Jim.Bean

There have been a few girls that haven't replied to my e-mails but I have never been stood up. A few bait and switches. But even one of those was way better than what I was expecting. I usually take a fairly business oriented approach. 1st e-mail. -An intro to who I am, What are your rates (if not posted) & are you avaialble on this specific date and time. 2nd e-mail -State my preferences (clothing) and confirm time and date. 3rd e-mail on the morning of meeting(or phone if that is her preference) -Confirm were are still on schedule It's not just a hobby for the SP but a business as well. In my proffession meetings are considered a very valuable commodity. It may come across a bit cold but I find that if I keep the business part of our meeting purely proffesional than the pleasure part of our meeting can focus on exactly that

Seriously? 1) I was on Anti-depressants for 4+ years and it definately didn't impact my desire or performance. I have been on High blood pressure for the last 5 years and again, no impact. 2) My sexualality has not changed since I was 16 except that I might be a little more inclined to pleasure women now than when I was 18 3) Can't comment from personal experience 4) My wife and I are at opposite ends of what we would like sexually. If anything it has increased my desire and need for sexual encounters 5) My wife can bitch and scream all day but if at any point in time I she drops her pants or even if I think I possibly see a nipple poking though her shirt... I am good to go. It's sex.. and Damn it's always good 6) Stress, really? I live and work in a very high stress environment. Every day I deal with confrontation and frustration. The BEST way to deal with stress..... Bend over dear,, it's been a ruff day :bddog: 7)I LOVE masturbation. The only thing better than pulling one off is... :handjob: The only thing better than pulling one off is having a woman do it for me. And what could be better than that :confused: :69: you guessed it. DATY . Masturbation is only an entree.lol 8) I can comment only on late ejaculation. Yes it actually is a dysfuntion. It can take forever to complete sometimes. Does it stop me?? Not at all. I still glady do what I can and if it's takin to long I can always finish up on my own later. Its like a double header without the midgame clean-up 9)Any place is the best place. Really, who comes up with these lists? If there is a female orifice that is willing to take what I got.. I am willing to fulfill it

Actually my wife did fool around on me once and the guilt was more than she could bear. When she talked to me about it I wasn't upset at all. Night out at a business trip, drinks and a sleep over with a stranger. It was consentual, and he was smart enough to pack protection. THe only thing I asked of her was to keep protection with her always, which she does. But really, it bothered her more than me. They didn't form a relationship, no swaping of phone numbers or addys. She had a good time, good for her. I wouldn't think of looking for a relationship outside my marriage. BUt sex... That's a whole different ball game for me

I played around a lot prior to marriage. When I met and married my wife it was almost a bit of culture shock that sex and love would be considedred intrinsically linked. For me.. Love is a relational choice. I never fell in love with my wife but I grew and continue to grow to love her more each day. Sex on the other hand is a party and I love to party with my wife, but I also love to party with others. I spent the first 5 years of our marriage trying to ease her into a lifestyle similar to mine but she is steadfast in her ways. After our 5th anniversary I nearly had an affair with a close friend. And to make a long story short I realized that most women link sex with love. So the potential mistress got jelous and it nearly ruined us. So, shortly after that I met with my first SP. It was great. Just sex, a bit of chatting but no worries of someone calling my Mrs. and trying to break us up. Part of the reason I would rather play the feild then stick with a single SP is that fear of relationship. And as long as they are willing to take me I will be out there playin the feild with safe proffesional women that won't jeaprodize my marriage.

I turnd forty last year and either developed a concsience or all of the poking about getting old has finally gotten to me. I LOVE younger women, if an attractive girl between 19 and 30 walks by I am most likely aroused. BUT... I am not 20 or 30 anymore I have the extra 40 pounds of weight put on since then, and I have started to wonder how old will I be when I am too old for a 20 year old SP. Damn I have neices older than them. Do SP's actually enjoy time with older men, do I need to start seeing a regular or am I good to play the field with every new and young hottie for then next 20 years???

