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Some how I to end up at the center of controversy with these types of things. I have chosen a different path and that transparency. This can lead to many other problems but at the end of the day it all ways it self out. I think anyone who has met me know the kind of guy I am, I would rather stand in front of you and let you judge me than speculate behind my back. I think a few things are very clear to those that have met me; 1. I am not a pimp 2. I am not bankrupt 3. I am a professional and not a hoodlum posing as one Slurp from I read about your posts online you are also a stand up guy, when we this much passion for the Hobby people are currious about us that's all. Yes there are bad people out there but they have no credibility. One of the things I learned early in life is if you are having a problem with someone or some people don't be afraid to show your face and confront them. This is a secert hobby and we fear if our business associates or families find about us. The oddest things come back to bite us as careful as we are if you are active things will happen.

Bing live maps has had a version of this for years whats the big deal?

If you want to really have fun go into the club with a few SP's or open minded girl friends, and wave $100's around. Word will spread and the really dirty girls will come out of the wood work :) plan on leaving and hosting a rather interesting private party at a nearby hotel. WARNING: this is bad for you financial health but a hell of a good time if you run into some cash. Budget $100 for the room about $300 in party favors and $500 a girl for the entertainment. Plus about $300 at the club to get the ladies to the party (drinks, cover, maybe a dance or 2)

I think it would be fun to create our own sexlympics! other game type events could be the age old strip poker and lets not forget naked twister!!

For anyone interested in rubbing shoulders with and discussing Poly type activities there is a lunch this Friday the 16th, pm me for details.

In the spirit of live and let live lets not come down to hard Mr. Master, although I don't see anyone jumping at the chance to watch a demonstration? Maybe the Dom and his slave should hit a social event? Probably best to leave the dungeon gear behind though!!

No you have to switch to the other hand :) when one gets to lubed up you can go for the dryer one!

WARNING: ladies it has come to my attention that some cerbies have left negative rep points for being a member of the poly group, please let me know if this has happened to you and I will remove those members.

Anyone around for lunch next week? Thinking Friday?

The Commando thing is one of the things I appreciate about you, there is something refreshing about reaching down and no elastics or strings attached!

One spot left for next Wednesday?

Looks like Wednesday afternoon and it is going to be a good one!

There is an event in the works with one of my long term faves next wed or thur afternoon. PM me or email me "[email protected]" if you are interested.

I would see SP's three times a day everyday, the deciding factor for me is money, and time is also money. If I am busy making money and refilling the account than that is also a factor.

I had a great time thanks CH :)

It is about timing, if they see an message or a note that is a day or 2 old they assume you have moved on and respond to newer messages. With the volume of calls and contacts they get it is sometimes overwhelming. If you need an immediate reply it is better to go to an agent type provider in this case CMJ or some of the other rub clubs around town. I can tell you that if you keep trying they will eventually respond, just be nice patient and persistent. If the tone of your note reads badly to them they will also write you off very quickly as they have plenty of fish to fry.

I have a few favorites, my time and money fluctuates from month to month. I think a regular is someone you see at least every few times you see someone, for some they may only get out 3-4 times a year, they may regularly see someone once a year. For me I try to see regulars at least once a month. And in many cases weekly :) that is my favorite regular.

When I went to university Poly was a term for different derivatives of plastic, poly-nylon, poly-propylene, poly-carbon (one of my favorites!!). Poly was also a common part of the name of technical schools (it still is I just don't pay attention any more). Polytechnic anyone? The word is many and can have many connotations. I am not sure why we get so hung up on semantics. It evolved because of the bad connotations with gang bang the group is not a gang bang group as we have had members involved in MMMFF, MMFF, MFF, etc... As for the social meetings, yes they are for anyone in the group, and the group is for anyone that wants to be involved OR is curious about multi-person or poly party sex. Anyone interested in finding out more about our activities, or curious about the group. The people who show up are about 50-50 between those curious and those active, one interesting phenomena is many of the active members are not interested in the social events, and several of the social members are not interested in actually participating but would rather live vicariously through others. Like all fantasies for some it is better left as a fantasy. I don't know if I will ever be able to unravel the confusion for many of you, and if the idea or threads don't make sense just look the other way. Maybe like the male service provider section this topic needs a separate section?

I think the buzz is now October 1st event being planned by Canuckhooker

It is going to be a great one!! Thanks to Mr. Hooker for organizing!!

The polls about how much we make and how much we spend also seem to be popular (looking at the average)

emb3750 FKK...nuf said! If you want some good review ask Ulixthesetrojans he has been to Germany a few times in the last couple of years!!

WOW that is an impressive list good work!!

I think you are far more talented than you let on, after all you do get offers for paying gigs too!

My wife was a feature too at the time, there was a photographer in TO that did very cool Black and white stuff with Harley's and ladies, he also did lots of promo shots and portfolio's. He did photo's for Debbie, and one night he and his wife invited my wife and I to their cool loft/studio/apartment thingy and Debbie was also visiting. It was a very good night!!