Philander39

I like the whole Thanksgiving feast - Turkey, mashed potatoes with lots of butter, carrots cooked with a bit of brown sugar, peas, whole cranberry sauce (the jelly stuff is frowned about in my family) and a nice pumpkin pie. Last year due to last minute issue our family couldn't make our standard Thanksgiving feast. Instead we got some really good steaks for the local butcher and had a big BBQ. We still had the pumpkin pie but everything else had been changed. Even though many of use were sort of sad about the missed turkey once things got going no one missed the turkey. After all is said and done, it's not what is on the table to eat at Thanksgiving but who is around that table that is important.

Hannah Georgas - Robotic I just love the acoustic version. I first heard this version while driving out east. Great song for driving but the acoustic version really hits home.

I would like to add my name to the chorus of recommendations for Kathryn Bardot. I meet her last week for an afternoon appointment. Her centrally located incall location was very handy for me. The setting things up with Kathryn was simple and straight-forward. Kathryn is a fantastic person. She has such lovely eyes - they seemed to sparkle the whole time I was with her. We had a nice conversation over tea while sitting on her couch, which naturally progressed to a major make-out session. She is damn fine kisser. The make-out session continued into the bedroom. There I was I was treated to a true girlfriend experience. Kathryn is a giggler which added even more to my pleasure. To me nothing is sexier than a girl giggling .... of course it helps if she is naked in your arms on the bed ;-)

I have to agree with HalifaxMan58 there really should be a category called "both". Although, my reasoning is a different from his. In my case, I do not a partake regularly in the hobby so there is a good chance when I available the SPs who I have seen before might be busy doing other things like living their lives. Yes I know it's hard to believe that they aren't just sitting around waiting for our calls :-) Because of this issue I have gone with the unknown but it really isn't totally unknown. I tend to favour the Sps who advertise and post here. That usually gives me a better idea about them and a better feel as to whether the experience with them would be a good one. I think if given the choice I would tend to go with the ones that I know but this is not like going to a barber. There is fairly high turnover rate for SPs in a given area. They can leave the industry, move to a different location or modify their services. For those reasons, you have to be willing to risk going with the unknown. Of course saying that, I have to say that CERB has never lead me astray. Thanks to everyone involved with this website.

I never really thought I had an age limit but after reading this thread I'm seeing that I do have an age limit but it is hidden behind what to me are some key points when I make a decision to see an SP. I tend to prefer to visit SP who have incall locations. I seem to drift to the more articulate SPs, mainly the ones who post on CERB but I also take a look at websites and/or blogs. With those sort of requirements, I have by default taken most of the 18-19 year old SPs out of my search string. Thinking about it more, I probably still wouldn't book with a younger SP. I would feel more comfortable with an older SP. I guess I can relate to a 25-30 year old better than to a teenager. A very interesting thread definitely got me to think about this issue.

I just wanted to say I saw Isabella again. I saw her a year ago at her old incall location. Her new incall location is very nice and well located. I had been having a very stressful summer and Isabella definitely helped me relieve that stress. Last time I saw her, I was not very rested so little phil didn't work as well as usual. Needless, to say little phil was up to the task on this visit and Isabella was very helpful in ensuring little phil had a great time ;-) As everyone has mention before, Isabella is a beautiful person, both on the outside and the inside. I had a great time exploring her body but also just sitting down and chatting with her about life, the universe and everything in between allowed me to experience just how nice of a a person she truly is. Definitely recommend her if you are looking for a nice relaxing time with an exceptional person - plus she made me a cupcake to get back my energy :-)

I usually like my movies on the dramatic side but for some reason I always watch this movies if I see them on AMC or some other movie channel Pretty in Pink - just love the scene in the record store when Ducky dances to Otis Redding Ella Enchanted - yes, Anne Hathaway is cute but there something blissfully fun about this movie More than once this movies have wasted an afternoon or kept me up late at night.

I have notice that the type of music depends greatly on the type of road that is being traveled. Many of the recommendations are great for big highways. Way back in my previous life I did a lot of driving to New Brunswick. Many times I took a short cut through Maine as the construction was so bad along the Trans Canada (or TCH for the newfies here) in NB at the time. I buddy lent me a mix tape (yes it was that long ago LOL) of bluegrass tunes. In the rolling Appalachian mountains along the border of Maine and NB the music just felt right and I felt I could drive for days. Later on for work a crew of us had to drive down to Alabama. When it was my turn to drive we were taking a short-cut through Blue Ridge mountains. I loaded up my mix tape of bluegrass and we on our way. Most of the guys were metal heads but they all thought this was the best damn music for driving in the mountains. AC/DC, Slayer, etc were best left to when we got back on the interstates.

