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Thanks Jillian, IMHO there are a few things SPs and Hobbyists can do to reduce the risk: shower thoroughly, both before and after (sorry ladies, I know this means dry skin so break out the body lotion and put it on my tab), use a good liquid lube, stay away from gel lubes that tend to dry and become sticky (parma plus has a generic brand that's much cheaper than KY), use discretion and be prepared to walk away, get tested regularly, Always use a condom (of course.) quad

Thanks Jillian, I guess it's DFK that worries me. I wonder if STIs can be picked up from BBBJ and then transmitted by kissing ? The social services agencies all seem to err on the side of caution, which is understandable, but this doesn't help us get a realistic feeling for the risks associated with BBBJ. I've also heard that saliva reduces the chance of infections getting transferred orally. Who knows what to believe. Also, I hope that the SP's aren't feeling pressured into providing services they feel uncomfortable with because of what's posted on the boards. quad

igotaboner too from reading this review :)

Right on Monica, you rock ! quad

Why, are you collecting air miles ? Sorry, I couldn't resist. ;)

This thread is good timing for me because; I've noticed in the reviews and GFE discussions lately, some hobbyists seem to think that GFE means BBBJ and DFK. When I see these two in the same sentence my instinct is to stay away. Also, I hope that the SP's aren't feeling pressured into providing BBBJ because of what is posted on the boards. Maybe I'm being paranoid but isn't BBBJ increasing the risk unnecessarily. Perhaps there are scientific stats somewhere that would shed some light on this but somehow I doubt it. All the social services sites list oral as a way to become infected for most STI/STDs. If BBBJ does increase the risk then I don't think "friend" is the correct term to describe this service. If not, then all the better. quad