Kubrickfan

I'm glad to see this topic popping up now and then, and thanks to SA for starting it as it can be a delicate and painful topic. Two thoughts: In a way, I think its good for us (both for the guys and the ladies) to have to deal with this issue now and then as it brings home the point that, for the most part, these are "artificial" relationships. I dont mean that in a negative way, but these relationships dont start the way normal relationships do and we need to be reminded of that now and then. I suspect many of the ladies may have some feelings for some of their clients but its just easier, emotionally, to "drop off the grid" and move on. I suspect that most of the guys respect that, and its great when the lady sends out a "goodbye" message here. To Angela's point ... heck ... there's no reason why the ladies shouldn't be able to keep in touch if they are interested. If there's enough interest in that, maybe there could be a forum open only to the ladies for the retired SPs to keep a conversation going. That being said, its an undeniable truth that friendships develop in the middle of these artificial relationships and that can be a pretty confusing. And I bet in those situations, the people involved manage to keep in touch. If they dont, we shouldn't take it personally, and we should always assume their "better angels" are leading them away.

Beautiful eyes, beautiful legs and a very beautiful mind.

Annessa would be a good staring point ... great lady!

Leah is one of the "Alpha Females" in the club. Leah really likes to surprise the ladies, even some of the other dancers, all in good fun. As to the guys, she gives "graduate-level" dances, the only issue being that her dances can be so sensual that you'd swear she's madly in love with you.

Cheese-wiz with Bugles ... you can make little cheese ice cream cones!

I would agree with those posters that suggest more often as it gives the viewer comfort that they are looking at up to date information and freshens up your little corner of the web. In short, its just good advertising. Short of that, having a blog or something like that might also be a good idea as it allows a viewer to learn a little more about you (if you are comfortable with that sort of thing). And one other idea: if your SP-ing activity is not generally known to those closest to you, making it hard to take decent pictures, ask some of the gentlemen that are good clients and I'm sure they would be happy to help out. Just bring your own camera or make sure you take the memory card home.

All I can say is when I'm in Ottawa, the chances are very close to 100%. Alas, when I'm not in town, that drops VERY significantly.

Congratulations my friend and many thanks as well.

I'll give this a shot, but I think it would be great for some of our ladies here to share their first time SP stories as well ... I'm sure there are some interesting stories there. For me, it was about 3 1/2 years ago when I first contacted Tracey at Ottawa Play Girls and arranged to visit Trish. I was way too shy to phone OPG, so my first contact was via OPG's website. Fortunately, Tracey wrote back or I still may be waiting. I was very nervous, and didn't last very long, Trish was wonderful, and we have had many visits since. I feel lucky as I really cant say that I have ever had a really horrible visit with any lady (maybe a couple close calls). But that involves taking the time to do my homework and try to find ladies that I know I'm going to have fun with.

Michelle MA does a really nice job as well as she is recently actively posting again on cerb. She has a lot of fans here and she takes a lot of pride in her work. Also, she is pretty good at responding to PMs. Good luck

I agree this isn't very common (that communication just stops) but the confirmation step is pretty important. These ladies get a lot of communications, so it may have been an honest mistake. However, if you communicated, received a reply and you followed up for the communication within a reasonable period of time (ie, within hours if the appt. is within a day or two and immediately if the appointment is later in the day), its not right that you didn't at least get a reply with either a cofirm or regrets. If it was me, I'd try politely PMing the lady here and see if you can set something up. I bet you get a reply. If you dont, find another lovely lady here and move on. If you get a reply, and a confirm, and she's a no-show (very unlikely), post again here and follow up. Good luck and welcome!

In honor of today's Bears-Packers game, the best safe word I can think of is: "Urlacher" Its clear, distinct, and puts a mental image in your head that should immediately calm things down. :icon_wink:

Much faster ... thanks.

Best wishes!

OA -- Here's the problem with a "itty bitty titty" social group ... some of the GUYS here may not qualify! :wink: I'm not naming names or nothin.

I love Ottawa, Montreal, Toronto, and other places I have been lucky enough to visit in Canada. I love the people, the friendly culture ... heck even the hamburgers taste better in Canada. But, as a U.S. citizen with the full protection of the First amendment to the U.S. Constitution, all I can say about this thread is LMAOROFL. Respectfully, this is one area where I think our Founding Fathers (other than John Adams during his Alien and Sedition Acts phase) got it right. As offensive as some speech can be, all things being equal and in the long run, its better to keep the government out of it. I dont think you can have a full exchange of ideas if the government can tell you to shut up because someone gets offended.