Some SP's have mailing lists which you can sign up for which may give you earlier notice of their trip to Ottawa. Usually they mention this on their websites. Another option is to contact the SP or SPs you are interested in seeing and ask them to give you a heads up the next time they decide to come back to Ottawa. I would recommend that you send this message to the SPs who seem to come to Ottawa on a more regular basis since they may have some sort of pre-announcement system already in place. I agree with you on how your email etiquette. I don't like to be pushy via email also. I should say that some SPs don't check their PM's regularly so sending a message to both their emails and PMs may get you an answer faster. Good luck and hopefully the stars align for you and you get to met with the lovely SP you are interested in seeing.

Note sure if it is bad form to cite your own postings but NotchJohnson's comment reminded me of a funny video I saw http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=139882&highlight=God%27s+loophole

For my long rides I try to have the following CDs in the car Jackson Browne - Running on Empty Bruce Springsteen - Nebraska and/or Born to Run Steve Earle - Exit 0 and/or Guitar Town Oh Susanna - Johnstown Sarah Harmer - Songs for Clem and/or You were Here Kathleen Edwards - Failer Jimmy George - A month of Sundays (only the local Ottawa lads will remember these guys - Long live the Duke of Somerset !!) Every one of these were an essential part of some memorable trip.

Lone Star was on TV last night. Excellent movie by John Sayles and a damn fine soundtrack. It would have been a great film for a movie night with Cleo Catra in her new western gear. ;-)

Isabella Gia is a located in Hull http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=30000

Thanks for the comment. I actually was mentally prepared for stuff to come up since the house is almost 80 years old. Luckily, whoever did the renos in the pass did things pretty well. No weird things a few things we had to update due to changes in building codes. No the big problem was not planning before the project started the big issue was not testing for asbestos until two days before the project was to begin. I asked them repeatedly to the test early - after all it is an 80 year old house. Of course it would test positive and then they had to find an asbestos abatement company on short notice. The probably lost 2 weeks on the bad move alone.

Julie Wilde use to have a picture in her albums where all you saw was her lovely legs in thigh-high rainbow socks. I really missed that picture. Of course all her other pics are fantastic, then again she is pretty awesome herself. Still miss that picture.

Hired a contractor to do a fairly straightforward renovation project. Nothing to difficult. Said it would be done in 5 weeks. I thought it probably could have been sooner but at least I thought he was giving himself some wiggle room. Probably the worst project management I have ever seen - and I work for the government !!! Stupid and lazy decisions at the start of the project added some big delays but the contractor said he would be able to catch up. Guess what he didn't. It's now week six and things don't look to great to get into my house soon. He is still running things like he is on schedule when he should have been going through "cover my ass" schedule. I finally had to point out to him if he simply did things our of order my kitchen and the powder room would be done and I would at least be able to live at my place rather than living like a gypsy house sitting for various friends who are on holidays. Definitely at the end of this will be a discussion about the project management fees.

Johnny Cash - Hurt Iris Dement - Our Town http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9-pDSYPrio Jill Barber does a fine version of Hank Williams "I'm so lonesome I cold cry" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xsyjPhDVaZA Fred Eaglesmith - 30 years of farming And just to make sure that I'm not solely delving in the country and alt-country musical genres Marillon - Sugar Mice Maybe it would be easier if I just download my mp3 list ..... so many people who know my music tastes seem surprised that I'm not some melancholy drunk sitting at the end of the bar.

I really think the gentlemen who didn't like to read recommendations about you really hasn't fully acknowledge the type of situation he signed up for when seeing an SP. He has your full attention for the agreed period of time. After that period of time you both go on your merry ways and live your lives as you please. Hopefully, the time spent together is enjoyable to both people. I know a gentlemen who did not have a good time probably would not return to that SP and I assuming that if an SP did not have an enjoyable time they would not see that gentleman again. Personally, I enjoy reading recommendations as it gives me a rough idea as the personality of the SP. That coupled with any postings they make on CERB gives me a better sense as to who the person is on the inside. I also see that recommendations is sort of core "raison d'être" of a website like CERB. The tact agreement that if you have a good experience with a SP that you should provide a report of said experience so that others (both clients and the SP) can benefit. By telling you he doesn't like reading recommendations about you as it destroys the fantasy, he essentially is passing along his worries and concerns onto you which is grossly unfair. He is putting all the work on you to maintain his fantasy by making you feel bad when all he needs to do is not read the recommendations, keep quiet about the subject and be blissfully ignorant of what you do after the session is over.

