AmberWyld

This is a topic that seems to come up from time, especially when dealing with agency‘s in a bigger city, or with girls using multiple names and descriptions; thinking they are putting one over on the clients. In my personal opinion, I think anyone resorting to the ol’ bait and switch should be refused. It’s bad for business and hurts everyone in the long run. It makes you more sceptical of the ladies, and makes phone calls for us, not resorting to such measures more frustrating, because of the added troubles we endure on the phone and because of all that non-sense. No matter how long we have been in this form of business, we have all been turned away at least once or more. To say we haven’t defies the laws of percentages. It comes down to a matter of taste and compatibility most times, and most of all, being truthful about who you are and what you offer. This occurs much less for us Indies that post galleries online for the clients to look over before deciding to make a date. They get to see what we look like, chat with us, correspond with us, unlike girls from an agency. However, it does occur from time to time. I have been refused twice in the past three years. times. I completely understand not wanting go through with someone you don't click with (after all, its all about having fun and enjoying yourself) but I cannot stress what’s been said here by a few people. Even if you decide to turn her/him way (depending on your preference), you should always be a gentleman about it, and pay her transportation fee. MOST times when dealing with an agency, it‘s not the girls fault she was sent to you, but the ones that booked the call. If it‘s a bait and switch with an indy, well pay the fee and then post it on the boards. Eventually these people will stop. If they continue, at least you will have passed on the information to your other mates on the boards. In my years of experiences with these situations, it seems to fall under three categories. 1) The honest guy that was fooled and genuinely didn’t ask for what was sent. 2) The guy who did call, but just wanted a looky and then play tug n pull after she leaves. 3) The guy who gets you there and then tries to negotiate, and refuses you cause you wouldn’t. It kind of hurt my feelings the first time it happened as well, but I just chalked it up to life. There was a time a year ago, that I had one guy say that I wasn’t the one in my pictures. I was stunned and it threw me off because my pictures HAVE ALWAYS been 100% me. Anyway, the way I see it, don’t lie to the girl, just tell her that she wasn’t what you wanted if it was a bait and switch, or tell her you don’t think you will click after meeting (Don’t use the lie of its not you in the pictures, when you can really see that it is her.) Like you we too have feelings, we aren’t machines or some disposable toy. So if’s the girl comes to you, then by all means, pay the ‘shipping and handling fee’. After all, it’s the polite thing to do…

Thats the one Big downfall for many MP's, too many people coming and going, and its too easy for LE to see all this traffic. Much easier for an independent to be more discreet, and thus not bring on too much attention from LE or the community at large. Afterall, this business is really all about discretion, and if everyone under the sun can see you coming and going, then it's not very discreet is it? Clients need to feel comfortable, safe, and be able to enjoy their time... AND that's what its about, spending time with somebody and ejoying that time together as consenting adults.

Nice picture captain... just looks a little too made up though! LOL If not, she really has one hell of a tiny body, or hardly no body! Although it looks fun. Wish the hell I could do that though!!! Yummy....

Personally, I don't think location is that big of a deal for most men, although no matter how non elegant your place may be, it should be clean at least. Like Emma said, we all start out some where. Some may already be posh to begin with, but most girls STARTING OUT on their own can't do this right away. We are like a SMALL business that grows in time. WE don't or aren't bck by an agency's money... So we can't provide the PENTHOUSE feeling right away! THEN to suggest that maybe she should get some hotel to entertain is smothing she might not be able to do right away as well. For it to work and be enjoyable for all parties, she needs to be abl to make enough to support the hotel, her essentials (condoms, oils or what ever and still make enough to make it work the while. Because if she (or any SP starting out) might not have a big nough clientel list to do this yet! Myself, when I first started, I too only had a mtress for the floor, and a small night stand and lamp. I have since evolved from that point, and now provide a nice comfortable place with ammenties for my clients. She too will eventually get there as her client lists grow. As long as she's good and true to what she does, she will get there. It's like going shopping for a new car. If you only want to spend 15,000, then you look for a Civic. But if you want to spend 457,250,then you can get a Mercedes-Benz SLR McLareen. I really think if someone's having trouble making ends meet, or just starting out, then you can only expect so much of them and their surroundings. I am sure that all of us have started out living in a place we didn'ty like because it was all we COULD afford at the time. Generally, I think its more about the compaionship rather than the place, although I think with a higher price, you should expect higher end surroundings and service.

