Kubrickfan

Folks, how "discrete" are these? I know the location is kept confidential, but can you give me a feel for the surroundings? Sounds like great fun otherwise. It might be possible to schedule a trip to Ottawa to correspond, but I'd have to get really comfortable with this.

Leinenkuegel ... made nearby in Chippewa Falls, Wisconsin. Just a perfect, well balanced lager. Just the original ... I know Leinie's makes a lot of flavored beers, but they're not for me. The original is made right in the brewery in Chippewa Falls and I 've occasionally made the drive over to get a case or two. Very fresh.

"Can do, but won't!"

I think Bridgette has this nailed and this is great advice but all the others posters have valid points as well. A SC is a really weird place for a guy ... the roles are reversed, and the ladies are trying to make eye contact with you. That's a great ego boost, but you shouldn't waste a lady's time. I will up the ante a slight bit and say that you can say that you aren't interested in a dance right now, but you would be glad to buy here a drink and talk a bit. I wouldn't do that either unless a dance or two is a possibility.

First car: Toyota Corolla hatchback ... at least it had a manual transmission. Worst car: none, really. Favorite car: my current ride: 09 BMW 535xi ... most excellent!

I was able to spend some additional wonderful time with Miss Class (aka Courtney) last week during a trip to Ottawa. It had been quite a while since we had gotten together (she had been off cerb for a while). We had a wonderful time. I got caught up on her professional (day job) career and got to see some samples of her work. This is a very bright and talented lady! And she still has that incredible spinner type body style. I have never felt more at ease, and comfortable, with any other SP than Miss Class. I hope to see her again in the next few weeks.

The "original" Delta (also on Queen) also has a single elevator down a hallway to the left before you get to the desk and main lobby. I think it only goes to the 8th or 9th floor. If you are on the upper floors, you can still take this elevator, get off at a floors 3-8/9, walk to the other end of the hallway and take the main elevators to the higher floors. Minto Suites also allows you to get to the elevators without walking immediately past the desk.

Cato -- Thanks for everything!

Best wishes to you.

"Business casual" is usually your best bet.

Well, there were the catalogs with woman's underwear, etc., but the first real exposure was to a playboy magazine centerfold in my friend's "fort" under the stairs in his parents house. Boy was that ever cool!

Was that sort of law supported by a majority of the population? Or is this just an example of a small, vocal minority insisting on inflicting their will on everyone else? In the US, we have a limit on potassium in fertilizer, but I think Weed-B-Gone, Round-up, etc., is still widely available.

But Bridgette's around (smile)!!!

Gatineauguy -- by the way, very sorry to miss the reference in your initial post to the fact that you are widowed ... Very best wishes to you.

Gatineauguy -- my guess is you will never hear from her. In fact, dont be surprised if you go back in to the club in a few days and she doesn't even recognize you ... Either because she is trying not to or because she really doesn't. I think the facts you lay out in your post, albeit in one experience and "on steroids," so to speak, happen to many guys in one form or another. Your responses here show a level of insight as to the situation that will serve you well. That being said, two things to add: It is possible to make friends with the ladies at the SCs, but you have to understand (and I think you do)that this is their business. Of course the ladies are going to be polite as that is the best way to sell some dances. And a friendship is not going to happen overnight ... It may take months or years, or maybe never with some of the ladies. To state the obvious, but always a good reminder, a strip club is a really different place to the uninitiated male. The roles are reversed ... Here you have gorgeous women trying to make eye contact with men, trying to get close to them, etc.. It was really weird for me at first too, and you can definitely get the wrong impression in a hurry. Lastly, if you go into a club with the right expectations, you can have a really good time and meet some great ladies. Just don't take things too seriously.

Good grief. Being from the U.S., what exactly did they ban?

Well, good news! It looks like Miss Class is making another appearance here on cerb and I hope to see here again soon the next time I am in Ottawa. I am trying to encourage her to come out of her shall a bit and participate on the boards ... we'll see what happens.

Maybe its just required by the nature of the "business," but I'm a bit surprised that some of the ladies are willing to respond to a txt as an initial inquiry to set up a meeting. Maybe I'm misunderstanding, and it certainly makes a big difference if you already know the client (or even know of the client via cerb), but if I were an SP I'd be worried about setting up an appointment with an unknown texter. It just seems to me that texting is the most "base" form of communication and doesn't allow (in 100 - 150 characters) for any sort of genuine communication with an unfamiliar person.

Late to this thread, but its a great topic and lots of great responses. Nathalie's response is wonderful (and not to mention realy sexy ...smile) at the same time. Its wonderful because its the absolute truth ... establishing a level of comfort and familiarity, via a connection of one form or another, that allows each person to be comfortable and sincere in exploring their own sensuality while having a sense of what the other person really is enjoying. The ladies I have enjoyed my time with the most are those that I have made that "connection" with. It could be on whatever topic you share in common as it establishes that this person is someone that shares (or at least understands) my point of view ... therefore they are "familiar" to me and I am comfortable with them. Once that is established, its is much easier to explore some sort of physical connection in a genuine way. That's a lot to ask in an hour so I always try to extend appointments, especially "introductory" appointments, whenever possible.

To be perfectly frank, there needs to be a level of physical attractiveness to me. But what really makes a visit special is being with someone who is intelligent and enjoys conversation and sharing opinions. Having multiple visits makes a big difference as well as it gives you a chance to get to know that person, their likes and dislikes, and gain a level of comfort and familiarity that you simply can't get in a single visit. And these ladies can be independents or work for agencies ... doesn't seem to make a difference.

By the way, is it shaven, shaved or shorn?

Just thinking about this makes me cross my legs. I hope no one does this with a straight razor.:icon_surprised:

Congrats Pete ... Lots of good quality posts! In other words, still not "shootin' blanks!"

Smiley -- with the ladies who posted yesterday, and with Charlotte's additional response this morning, it sounds like you have some great advice and leads as to who offers this sort of service. Just remember to make certain your partner shares your mindset before arranging something.

Doesn't exactly help for planning purposes. Fortunately, many other lovely ladies around.