saluki17

Wow, in a public forum thread!

Too old? 25? I'm 53, is that too old for YOU?!?

I have done my due diligence and there have been threads on this in the past, but they are all so old, I thought I would start a new one. I am interested in a session with either a lady who does strap on play. It can be a BDSM provider, a MA provider or a regular GFE-type provider. I have been with a few providers in the region who have done it, and I am looking for a new experience. I enjoy the BDSM aspect, but I am also interested in a more sensual session. Anyway, if you know of anyone who provides these kinds of services, or you ARE a woman who does, please either reply here or send me a PM. I am specifically looking to do this the coming weekend, April 20-22. Thank you!

While this might not be a big sector of possible clientele, embedding text in an image is a huge no-no from an accessibility standpoint. In layman's terms, if you want someone who is visually impaired to be able to see your information, it needs to be text on a webpage, or embedded with the image as alt text. Again, I understand that this is likely a small fraction of potential clients, but I just wanted it out there as something to keep in mind.

Please post in the recommendations section.

I think you jumped, no pole vaulted, to a conclusion that was not fair to my original post. An "inquisition"? If "details weren't meant to be shared" then that could have been stated. I have seen Summer a number of times, though it had been a while, and truly cared about her. We communicated often. I was stunned when I saw the original post and was reaching out to find out what happened out of that caring.

I just saw Alex Grenayit's post about Summer. I am shocked and stunned. Can someone provide details about what happened?

Googled one of her pictures and it came up associated with a girl working out the metro NYC area, as well as New Haven, Connecticut.

The pictures are not her. She is likely a real person, and in Ottawa, but is using fake pictures.

A quick Google image search on one of the images in her ad shows at least three other ads it appears on, in various locations. Generally, if it seems to good to be true...

As someone who partakes of BDSM encounters, I have a few comments. First, I think there is nothing wrong with having combo options, or being open to different kinds of dates. I agree that it would likely be a good thing. I would suggest that it be clear up front with the client exactly what the expectations are on both sides. For example, if I am looking for a standard, intimate date, but the provider wants to spend the first 20 minutes or so doing a massage, I'd better communicate that I would prefer less massage. As for BDSM activities, I know that personally I prefer to see ladies who are exclusively dommes. My general experience has been that "switches" are not as into the domme side, and when I want to be dominated, I want to be with someone whose focus is that. I don't know if this was helpful at all, but I guess to sum it up, I would say that precision and communication are great ways to solve most issues.

WHOA! There's an incendiary statement!

I had the best experience of my life with Roxanne Courtisanne in Montreal. I can't recommend her enough!

Go to the thread and do a search for Brockville. You'll find a few.

Check out the Kingston section for Brockville ads.

You could give Lana Lee a look. I believe she fits the bill.

Have to put my plug in for Summer!

However, there are guys like me who have little chance of having a second shot in an hour or 90-minute session. So an orgasm in the first 15 or 20 minutes puts a serious damper on the rest of the hour. I like chatting, cuddling, etc. before and after, but let's be honest - the highlight is the build up to the big O. Once it happens, and you know that's it from the physical perspective of why you're there, it can be easy to get distracted and move on mentally to what awaits you next in the real world. That's why I appreciate it when a provider is willing to prolong it as long as possible. And that part is also on me as well!

I met with Summer this morning in her incall location. We exchanged a number of PMs the evening before where I detailed my interests. She was fantastic to talk to, and I knew we were going to have a good time. My fantasy involved some anal play on me and she greeted me at the door with a sexy black outfit and her strap-on attached. We set up the massage table and started making out. As has been stated here previously, she is a great kisser. She spent time finding out what buttons I like pushed and made sure to keep pushing them. She used some interesting toys on me after a massage and brought me to an intense O with a combination of toys, her hands and mouth. Now, I live in the states and have an hour-plus drive to get to the fun of Ottawa. I had taken time off work to visit her, but work and my real world imposed themselves on our time. She gave me the beginning of a nice massage after my first shot, but I had become so distracted by what was waiting for me when I returned home that I ended the session early. I made it clear to her that it had nothing to do with her and that it had nothing to do with her and that I had an amazing time. I hope to be able to get back to her when I have more time and fewer distractions. She is the reason why I prefer mature providers.

One of my enduring fantasies is to be with a lady in a very sensual way, but have her use her strap on on me. I love the idea of reversal of power. It's part domination and part GFE. If any Ottawa ladies are intrigued by this, let me know, as I will be looking for a date this weekend!

I have and had a great time. She was more dominant with me. She has some reviews here - http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=79515&highlight=Madison

Look down like five posts! There's an entire thread right there.

Look up Mistress Shira. She is at least 6-feet tall without heels.

I read the original reply and it did come off to me on the sarcastic side. I think it was well-intentioned and theoretically the right thing to do, I think it could perhaps have been worded a little differently: Welcome to the Board! There is a wealth of knowledge already here and to start, one option would be to do a search, especially on the Recommendations thread. Then, if you don't find what you're looking for, feel free to ask any questions.

OK, American chiming in! ;) I would say that there is very little difference, in general, between how hobbyists "play" in the two countries, speaking from experience. I have had very many good experiences in the states. I do my research and peruse the review boards and forums before choosing. I stay away from -------- and CL and other sites where the ladies come and go, and only meet with well-reviewed ladies. The one big difference I see is that US women are much more careful and more often require a thorough referencing process. Taking all that into consideration, I am happy I live within 20 miles of the Canadian border!