superficial relationship we made with them. The SP/client and probably even more so the Dancer/client relationship is tricky, from the ladies perspective there is not always a lot of respect felt for the client(a few clients do stand out as more than just johns that is the exception), when they move on they want to distance themselves from this part of there lives and that includes the people they saw. It is not a personal thing it's just that the job was an end to a means and when it is over they don't want to be reminded of it.

There is that place in Russia, (too lazy to look up the thread I posted last year) they have it set up as a cam house and site. The guys agree to be viewed on live cam and become actors no money is exchanged on the set the guys are volunteers and the ladies are paid from the proceeds of the voyeur watchers. Too my knowledge this would also be legal here in Canada!

Mini Me of course!! Anyone got a spare hairless pussy?

Now I can surf like a mad man! Posted via Mobile Device

You make choices along the way, I have not always been as active as I am now with SP's but I had several relationships instead. At this point in time the SP side is easier to work with than several relationships. In the future time will tell I am still waiting for the Chrystal ball (it's been on back order for quite some time now) However ultimately I do not think that any of us are capable of being faithful (by us I mean the regulars here) that is just a fact that we should learn to live with, or at O69 says cut it off.

Ya the SP client shower is a great thing! Janeva is the best in the pre shower I think I have had (amazing BBBJ after the suds have cleared!) As for the hotel towel thing, some rooms come with laundry this is a great touch and worth the extra $20 as the sheets and towels are always fresh! Also if the ladies bring a suitcase why not pack one with towels? Wal-mart, Zellers even Ikea have them on sale all the time. Just some thoughts

Yes the mistress experience, many of the independent ladies around here offer this kind of a package. Don't be shy just ask, I have a few favorites that do let me entertain them a little with drinks or diner or lunch even breakfast before or during a play date! Cat is my bestest one for a naked lunch!! Watch out for the mayonnaise! And no one is as classy to head out for a good steak with than Julie!! There are a few others but I don't want to put them in awkward positions with too many guys asking for this kind of extra without understanding the commitment that it requires.

So can we call you RWMNN for short :D

How convenient the postal people just dropped my new smart phone :)

Woo hoo 29 again !! :twisted: Aaand u get a freebei with RaShell!!

Man does it read that bad! OK reread it with a vision of a fat bald dwarf with a cup of coffee and a dozen cream filled donuts, wearing homer Simpson slippers and a worn red bath rob on! Does it still seem so scary? I guess my point is I have been trying some of the badly reviewed ladies and they have not been that bad. Maybe my standards are just to low :D Also how do the well reviewed ladies keep it always on?

I wanted to add something here about how vitally important the relationship is. In the past month I have visited a few ladies that many of you would not get along with and have not reviewed because of this. I am a strong believer in someone?s Aura, some people believe this is a spiritual energy and others believe it is the outward appearance of someone mood and place in life. Some people believe that it is pure energy that someone set off and some believe it your eye movement the way you smell and the way your body language talks for you. I can look past many things in the environment if the lady has some spark that i can identify. It is amazing what a positive outlook can have on an experience, if you go to see someone with compassion and passion the experience is always heightened. Also we are programmed by our past experiences in this very fast encounters (5 -10 minuets from first encounter to naked and in the throws of a very personal act). Because of this any triggers or reminders that you have from previous programming play a huge roll. You walk in the door and the girl reminds you of your neighbour that you had a huge crush on in High school, or she could bring back a bad memory just as easily no fault of her own. And likewise when we walk in the door some times we bring back memories good or bad. In order for a session to go well there needs to be a happy place that both the client and the SP can find to meet in. I remember one lady a few weeks ago that first said no kissing, I looked at her with a boyish look and ask innocently "why not?", she replied that it was very personal, I looked at her and said we are going to some very personal thing anyway I hope you are up for it, and I touch her face and swept away her hair and she kind of got that look and we DFK'd for about 5 mins before we said anything else. So keep in mind that you may remind her of Uncle Ernie and that can be good or bad depending on the life experiences with Uncle Ernie were. It is best to try and read her as you come in and try to get on her good side as soon as possible you only have an hour to make it right. It is interesting to note that the best ladies with the most recommendation have there own places they go to that make them happy when you arrive, and unless you are a real dick they will not stray form the job at hand. These are the ladies that I consistently endorse and they are easy to distinguish, usually a big kiss before they even really see what you look like. At the same time ladies, if you can get some things that consistently turn you on and you can jump to those places in your head when we visit it would be a better experience for us to. I don?t care if the vision is you in a field with 50 Horney goats or in the ladies room of an all girl soccer team getting it from all the girls, just find that happy place. Of course I am sure that for some of the ladies it in my arms romantically intertwined on dessert beach! And the other guys won?t mind I promise J I would be interested in knowing how others have crossed these unchartered waters and won, and ladies if there are any secrets that help you, that you are alright to share (I do understand your silence if the goats work for you!).

The naked presentation is really were it is at, clean shaved in all the right area's and well groomed and clean trimmed nails etc... The ladies do not want to be grossed out it's bad enough that I am real sweater, let alone if I showed up with poor grooming! (sorry to all the ladies that I have had a few drips fall off my brow into your face, and thanks to those of you that licked it off!)

oow I do like the basic idea behind this, wonder if a wondering proxy could be incorporated to move the hits from one site to another to fool the traffic filter?each time you initiate a search or launch a new window it hits a different IP and web site? All triggered through the same VPN session hmmm. And is there a market for this kind of surfing?

I would through this in the kinky category! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=27439#post27439

This is the OS I was referring to "Linpus Linux Lite" on the home screen it uses lots of Google stuff. I am personally carrying an HP TC1100 a little older but it gets the job done! Like the Asus Eee etc... there are an abundance of them for 300-350, great for web surfing and web utilities like email, chat etc...

I do sometimes put my foot in my mouth! Butt it is for a good cause :D

Yes this board is well marshaled and we don't the spam that we could, however the few times a year that something inches into my in box this will be useful.

I guess it depends on the size of the network, if there is a server and traffic is being managed than no you cannot cover your tracks. If you are in a small office and there are a hand full of PC's networked together to share printers and Internet than yes. Best piece of advice get one of those new Google OS baby laptops they are around $300 and surf at coffee shops for free on your break or lunch.

For sure could not agree more, and the booths at Grenville are smaller than at Rigaud! Many guys would go in and be done before the song ended? (maybe they changed there mines at the price and conditions?) They came out smiling though, I don't think I could do it in 2 minutes sounds like rabbits!!

Ya I think mine will go to kink.com :D Not so much a panic for what is outside my environment but to calm my nerves when I read a stupid post!

While we are on the Honeyzworld now you see now you don't thing, what happened with the Brazilian??

That is a disappointment I had my finger on the dial and saw this first Honeyz world was a call I was making this morning!! Thanks for saving the grief CK

Gees that is a lot of short sales around here have you seen the album section at the top of the page?