I have had to bolt on a couple of occasions. Both times I recieved messages on my blackberry, which I ask if it's OK to check and then only check after the deed is done. When I have had to leave in a rsh I usually leave a tip. I feel it's a bit disrespectful to my SP and try to avoid early departures whenever possible

Just wondering. I see a lot of agencies from other parts of the country. Why are there none from winnipeg? Enquiring minds want to know:confused:

I once had to bail on an appointment because my son got hurt in a pretty serious way. I sent my SP (Jamie) an E-mail as I didn't have a phone number and offered to pay whatever the cancellation fee. She was understanding and asked for nothing. I made an extra effort to connect and when we did meet I made sure I had a substantial bonus included. Sometimes we really do have to cancel. I would hope that if I need to cancel again I would get the same treatment. On the flip side.. in my 15years of hobbying.. Never has any SP ever cancelled on me. Manitoba women are incredible:smile:

George was right. With pigmen around I have suddenly become a lot more attractive. Thanks to all the A**holes out there that make my 40 extra pounds look not so bad;)

I agree with seedy hotels being a turn off and usually a turn away. I am always upfront with it as well during initial contact. If it is a dark room in a bad neighbourhood with a matress on the floor... I am bailing. If it's a OK hotel or apartment I am up for the fun. I drive a very recognizable truck and I can usually find a parking space at a nearby bar, store, or shop if it's in a business district.

I met with Jamie a few weeks back and had an OK time. No GF experience but no complaints. PM Me for more 411

The woman that used to accompany me was not an SP but rather a married lady who was looking for some non-committed fun. I have had Three-somes with 2 SP's and although never dissapointed it is different when you get comfy with a woman and the SP is the mystery addition

About 10yrs ago when I first started hobbying I met a lovely Milf who would join me on occasion for a 3some with an SP. After she moved to TO i lost touch with her. And have never found a replacement partner. Now that I am 40 the hunt gets even harder. Anyone still find women that are willing to hook up with SP's?

Every single time I meet an SP i request that she meet me in Jeans and a T. To which every SP has agreed. Over the last 10 years I have only had 4 or 5 SP's actually wearing Jeans All the rest are wearing some form of lingerie or a dress with minimal underneath. Althugh I must confess almot all were still great experiences jake

Elizabeth was an angel and I miss her a lot.

Tight Jeans and A tighter T-Shirt.Bra N Panties.... Some thing a little more than thongs and nothing too lacy.:jackoff:

After having a great time with an SP I decided to head out to a club. about 2 drinks later I meet her on the dance floor. I join in with her and her friends and then head back to their table where she introduces me to her BF. Very akward cause he doesn't know what she does outside of school. It's stil a running joke whenever we cross paths

I have been hobbying for nearly 15yrs and very seldom do I repeat with the same SP. I have had a couple of bad experiences but 90% of the time the experience is wonderful. I love the excitement of meeting a new lady and experiencing all she has to offer. Different shapes, sizes, ethnic groups, I just love them all. I have on occasion repeated with great results but I am nervous about establishing a "relationship" or revealing too much of who I am which might put my family and/or career at risk. I expect I will continue to repeat on occasion but am wondering what other Hobbyists and SP's think about this?

I had the unfortunate experience of having a SP who had arranged a few dates for me get busted by the Cops. How it impacted me... Well first I get an e-mail from the SP. Jake the cops have my addy book,, don't worry you were safe and legal. then the next E-mail. Jake, they got my phone list, they may call you, say nothing, you were safe and legal, contact me if you have any concerns. So I contact her directly while crapping my panys thinking my mariage and career are dead. Then the deaded call. Jim... we aquired your phone number out of a prostitutes phone and ould like to discuss this with you in person. Would you like to come to the station or should we come by your house. Sorry officer it must be the wrong number my name is Jake... and if you step foot onto my property you better have a warrent and my lawyer present. Sorry sir must have the wrong number. Got to have one more date arranged then the SP retired (sort-of) Make SURE you ask your SP's to store your CERB name not your real name in their books. Saved my balls Then the

First SP I was ever with said I looked like Weird all yancovich. I was not able to perform up to full standards and as soon as I left her appt I got my curly locks cut off and have never grown my hair long again. This was around 15 years ago and it still bothers me..damn:!:

I met with a young SP in Winnipeg a cpl years ago and I was quite nervous. Her add said 19 but she looked 17. I would say that at least 1/2 our time was spent with her trying to assure me she was over 18 then we had an incredible time. I met with her once more and then she retired. I still feel semi-guilty on occasion. I wish there was a proper way to confirm a young SP's age but I definately was not about to ask her for Photo I.D. Any suggestions if I encounter this again?

Zombie strippers has a great spoof on a classic line. Badgers? We no need no stinkin Badger, then Patches? We no need no stinkin patches, then a few more similar and finaly... Badges. Yeah thats a great idea we need badges

I got to say that I catually found this quite funny. How can any guy in his right mind ask personal question? Finances, Insurance? lmfo I will usually ask if it's alright to kiss and seems like everything just goes smooth from there. Sometimes after the "act" if there is cuddle time an SP will tell me some stuff about her life, family, hobbies, but I never ask. ever. I have been asked some fairly personal info from SP's and sometimes I share and sometimes I divert Jake

How do I provide a reference?