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If the cops have a client list they are well with in there rights to ask questions to the clients as part of an ongoing investigation. They never have to lay charges for damage to be done. Think about it if the cop show up at work, home, at a family function and start asking question. If they are investigating for example me and I use my credit card with a SP/MP how would the ladies like the cops showing anywhere and start asking question. I am just saying the if one uses or accepts credit card the discression cannot be 100% assured.

Are Bad Cats Xenophobic Yarling? Next.......DUMMY

Hey.......Thank.s....I agree I have 2 head therefore I must be twice a smart?

Which head am I thinking with?

The Diamonds Little Darling

One concern for not using a CC to pay the lady is LE. The CC provide a nice client list for the LE if any lady has the misfortune of getting busted. Now I am not saying that we all should panic about being busted by the LE, but we just need to be aware of the potential is all.

Shayne Ward No Promises http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8VO0bXcKkGc

Chipmunks Dont stop Believing

I have 2 head and my level of understanding varies depending on which head the blood is flowing to. I only once book thru cerb, as we both were on line at the same time and we were able to make it work. I normally would make a phone call and bok that way based on availabllity.

mine is 16685

If you are offering loans, Can I have $10, 000?

I live in a small town and we use to see the barter system all the time, now a days it is a lot hard to find. Is it a sign of the times, is it a yonger generation not understading the potential benifits of it, is it a legal issue, is it peoples lack of trust in one another, or some combination of it all who knows. I remember seeing this winter that one of the ladies here required help, and after all was said and done a deal was made between her and the gentlemen involved both were happy with the arrangment. This will not always work in a communuity such as this where the ladies value their privacy and do not wish to devulge personal information for their own safety and we all understand that at some level. Within a very limited range it might have some sort of sucess, but it will not replace money as a whole in a communuty such as this.

As I read the posts here and remember what the OP asked I think a few different thoughts. I am guessing that running to find the nearest vending machine popping a quarter in turning the knob watch a nice shiny ring drop and running back to you dropping to one knee and pop the question right then and there in public.....is probably is a bad thing. As I am very attached to my head and would really like to keep it on my shoulders this is something to be avoided, no matter how funny it might be to see you turn 6 or 7 shades of red before I loose my life.....LOL I could not image some lady whom I just met or barely know coming up to me in a line some where giving me a big hug and kiss and profess here undying love for me and/or treating me like a long lost BF whom they have not seen in a while. Boy would that just suck if I am on a fist date .......last date too that happened. What if I am with my parents/ sisters all standing there asking me why they were not introduced to my GF before now, I sure would be pissed in a hurry. Visions of 2 people talking in a dark alley then heading off to a motel room get busy comes to mind real quick no offence anyone. I have not told my family that I hobby, but it is really none of there business what I do in my private life, I am an adult and responsible for my own actions. I have a couple of friend know that I hobby and they hobby as well. It is not a topic that we discuss and compare notes on it just...a fact of life. Living outside the city there is less of a chance that I would run into one of you ladies in public, but if i did I probably would......would .......run.......LOL......if I did anything at all I would just nod my head at you and say G'Day and continue on.

Sonny & Cher I got you Babe http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzW_7ANnHZI

I have never known and I do not know or think I know any lady working in industry. This to me is could get really complicated really quick essipesially if it is some one I know because there already is a personal aspect to things. From a purely fantasy side: Having fun with that lady that I have had a crush on. or to use that information get revenge on the lady I hate. Realisticly though I would have a better chance of winning the lottery, I supose I would need to buy a ticket though eh!

To be blunt, what would it matter I am there to see the lady not their personal appartment, work appartment, or the hotel/motel. The only thing that bothers me a little is as was stated by mrrnice2 when walking into a Hotel, what if you were questioned, then how do you respond. I personaly would like to know is what procedure do you as a SP want us to use when arriving at the hotel. Go to the main desk and ask them to ring your room? Or do we just walk in and go to room # 444 and if asked what do we say? I know once at a hotel I was staying at the person at the desk ask if I was a guest there, I responded yes room 101, here my key......Now if I had been there to visit an SP then what.........

I am also from a small town and there are times when the small town attitude, or maybe a better way to phare that is the old school town attitude toward anyone different is very apparent. I certainly hope that I have never come across as racist, I do try to treat people that same. In todays society where everyone is so hyper focused on political correctness and racism one word in a sentence changes it whole meaning without even meaning to do so. It is so easy to say something and have someone else point out that it was taken in a way you never ment to to be.

Is this a multichoice question?

Uncle Kracker Follow Me http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zQls53Piuj0

So far the comments are pertty much as expected. Just to claify I am not here, I am not hobbying with the intention of looking for a SO, GF, Wife or how ever you want to state it. There is no one here that I am even thinking of asking out on a real date (no offence meant). This was just a topic for conversation is all, In this community I am sure that it happens all to frequently and just wonder about it is all. When men and women deal with each other in such an intimate way I am sure that it happens all to frequently. I know I have made this mistake with a friends sister, she gave me the direct impresion that she was interested. She was living with her current husband and just playing, this is something that she has done to men since she was a teenager and continues to do. Keep posting though the comments are interesting

Ladies, If one of us guys were to call you and ask you out on a real date outside of the hobby type date, what would you do? I know there is a thread about falling for a SP. I know there is a thread about seeing a married or commit SP. What about this side of things? The human factor. This topic just popped into my mind so I figured that I would bring it up.

Neil Sedaka Breakin' Up Is Hard To Do

Abba Dancing Queen

Depends, Where has his hand been?

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