Kubrickfan

A bit of unsolicited advice to the extent this is still a current issue: I would stay out of it as you don't know how either the girl or the mom would react. If it's negative, you could lose that friendship, or at least whatever cordiality exists, forever.

I have to say the loss of Michelle has me reaaally bummed out. I remember about a year or so ago seeing both her and Amanda/Little Lady on the same visit to Ottawa. And Michelle, in case you are reading this, do take care of yourself and always be prepared to make the right decision!

Do you have really nosy neighbors or something like that? I guess that could be a concern, but generally I dont think that is much of a problem. I agree with SA that the best way is to express the concern to the agency or lady in question. And if you do have nosy neighbors, heck you could have her bring a briefcase or notebook to throw people off the trail. Or even a vacuum cleaner, but I dont know how I'd explain that last one to the agency (smile).

I think the only thing that could possibly be worse than the "wife experience" would be the lets talk about money with your wife experience. Maybe that's available as an extra cost option.:icon_rolleyes:

Not every one shares the same "paradigms" as to what constitutes normal behavior between the sexes. This can also get completedly out of whack in the context of a visit from and SP or a visit to a strip club. Suddently, the roles seem to be reversed ... is this lady really interested in me as she seems to be? The answer is, unfortunately no (smile), or not at least in the same way she is in a traditional relationship. That isn't intended as a knock on anyone, its just the way it is. Let me put it this way: if you have seen a lady numerous times, and if you are genuinely interested in her for the right reasons (not just sex), and if you are willing to accept rejection and still maintain a client/SP relationship, AND (most important) if you think she shares those feelings, go ahead and ask in the most deferential and pleasant way possible. I agree it would be better for the lady to ask you, but that may never happen. And I would put your odds, overall, at 5-10% or less. Also, ever if she says yes, listen carefully, as it might not be the "yes" you are looking for. .

Just a simple point about a lot of the PK ladies ... often, but not always, their reviews appears on cerb under "PK" then the lady's name. For instance, I recently reviewed a PK lady by the name of Jessy ... her reviews appear under "PK Jessy" not just "Jessy," so those appear in the alphabetized list under "P," not "J." Again, that's true for a number of the PK ladies, but not all of them. Also, you may want to check the other boards as well.

Just a suggestion ... to help people find you, you may want to post a hyperlink on your profile page to the agency you are currently working with. However, I tried going to the website listed on your profile and that doesn't appear to be working. Best wishes!

A dancer at Barb's told me that the measure of how busy a club is has everything to do with how busy it is the the CR. Nowadays, nobody is making much money unless its busy in there.

I would think that most of the ladies here are either married or are in some sort of relationship with another person (male or female ... or both ... wink). Any many of the ladies here make no secret of it. One of the ladies here who I have seen on a few occasions is married and I still feel that my time with her is very personal. If it was an incall visit (very unlikely for me anyways), knowing the guy was in the other room or something like that would make me feel uncomfortable. Sometimes the person who seems stressed out is actually the lady. I did have an encounter recently with another lady on this board who's significant other (apparently a guy married to yet another woman) called at least three times during our visit. It was ok ... I knew this person well, and it was kind of funny and inciteful (listening to her talk when she was ... well ... "in the middle of things," so its all good.

As I said on the other thread, I have resolved to "re-recommend" a lady whenever I see her again, with the assumption the encounter is a good one. The ladies that I have seen on numerous occasions are important to me, and if, as pointed out in the other thread, I might hurt their reputations by not posting a more current recommendations, so I am going to go out of the way to make sure I do so. That being said, I do have two points/issues I'd like to raise: 1) To Meg's point about spending "two minutes" on a recommendation ... For me, it's NEVER two minutes to write a review ... it's a lot of minutes, and in a re-recommendation, I am going to consider new points or a new story to add to the recommendation. That takes time and effort. 2) these are recommendations, and as such, they have to be written in accordance with Cerb guidelines and in a positive way. The only way the guys here have to not recommend someone (at least on this board) is ... well ... silence. Again, I rarely have had a bad experience to the point where silence on Cerb is my only option, but that option needs to be available and I will never criticize a guy for not writing one.

