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I agree, very well said and well written.

Being caught in an indiscreet situation hasn't happened yet, but every time I walk into a hotel lobby or down a street in an area I don't normally spend time in, I'm afraid someone I know will see me and ask me at an awkward time, hey I saw you the other day going into the xyz hotel, or on abc street. I would hate the thought of something like that coming up in some social situation with the SO. Hasn't happened yet, but one day.......

If you don't like the way I drive, keep your cat in the house

The sexy attire is great, but sometimes I would like to be greeted by an SP dressed in street clothes. You know, like you would dress if you were going to do the groceries. It's kind of sexy and allows my imagination work a bit.

After hours in the cold/humid outdoors, entering a toasty room with a fireplace and feeling the warmth as the heat enters your body.

Angela: That's the way is would have to work. Just post what you need and what it's worth to you. Hum, do we need a new barter section? ;)

A web site is a huge plus. It should provide a decent gallery along with rates and services. But the same information on CERB will do as well. Given the number of SP's with their information available via a site or CERB, I would be hard pressed to book blind. There can always be exceptions, but that would be rare. I find CL to be a poor substitute as any pictures are of such low resolution they are not of much use.

She looks hot. Have a look at the reviews on her site, they seem to be on the up and up. It appears she has some limitations in that DFK and digits were not available, but could be a ymmv thing. Otherwise seems worth a visit.

Yea, I'd have to agree with T'storm, 10-15 minutes works best for me.

I was able to spend some time with Manuella this week and what a joy. After exchanging a number of PM's with Phoebee I booked some time with Manuella. I arrived to the high end downtown hotel to be met at the door by the beautiful Manuella wrapped in a towel. This lady is not at all represented well by the pictures on the site. Since those pictures were taken she lost a bit of weight as a result of stress around exam time and is now a perfect tight, soft spinner at 5'2" and no more than 100lbs if that. She is part Portuguese & part Egyptian, which makes for a real exotic look. She has wonderful A breasts with very responsive nipples. And such an attractive face. I was in Heaven. After a quick shower the towels were quickly shed and we got to know each other much better. I will not go into details, but Manuella is a Safe GFE, so CBJ is available with LFK, I did not partake in DATY but I am sure it is available. By the time the cowgirl ride started I was so ready I could not last long. I do not know about multiple SOG as one is enough for me. Oh, did I mention the vibrating toy? Ask her. Before closing I can't miss pointing out that this lady is not only beautiful but is extremely smart and easy to talk to. She has done lots of traveling and is well versed in world affairs. I would have enjoyed another hour to just sit and talk over a glass of wine. I'll have to plan that for the next time. teched

What a sweetheart Peachy is. It took me awhile to book a date with Val, but only because it took so long to get rid of my cold. I would book, then would have to reschedule because the symptoms were not gone yet. Peachy/Val was very patient and understanding. But then it was easy to book this trip to heaven with a couple of PMs. There is no point in going into details, as it has all been said accurately already. She is a real sweetheart and is a class act. Most importantly, she enjoys what she does. That makes for an outstanding time. Thank you Val, can't wait till next time.

Downtown, as has been said, can be troublesome. Parking, traffic, etc. My preference would be south or west.

I also have had surprises with SP's who into the session advise they have a rule of no kissing. Like others I now pay close attention the recommendations to ensure DFK is listed. I do see one Asian lady regularly though who does not kiss, but it is a cultural thing for her and I do very much enjoy my time with her anyway. But that is the exception. Kissing very much adds to the enjoyment and to the fantasy of the experience. But as I have found there are also sometimes exceptions.

ATH, I think the two items mentioned really covers it. 1. Take a First Aid course 2. Call 911 In any emergency situation where I was the first on scene, even with training, I would appreciate the assitance that the folks who answer 911 calls would provide. They will offer all the advise needed and walk you through the steps. Having the 1st aid course would be a great help. I guess the other suggestion would be to ensure the SP or person you are with are aware of any of your medical history that could cause you to pass out or collapse on them. I remember seeing an SP who had a medical condition and she was very open about it. I felt more comfortable knowing about her condition, just in case. Of course it was not a problem and I very much enjoyed my time with her.

I would have a problem with MFM. The TS route is not real interesting as most I have seen are just too male for me. There is one TS that was in Ottawa, I think in 2008, who I thought I would like to try if she ever came back, but that never happened. Not sure if I am happy or sad about that. The TS I was focused on was Aylhin from California. I am betting that this TS would change the mind of a few guys, not only me. Have a look at http://www.aylhin.com/about.htm For sure, this TS would tempt me into that world. BTW, look close to the last para of the biography page, otherwise there is no hint we have a TS site here.

Thank you MOD. Great information, provides welcome insight as to your challenges and approach to this site. Like Cato, I feel good about where Cerb is going. teched

I must admit, I miss the picture threads, all somewhat specialized. But I also understand the MODs frustration with rules not being followed. I wonder, if required, could individuals who ignore or misunderstand the rules be banned from those threads only. Proably not possible or too dificult to manage, but it would be nice to see the picture threads back. I also miss the shout box. It also appears that in the recommendation threads, the initial recommending member can update the list of services. But I don't see how followup recommendations can change or alter the list of services, other than in the text. Services do change over time and that list at the top can't be changed. Then again, CERB is great as is and these comments fall under "it would be nice if".

There was an interesting discussion/poll awhile back on that. More on oral in general rather than DATY specifically. Very non-scientific though. http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=5225&highlight=oral

Jolene is still one of my all time favorite aliens. But, I still need to get out to see Avatar. It appears to be a must see for the sci-fi folks and the technology looks to be top notch.

Have you given any consideration of using a female condom? I don't know much about them, but if they work it could solve the issue for your client.

I find that what works for me is to schedule, maybe a week in advance. The trick then is to keep that time clear and not allow anyone to schedule something with me for that time. If anyone trys, they will generally accept that you are not available then and offer an alternate time. Of course during the normal work day is easiest as it avoids the discussion with "the she who must be obeyed".

Is mud wrestling a sport? Although, I think I would want to get into the middle of that one. [/url]

Agreed, the reco is more for the hobbiest than for the ladies.

I don't know what the answer is, but I understand Grass Hoppers point and agree with it. We have all seen providers come, receive great reviews, then service deteriorates. Not often but it happens. So if I am looking for a new provider, I will select a few possibilities then look at recommendations in more detail. If I find a provider with recent good recommendations and another with good recommendations that are a couple of months old, I will lean towards the recently recommended provider. I would appreciate periodic updates to existing recommendations so I don't overlook a great provider because the recommendations are out of date. But the shill issue does exist. The answer I think, and I am as bad as anyone, is for ALL of us to update a recommendation, if your experience is worthy and even if it has already all been said. Update it anyway, so the rest of us know it is current. teched

I have not run into this situation either. If I had, it would make me a bit nervous. I just don't see the point, so why would anyone ask.