This spring while cleaning up the glove box of my car I found the owner's manual for the car I had in 1991. That was two cars ago !!! Brought back some great memories of long ago trips. To my Pontiac Firefly, long may you run

Back when I was younger, my girlfriend at the time really wanted to be fucked in a bed with satin sheets. I was game and so we somehow found this pair of read satin sheets. We get them on the bed and proceed to fooling around. After a sweaty round of DATY, she gets up to get some water. After she comes back to the bedroom she sees me lying on the bed, gives me this wicked smile, runs toward the bed and jumps beside me. It is at this point that we discover that satin is very slippery. She slides the length of the bed right into the wall, leaving a rather large hole in the wall (especially when she barely broke 100 lbs). Luckily, she was okay. Just some minor bumps and bruises along with some stiffness the next day. The fucking session was halted for a few days while she recovered but from then on we always used regular cotton sheets - for traction purposes LOL

Someone just sent me this link to this damn funny video from Garfunkel and Oates. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3HbaqlcmDCA I had time keeping my coffee from spurting through my nose. Love the line equating the clitoris to "Satan's doorbell".

Interesting thread and I do give Empty83 credit of being aware enough to think about this issue. I have to say I also thought about this issue but more in terms of being loyal to the SP who provided me an excellent experience. I think one thing that helps me is that I do not see SPs very often during a year and I'm a realist to know that although I would really like to see my "favourite" her schedule may not line up with my schedule. So by default I end up seeing multiple SPs over a given year. But my multiple may be three or four different SPs over a year. Saying that, I have by luck and good fortune seen an SP multiple times in a given year which in my mind is preferable. I find the SPs here on CERB are very helpful to each other and thus I don't feel any guilt in seeing another SP. The key point is to be respectful to the SPs that you do see, that tends to make you the type of client that SPs would like to see and/or recommend to other SPs - which is a good thing.

I always thought tattoos on women was not all the attractive but over time I have begun to appreciate them more. Have spent some quality time with SP's who have tattoos, I find them much more interesting and see them more as an extension of the person. A few SPs have been kind enough to explain the meaning of some of their tattoos and let me "inspect" them closely which adds to the level of intimacy. In fact being pretty blind without my glasses, Cleo Catra's tattoos help me navigate better around her body.

Not sure if you can only talk about bad locations that you had used yourself but in a previous job I worked at a university preparing chemical compounds for the university labs. We often worked in the evenings as the labs were usually too busy during regular school hours. The lab we did most of prep work was on the first floor with a door which open up to a little park. On the other side of the park was the main student pub. One hot spring night we had propped open the door which looked out on the park to get some fresh air and hear the music coming form the student pub. That night we were preparing a compound that is very sensitive to light so we had the lab lights turned off. It also was a rather strong smelling compound so when we worked in the lab we also wore gas-masks even though most of the time the compound stayed in the fumehoods. At some point in the process we had to let the reaction run for an extended period of time, so my co-worker and myself went and got some coffee. After about an hour, we came back, donned our gas masks and enter the darkened lab. At which point all hell broke lose. Here is a very rough version of what happened - as the two of us, wearing full chemical safety gear, enter the lab we noticed two figures in the corner near the door facing the little park ... there is some hard fucking against the wall going on as the two of them are literally growling at each other. - then she notices us and screams - her male partner looks back towards us but can't make us out so he turns on the light - my co-worker and myself scream to not turn on the light or at least try to scream since the gas masks muffle our voices so much - the lab lights turn on and we get to view an incredibly busty young lady pinned up against the wall by her very good looking fuck buddy - more screaming and yelling from them telling us to get out - more muffled screaming from us yelling at them to turn the lights off - chemical compound in fumehood reacts to light and starts to burn giving off an unholy red glare - our two lovers while screaming at the top of their lungs, de-couple and sprint out the back door - my co-worker and myself quickly move to deal with our little chemical fire from hell We finally get things under control and lucky for us there was not any major fire damage to the lab. While cleaning up our lab, we discovered our little lovers had left behind the following items: - a lacy set of purple bra (size 32D) and panties - a nice floral summer dress - a pair of grey shorts with the wallet still in the back pocket (10 bucks and sufficient ID to know it was one of the senior members of one of the junior Liberals - one sandal (men's size 10) We reported the incident to security and sure enough they knew what we were talking about as some one had called in reporting two students "streaking" through the campus parking lot. The little streakers were in custody. Later one, one of the security guys dropped by to pick up their stuff, we gave him everything but the bra and panties, we told them they had been burned in the fire. Later we pinned the bra and panties up to the lab safety board with a sign saying "No fucking in the labs". As much as having great chemistry makes the sex better, having sex in a chemical lab will probably end badly.