Kubrickfan

That's why I only visit Barb's when I'm over a thousand miles from most of my colleagues. On the other hand, if I do run into anyone that I know there, I figure its mutually assured destruction for both of us (smile)

That would be interesting!

She mentioned to me that she had some gymnastics training when she was younger. It certainly shows. Very, very nice lady.

Apparently, according to the media here in the United States, the silicone used was the same sort sold at hardware stores as silicone caulking sealant for bathrooms, etc..

There is a not insignificant amount of "sales advertising" going on now on the shout box (for better or worse).

Based on your description, I dont think anything was going on other than she noticed your interest and gave you her number. Its arguably solicitation, but if its done discretely, why not? But I'm a little confused ... how did you know she was a cerb member?

I dont have a good response, but I dont think its a completely unreasonable question although a bit politically incorrect on this forum. He is asking for recommendations ... isn't that a primary subject of this forum? I dont think it qualifies as an advertisement, but I'm sure the mods will chime in on that one.

This all has to be a lot easier on a second or third visit, etc, especially if the visits are only an hour long. And the discussions in this thread are, for the most part, an argument for multiple visits. Unless you have had extensive intimate pre-communications with the lady you are seeing, I would think that there are so many other things you are trying to do in the way of getting to know your partner (from cordiality to an intense experience 30 minutes later) and establishing a comfort level that this issue might not arise in a "timely" manner. For me, its as important, if not more important, for the lady to enjoy our time together. I always do try, and a majority of ladies I have seen seem to prefer, oral sex for orgasms, but sometimes (smile) lets face it: it is difficult having a "sincere orgasm conversation" 30 minutes after meeting someone. Second or third visit ... completely different story. And just for fun. I'd love it if a lady I am visiting immediately pushes me onto the bed, brings her hips up to my face, and says, "I need one right now!" (smile). That's definitely not happening on a first visit.

+100 Agreed and Amen. What happens next, and next after that, is key. Is Egypt going to go the direction of Iran or become more like, for instance, Turkey? The financial markets seem to be betting on the latter.

Best wishes ... you always know where to find us!

SA, you're getting a bit of an early start here, thereby making you the enemy of all the guys who haven't done their shopping yet (smile). Happy Valentines day to the ladies as well

Dont forget about the shout box on the cerb home page in addition to the announcements to check for last minute availability ... cant get more "real time" than that. Also guys ... if you are looking for a last minute appointment, tell the lady a bit about yourself and, of course, if you are a cerb member you might want to mention your cerb name so that the lady can check you out a bit.

Meg -- Fair point ... thanks. I tweaked my initial post a bit. I actually had the opportunity, after a visit with a very popular visiting SP here on cerb, to take her over to Barb's after a visit. Actually it was entirely her idea as she was done for the evening and didn't just want to be in her hotel room all evening alone. It was an outcall, so we walked back to her hotel and I waited in the lobby until she changed into more casual attire. Then we went over to Barbs together just for fun. Thinking about that, I would have been pretty uncomfortable if another guy walked over.

Agree with Megan. She is probably there with another male and that is definitely not good form. I seem to recall at Barb's that ladies are usually not allowed in unless they are accompanied by a male (reason ... enraged wives barging in? ;>) ). And I really, really doubt the Clubs in Ottawa would allow SPs in to solicit customers; that would likely be illegal and that would REALLY annoy the dancers. So, some of our cerb ladies definitely visit the club, but there's a high probability they are there "on business" or otherwise engaged with friends. On the other hand, there's no need to be rude. If, in the unlikely situation that there is a SP that I have seen at the club, if eye contact is made, a subtle but deliberate 2-3 inch bow of the head would be perfectly appropriate. I'm sure the ladies here, including the dancers, can chime in with some good thoughts.

I'm late to this thread but have always enjoyed Pete's posts as well. The fact that even our pistol-packing, "ambassador by general acclamation" (smile) Pete can get in trouble is a reminder that the rules apply to everybody.

Guys, I had the opportunity to see Michelle not too long ago and I forgot to add some comments after that visit. I have seen Michelle on a number of occasions and I can't imagine a better experience. From the wonderful pre-massage shower through your entire visit, Michelle is a wonderful combination of professionalism, sexiness and sensuality and seems to really anticipate what you need. She is friendly, down to earth and takes her time. I definitely intend to repeat on a regular basis!

+1 on Tracey and OPG. Pretty much all my visits were very nice with friendly ladies.

It is legal, for the most part, in the United States. I'm not saying it is the right thing to do, and I think that that people who do it should be treated with derision by others, but I definitely don't want the government anywhere near that issue. We are kinda dancing around a lot of different issues here: Whether its an "acceptable" word. There's a lot of different opinions on that in this thread, and they are all legitimate. My personal opinion, as I already stated, is the use of that word to apply as a derogatory word to our ladies here is not good, and I would never use it. Whether, among those who think its not a good word, the power of government should be used to regulate that word. And I respectfully disagree with those that feel that way. There will be occasions where people may be offended, but who is going to determine whether and what level or threshold of of "offensiveness" is needed? And how can one person adjust their speech to suit the sensibilities of everyone else? Its just a really bad idea.

First visit, full dressed unless there has been significant conversation ahead of time. After that, being surprised is nice.

I think PKJason deserves a lot of credit for getting the website up and running and being responsive to suggestions. That's not something we see a lot of here.

Sorry to hear that ... since its "extracurricular activity" the club isnt going to help you out. With any luck, maybe you'll see her againg at the club as she has some explaining to do.

Lets be a little careful here guys ... although I agree that "PM me for details" is not a hugely positive sign, there may be something particular about the SP that the "PM me" poster wants to explain. I only say this because if someone reads this thread, especially a newer member, they may automatically assume that "PM me for details" means a negative review, and that's not necessarily true.

Being from Minnesota and feeling your pain, bear in mind one "undeniable truth of life" when you live in the north: The snow plow guy always wins! With that in mind, I have found that if you smile and wave when they go by (especially a lady), you can get them to back up a bit a take a diagonal swipe at the bottom of your driveway to help clear the hump a bit.

Agreed 100% ... especially as applied to the profession that is the usual subject of this board. The ladies here are some of the bravest human beings I know. And I haven't looked up the definition, but I suspect it is something on the order of describing someone who forsakes their personal beliefs for money or power. Unfortuantely, most of us have to do this to some extent every day of our lives ... imagine running around a corporation telling people exactly how you feel. You're not going to last very long. I'm a lawyer, so I get paid to adopt a point of view to advocate for my clients (thanks Lowdark for not including a lawyer example ... smile). And I don't always agree with those positions, but that's my job and that's an important role in society. All that being said (and I dont want to deflect from the topic of this thread), Rush has given a ton of money, and a good portion of his fortune, to other charities and good causes over the years.

Happy belated birthday from a big fan ... glad to hear you had a great birthday. Hopefuly our Ottawa visits will line up again in the not too distant future.