Apex, I dont think you have anything to apologize for either as you obviously intended your comments as a compliment. This is a great topic and there are some delicate and sensitive issues here. In reading through the entire thread, and thinking more about VJ's and the other ladies' comments, I wonder if the guys dont owe more to the ladies in their reviews, especially the ladies that they have seen more than once, to help keep those reviews current. This is especially true on cerb, where the lack of reviews is often interpreted (for better or worse) as a bad thing. I imagine the same impression might exist for a lady that doesn't have any recent reviews even though that lady might be a wonderful companion, and I can see how that could be very hurtful to the lady in question. I dont think the guys do it intentionally, they just get lazy and forget to post a new review. I have never met VJ, but the ladies I have seen on multiple occasions are ... for lack of a better word ... friends of sorts, and I would never intentionally hurt a friend. Therefore, going forward, I intend to supplement a review every time I see a lady more than once, with the sole exception being an appointment that didn't go well. Fortunately, that happens very infrequently! And I suggest the other guys here on cerb do the same.

Not disagreeing about the Green issue, and as a reminder I live in the states (so I obviously wont be voting in Canada). In the US, there is usually a cutoff if a party doesn't poll with a certain percent of the popular vote. this isn't an effort to cut anyone off as much as it is an effort to given the voters a chance to hear from the candidates that have a reasonable chance of winning. Also, as to the media, I definitely wouldn't want it run by the government.

Personally, I don't think it's a big deal. If Cerb came up in conversation during our meeting or if we communicated via Cerb PM to arrange a visit, I think it's a reasonable request. And if it feels too artificial, I'll probably politely say I'll see what I can do and then forget to post anything.

Aw, jeez ... Just saw her a little over a month ago. Very sad to see this ... Agree with Cato. Michelle has taken some time off before. Maybe she'll pop back up.

Coke, especially if you can get it direct from Mexico as they make it with cane sugar instead of corn syrup (tastes lighten and more refreshing). some Costco stores in the States carry it.

One point you made about little league baseball ... kids sports nowadays are so organized, and so run by adults, that I wonder if kids are learning the life skills they need to cooperate and play fair on their own.

I enjoy technology, but I'm not that good at it. I'm wasting a lot of time right now getting to know my new iPad2 and playing Angry Birds. I enjoy reading, especially books by Tom Clancy and Vince Flynn and other books from that genre. I enjoy shooting especially pistol shooting (I live in the states) as they are a great way to relax and concentrate at the same time. And most of all I enjoy my family!

At least from the point of view of the guys, WIT is right ... we simply dont know. And this is the issue that is always in the back of my mind whenever I see someone new. I prefer to only see ladies that are independents and from one or two agencies that I believe do a reasonably good job of vetting candidates, but who knows. Virtually all of the ladies I have seen appear positive and in a healthy mood. And, frankly, some of the brightest, spirited ladies I have met are SPs, especially the independents. And I hope that's always the case.

Fortunately, I've never suffered and physical damage (smile), but once ... with an agency SP ... well ... we started with a little DATY and there was ... wellllll ... a bad smell. Really bad. Ick. I felt like I was the last guy at the end of a very long line.

Agreed! The truth shall set you free! (smile) Its hard to say that looks aren't important to most of the guys. Obviously they look at the pictures although there are a number of ladies who I have seen that dont look the same as their pictures did a couple years ago. The problematic situations are those where the ladies, either by accident or design, choose not to show certain areas. I can understand touching up for identifying tatoos and for blurring faces, but not beyond that.

Very sorry to hear as well, and really without a parallel in current cinema, although I saw The Tourist last night and Angelina Jolie is making a run for that position. There's also a rumor that Jolie will be in a remake of "Cleopatra."

This is just a rare week when I'm on cerb during the day and saw the post ... glad to help, especially when it concerns the lovely ladies of Barbs!

Thats a good idea Cato. I started one for Bridgette since she was a member here. Guys, on threads regarding the dancers, we should be very careful to avoid discussing issues about private activities in the CR that may be viewed unfavorably by the club or by the dancers themselves. Also, the dancers should certainly have the right to establish a "DNR" postion as well either directly or through another established member of cerb if they wish to remain anonymous. Lastly, a review on cerb should by no means imply "extras" either ... I assume those sorts of discussions would be limited to PM.

As most of my appointments are outcalls, I usually have a few different sodas and wine (an easy drinking chardonnay) available. Of course, the hotel room always has coffee and hot team for the making. When I can ask the lady ahead of time, I do so. And, other than a beer at dinner, I never have consummed alcohol before a meeting.

Would one of the 20 questions be whether "Tantra" is a great name for an automobile?