There is absolutlely nothing wrong with the Pope, as part of a homily given at mass in the Sistine Chapel, and within days of visiting a Children's hospital full of very ill kids, urging parents to give their Children christian names. This is the quote, I think: "Every baptized child acquires the character of the son of God, beginning with their Christian name, an unmistakable sign that the Holy Spirit causes man to be born anew in the womb of the church." Many of the comments attributed to the Pope were actually spoken by other bishops, but (no disrespect intended) I dont disagree with those either. Its always possible to offer opinions on what the church should be focusing on, but if we keep chipping away on what's expected of catholics, I think the chruch would be lesser for it. ... and ... smile ... dont get me started on guys walking around with pants down to their knees.

SA -- Glad to see you were able to reconnect with MissClass .. hope to see her again next time I am in town.

Erin -- After having a similar set of encounters, and series of discussions, with another lady on this board under facts similar to yours, I wouldn't change a thing as to what you are doing. You could put a couple photos up in an album or offer a little more information about yourself just on your personal page on cerb. for advertising, and if you are most comfortable with the discussion ahead of time, stick with that as well! The guys willing to go through that effort to get to know you are probably the guys you want as clients. You should always feel in complete control of the process you use to vet your potential clients. I have to say something about CK's comment concerning not using his cerb handle when first meeting ladies. That makes sense for Cowboy Kenny and a few other cerb superstars, but for me, and I suspect a lot of other cowpokes here on cerb., I try to use my handle in my introduction as it is something of a reference that the ladies can rely upon to check out my other postings to increase their comfort level. I also share Secret Admirer's approach to reviews, always allowing the lady to OK the review and the contents. I would hope that any member here on cerb that tries to trade their name and a promise of a positive review in exchange for "favors" from a lady should be reported to the mods. I just cant figure out how CK stays anonymous when he always shows up on his horse. :wink:

Sorry folks ... didn't even pick up on the "cip" reference. If WrinkledinTime is correct about that, and that's what clarky1 is really looking for, he probably should be looking for a monagamous relationship.

Respectfully, that's very unlikely to happen through the normal "commerce" of this board. If anything, its harder to establish that sort of relationship with SPs than just undertaking ordinary dating as, with dating, people are often looking to establish relationships, whereas SPs almost without exception are not. I suggest you set up some appointments with some of the ladies you think are interesting to you and definitely don't rush things. If what you are loking for is a long-term SP-client relationship, that certainly is a possibility, but as with any other relationship, there has to be a mutual desire to maintain it over a long period of time.

Alexiss -- there is a lot going on in your initial post here. And there is a lot of good advice so far by the other posters ... take it seriously. You are obviously at a low point, but some thoughts that might assist a bit: 1. There is no one on this board, or in the world, that hasn't gone through what you are going through, so you are in very good company (smile). Having those feelings, or dreams and goals in your life that are never satisfied is part of being human. What makes life so interesting is that it is a roller coaster of sorts; you can't have the highs without the lows. 2. On Samantha Evans' post, if the dream involves another person, you might not have the level of control, or ability to achieve that dream, as you thought. And things will improve, probably faster than you think, as usually it is your own state of mind, rather than the outward facts, that really make you feel bad. Not always, but usually. And, notwithstandign the facts, you cant get out of that rut, please follow Samantha's advice and speak with someone who can help. 3. You can call them "shattered dreams," but they are most likely things that happen that you feel really strongly about and that are close to your heart. A number of people have commented that if you generally advance in the direction of your goals in life, you are doing the right thing, and that's absolutely correct. 4. I've taken some time to review a lot of your posts and you are obviously a very bright intelligent person. Dont forget to appreciate your own good qualities and what you have to offer. Keep your chin up as things are not as bad as they probably seem right now.

Good to hear. Sometimes in the past a number of the Escorts Canada ads seemed outdated although most contained photos and other information which was helpful.

If you are looking forward to the experience, and you are visiting from out of town (which is my situation, and I suspect many others), you have a limited time opportunity available and you really do need to have a plan B or at least a reliable agency you can generally rely upon. So, waiting is not a practical option. For me, and I know quite a few other contributors to this board, we check more than one forum as part of our "homework." You can respect the rules of this board and use all of its resources, but its still just one of the tools available. And as to the reviews posted, in my experience its not a good sign if a lady is not reviewed here especially if they have advertised here a lot and are generally "known" on this board. On the other hand, if the lady is someone who is a regular poster here you certainly have the chance to get to know the lady by reading their posts. And from my experience, the ladies post a lot more here than on the other boards. Also, because cerb is good at keeping almost a real-time track of who is available (the shout box is the latest example of that), it should be pretty easy to develop a plan B. Oh ... and remember the most timeless acronym here and on any other board and on most things in life: YMMV.

Family, the Christmas music, and gift giving based on remembering and researching what people have said they have wanted just by comments they have made during the year. Gift receiving. not so much.