AmberWyld

Well Hun, for starters, it would be nice to where abouts your female friend lives and would be meeting up with an SP. This would halp to narrow down the search some, and if you knew any other things about her that too would help... Like her likes, interests and so forth!

I have tried most... but would to try an all girl orgy though sometime, the only one that I wouldn't do is the DAP....

I agree wth MOD, contest the charges and after several complaints, they will lose thier account.... Then the last laugh wll be on them. They would have to find another company to process their accounts, or change doman names... which costs them money, and the main point of ther game is to pay nothing out, and just take...

With myself, age doesn't really matter at all, as long as the performance is still there. Let me clarify that statement... you do have to be at least 18 though!! Its nice being with people older than 25 cause they have more to talk about, and just not worried about the BOOM BOOM aspects of our meeting. Afterall, its about being comfortable and enjoying it other... But don't get me wrong, the BOOM BOOM is FUN too... So lets go back to my room!!!! LOL Wink! Wink!

Not all that sure about incalls in and around downtown Halifax. I am sure there might be a couple... Just call around and check out the newspaper. Myself, I prefer being on the Dartmouth side, its quiet and not so close to all the bars... Some guys that get drunk might try to just walk up withut an appointment thinking its the same as Park was or something. Good luck with your searching....

Normally I use my right hand, but there are times when I use both.... especially when using toys in both holes....

Nice poll..... I voted with one of the upper two choices... But neing as naughty as I am, prefer my wn church and its open for anyone to knee before and pray to.. Wink!Wink! Sorry about the naughty thoughts

This might make things tougher for girls that travel or tour around, especially when staying in a hotel or from doing incalls from one while on tour. Single women checking in to a hotel might be stereo-typed and closely looked or watched even more while staying in a hotel in Ottawa or else where for that matter.

Thank you Sweetheart! I'm so glad you had a wonderful time! I always try to do my best to make sure you leave with a smile on your face and less of a load in your pants lol...

Or perhaps he has found the right girl and has decided to keep it to himself and enjoy the long cold nights with catching up on lost time.... Wish you the best Jizz. As for the rest of us, we can get back to the naughtier of things to do..... each other...

Thanks sweetie for the nomination!! I am just happy to be here chatting with you all, meeting some of you and having fun with as many of you as I can. Amber

Hello Jizz, First off, like the nick name or perhaps it?s the real think I like more! LOL A little humour to break the tension. Now to you problem? you say that you have been with 3 SP?s and all attempts have been a failure. Well, my question is how have your attempts been with non-SP?s? Have you failed there? Or is it just with SP?s? If the latter, then you just haven?t found the right girl to make you feel relaxed and give you a more of an intimate experience. Compatibility is a very important thing, and not just in relationships, but with your SP as well. Maybe even more so since you might be doing things with her that you MIGHT never have done or thought of doing with a partner for what ever reasons. Also, you should consider what MOD said, ?book a multiple hour date?. This will really give you the time to get to know each other, chat, take your time with foreplay and so forth before diving into the naughtier action. Also, something I would add to that, I would find a girl that offers a GFE, or PSE experience because they are more intimate in nature; depending on the girl. Secondly, I would never use any form of inhabitants? such as alcohol or drugs; as these will decrease your sexual stimuli even further causing the outcomes you have been having with the past three SP?s. Thirdly, you have to regain control of your biggest sexual organ, your brain. It controls everything you do and experience. I?ll tell you why? You don?t supply us with enough information for us to give a proper informed guess about what might be at the root of your problem. So I?m going to make a stab at it in general. If I had to guess, I?d say that you are suffering from a case of performance anxiety. You don't need a doctor, drugs, pills, or alcohol;you just need to RELAX. Here?s how this nasty thing works. Say a ?guy? has a less than satisfying sexual experience for one reason or another. Before he knows it, he is replaying the incident over and over in his head, till that?s all he thinks about; especially when with another woman. The proverbial molehill soon becomes a giant mountain. This ?guy? then brings this anxiety to his next sexual encounter. His hyper-consciousness (brain) primes him for more disappointment. And then he again interprets all disappointment as a failure. Begins to doubt his sexual manly hood and so forth?Well, you can see where I?m going with this right Jizz? Your fears become self-fulfilling. Before you knows it, you begins to doubt yourself or resort to matters that make it worse. Your sexual encounters suffer. You soon think you have developed some sort of sexual dysfunction. And your self-esteem takes a nosedive. Your preoccupation with this problem makes it less likely that you?ll be fully present during sex with your partner (SP or otherwise), which pretty much fucks up your sexual responsiveness and any hope for spontaneity or a feeling of intimacy. It looks to me like performance anxiety is putting a damper on your sexual arousal and short-circuiting your sexual responses. This is nothing to fool around with, so grab a hold of the controlling factor, your brain and JUST ENJOY it all and NOT worry so much about the end product? It will all CUM back to you in the end. So get a hold of your brain, find the right SP or partner, don?t rush it, so a multiple date would be best and enjoy it all my fiend. Enjoy the sights, sounds, smells, touch and so forth? Use all your senses. Take care sweetie and I hope all works out for you?.

Happy New Year to everyone on CERB and to all newbies who join. May the new year be with lots of naughty adventures... AND and special Happy New Year to all my fellow SP's on CERB! XOX

I too am single and enjoy every moment of it, and the freedom it allows me to 'see' my 'special' friends, and to tour and just enjoy my lifestyle with no worries of how a partner may or might feel. For me, it works best, for others, they may enjoy the open lifestyle with their partners, and some day I hope to find that dream as well. Might be fun to explore swinging with a partner instead of going solo all the time.

Thanks for the heads up Emma... And glad I don't click on links I know nothing of... XOX

lyjjkw if you speak in english we might be able to understand what you said and help you if you need help, or provide you with info if you see info.

Hello Guys or Girls, I am in the planning stages for my Ottawa trip, but would like to find out what hotels would best suit my needs as an SP. Of course I would be very discreet when booking in, but I need a place that can be used for both my home bae while in town and for in calls. So I would require a place that allows for extra towels and so forth... Hope some of you members or SP's can help me out here.....

I am sure it happens from time to time. Same make weather the past of what SP's have done in the past, but once things become shakey in a relationship, its usued as a spear to cause pain an hurt in the lady... Myself, I don't get that attached, but I do have feelings for my very good clients, and those meetings tend to be more intimate and erotic in nature. I get a lot of clients asking me why am I single "your so beautiful and nice, why don't you have a boyfriend?" they continue to ask. My answer is simple, I am have too much fun doing what I do, and besides, I have many per day right? Like perhaps you, yes you; the one now reading this. And if not you, then I am only a call away and then it could be you!! Wink! Wink!