Get on them Cowboy... Keep our borders safe from fake Sp's and the like!!! Now here is the man we need as Prime Minister of Canada!!! Maybe be can do a write in ballot for the next election!

Well, here comes your chance again sweetie. I am coming back to Moncton on November 29th, until December 1st! Hope we get to see each other this time! XXXOOOXXX

I do grimlyfiendish, but you aren't here in Halifax. My phone lines are open 24/7 and I usually only require an hours notice before my clients show up. Morning calls are so great because you are so rested and READY to play....

If I were that flexible, I think that I could find other things to do; like perhaps eating out my own pussy. Now wouldn't that be an awsome thing to see or do? Do you have any pics of something like that Captain???

As Loki had put it, if you and this SP have been seeing each other on a regular basis, then I would talk it over with her, but ease into it. As you have never had this problem with her in the past, maybe she was very close to that time of the month. Just let her know that you love diving and that if she's close to that time (if that's what is was) then to let you know, so you can play in the shower first. After all, we are very initmate with out clients, and them with us... Things happen all the time for what ever reaon. I have had clients that HAVE forgetton how to wipe (if you know what I mean) Or don't brush thier teeth very well; and I usually offer them a shower, or some breath mints. I have even had some that have mistakenly blown wind while visiting south of the border(LOL) but I am polite about it, smile, and just ask them to warm me next time. So if we can speak to you about these things, I am sure you can do so as well. We are here to have fun afterall, and if you are too worried or hung up on something, that kills the fun. SO DON'T BE SHY... but be polite about it. AND koodos to you for NOT embarrassing her on her by posting her name. I am sure he knows now if she's a member of CERB. And if not, might want to let her know before she finds out this way! LOL Take care and I hope you and your favorite SP get back on track!

I think both have a place in todays world. Wink! Wink! But going to a stip bar is like going windo shopping for something. Its looks so good and tempting until you try to touch it... (Security) lol But as for us SP's, you get to windon shop those of us that have online profiles, and then schoose to touch and play..... Handsa down, which one would you prefer? Its like going to the club and buying drinks all night for a lady you are trying to court as one might say, but at the end of the night, much coin in the hole, you are left with the twins for the night... the palm sisters as they say right? As for us, you know what you get, and you get what we offer.... No doubts at all with us. You know you TIME with us is TIME well enjoyed!!!

As for most of my experiences when it comes to dealing with Hotels and Motels, no matter what form of payment is used, you still must show some form of ID, like a driver's license. This is done so to protect them from damages, so if you do, they can seek the person who caused them. ALSO, on a more personal note... I am all about discretion, but as an SP provider, one of the tools that protects us is being able to confirm a call, thus we need the name of the person in the room to be able to book a date. I would be very leary of going to a hotel room with a name like Joe Blow, John Smith, or worse yet, name withheld. Too dangerous in todays world, also, it would give an impression of a set up or sting wouldn't you think? Just my two cents on this, not sure what other SP's think. Cheers!

Giddy Up Cowboy, keep them and us Honest!!!! Good work or should I say hunting Cowboy! XOOX

Hello breakthru, I believe that Joyful Jillian has come back out of retirement and works out of St. John. Try to PM her on here and see if she's up to it. Can't say for sure, but never hurts to contact her and see right? She's very friendly and enoys what she does... so I am sure you would have a great time... Cheers XOX

Your welcome babydoll! XXOX

I agree 100% with what Emma said. We aren’t heartless object or some kind of toy that you take out, use and abuse, then toss aside. We have feelings and care about what we do, and hopefully most of us do it well and with respect and total discretion for all concerned. As Emma said, we do this for our own pleasures as well as yours. And if we should be in the company of somebody as rude as ’that guest in chat’ was about our profession, then his/her experience will likely suffer, and so will our time together. And I wouldn't want that. I love having a good time. So if you want the best experience… treat us with just as much respect as you would want f yourself. Our skin is the same thickness as your own, and some remarks do hurt the feelings… Kisses for you Emma (XOXOX) Hope that made you feel better?