Bethany Westbrooke

I would love to join this, have it written down in my schedule! See you all in a couple weeks! Bethany Xoxox

I was thinking of that after you said that, wouldn't that be a blast to have everyone at Le Nordik! I vote for Pete to come too, would be sexy times for sure! Xoxox

I love this thread. I feel for you MH in that you put yourself out there and now feel some negativity toward your posts, but I think taking a step back will help you to start not feeling so targeted. This discussion is exactly what CERB is all about and I was really glad that you, MH, were able to share your thoughts and were chalking it up to a learning experience. The way you are thinking and feeling now toward certain ladies may be fuelled by your emotions and when people speak in generalities. I don't think anyone is not going to see you because of this thread and I am surprised that you would not see others for sharing their opinions on this subject. On a side note, for Kyra's posting, it would say she edited the post if she had done so. Likely it was just misread initially, we are only human so totally understandable. For Lefty32, I think everyone no matter what profession loves thank-you messages and other thoughtful notes. I have some clients who send me little jokes from time to time, or who always send me a thank you note within 24hours of our session. Anything that makes us smile is a good thing!

I agree with Lindsay, Le Nordik is the best! In terms of who I will not see, I think that a last minute booking is never a good thing for a first experience with someone. Usually when I have a same-day request I will let them know that I normally only see regular clients for last-minute sessions and then give my pre-screening questions if they are interested in seeing me another time, many of them don't reply after that- which shows me that they didn't really really want to see me, only in that moment. Not the kind of client I am looking for... I have my questions almost as an extra hurdle to jump, the ones who can't be bothered to answer them thoughtfully (or at all)are the ones that I weed out. It is important to remember that many of us are inviting you into our private spaces, physical and residential! We need to feel that you are respectful, caring and deserving. Do your best to give a good impression, and you will soon be rewarded!

When I first started massage I had booked a hotel room to see clients in and on the last day for my last session had decided to see a client who offered to take some pictures for me after our paid for session. I was very interested of course and to this day I still get together with him to take pictures and we are good friends but on that first day there was a bit of an error on timing on his part. I met with my second last client of the day a touch earlier than scheduled and just as we were getting settled on the table after a shared shower there was a knock at the door... I went to answer it as it was very insistent - after an awkward head poked out the door conversation I was told that it was my appointment scheduled for that time! I said there was an error of some kind and apologized profusely, then went back to my other client and was completely confused for a while as I was sure I hadn't double booked- I am very careful and organized with my schedule... After a moment of thought I asked him to be sure who he was... Him bringing a few bags to the session made more sense after that, we had a good laugh about it after-and once we put two and two together I emailed the client and offered him a free massage to make up for the dissappointment and lost time- thankfully he took me up on this offer and I was able to make up for the mix-up!

I was going to suggest the Buddha Bar collections I think there about 8 now but Vulcan beat me to it! Bringing your favourite massage mix to your next massage session is always a great gift, one of my best ones is a mix a client made me!

Looking forward to 500 more posts sweetie! Xoxox

I am all settled in my new digs, will post my schedule on my site and in the announcement section of CERB shortly. I am now very close to Bronson and Slater... Hope you all love the new location as much as I do! Bethany Xoxox

I searched high and low, west and slightly east of west and finally found the most perfect location, hope it is as perfect for my sexies... My new location is downtown, slightly west downtown, starting soon... B Xoxox

My search is ongoing, thanks to everyone for all your input. I am thinking Westboro or maybe even more central for a change based on the input received in this thread as well as via pm and email... I will be central this coming week and likely other dates in July, see my posting in schedule announcements, but won't know where I am permanently located until closer to August- my planned moving date... Thanks again sexies! Xoxox Additional Comments: Hey Ulix, Um, this is very intriguing, but I will only consider it seriously if you promise to join me for skinny-dipping in the jacuzzi at least once a week... Message me more details if it is at all possible! Bethany Xoxox

Heading home Monday from Europe and back to work sometime after Canada Day. As I am currently location-less, I will be finding a new place to work and curious what areas of town are best and/or worst for my clients... I will definitely make sure my new location has great parking, is discreet and easy to find but apart from that does anyone have any preferences or suggestions? If you normally see me more than once a month I am legally bound to take your advice, lol... Thanks in advance for your assistance and if any ladies have any suggestions feel free to share also! Bethany Xoxox P.s. Can't wait to see everyone, ladies and gents!

Thanks everyone for your support, it means a lot to me. I don't think this site is going to be positive toward me but as there is nothing I can do about it I am just hoping that it will be at least truthful.

I am still available for new and regular clients until I leave for Paris on the 12th...

I like DILF and DILDO, what they would look like... Most of my clients! Bethany Xoxox

Been back for just over a week, but will be leaving again March 15th for a few months in Europe. Hoping this post will be read by all my special sexies, would hate to leave you hanging for so long without your Sweetest Massage! Coming back by Canada Day, hope to see you before that though! Bethany Xoxox

This is such a great idea, Emma, I love the way you think! Could help us ladies out too, lol! Here are my ideas, hope this helps y'all out! :motion: Cook her a romantic dinner, even if it is terrible, with the right wine and candles she will feel very spoiled anyway! :motion: Take her out on the town- dinner, dancing, etc., then surprise her with a hotel reso- rose petals, chilled champagne, sexy massage oil, etc.- and take a bath together- getting her wet in more ways than one! :motion: Buy a package of dance lessons, and actually use them! :motion: I agree with Emma on the vacation thing, love travelling, and travel sex, lol, always hotter, n'est-ce pas? :motion: Get one of those collage style picture frames, fill with pictures of you both together, uber-cute! :motion: If she likes HBO's True Blood, get her the series by Charlaine Harris, I couldn't put it down!! :bowdown: Write her a romantic poem, then videotape yourself reading it to her and post it on Youtube, all romantic-like, something she can look up where-ever she is and feel special, bonus- good for the wallet! Hope you all have a happy V- Day! .Bethany. Xoxox

Time to fold up the massage chair and put away the lotion... . In exchange for suntan lotion, yay! Hoping for a warm welcome back when my batteries are fully recharged... Will be back on the 8th of February, hope to connect then! Bethany Xoxox

Never once have I even factored in a person's attractiveness in the open vs. monogamous debate. It is a very interesting argument, but I don't think it can be explained as simply as this because attractiveness is relative and there are no rules in open situations (swinger clubs for instance) that state you must be at least this level of hotness to "enter this ride..." In my forays into the world of open relationships, I have definitely noticed a greater than average number of attractive people, but not always or even mostly were they conventionally attractive. The way a person perceives, carries or dresses/grooms themselves can be the difference between a head-turning person or otherwise. The extremely sexual and open people who engage in this type of openness, by their behaviour alone makes them more attractive regardless of genetics. The more sex you have the more people want to sex you! The motivations for being open in a relationship may also work in favour of a less attractive partner, by allowing one another to explore open situations one is more likely to maintain the attentions of their partner by either allowing their partner to explore their fantasies or to allow them to see others desiring them, thereby making them more attractive in the eyes of their partners. Generalizing that monogamy is "old hat" is definitely an oversimplification because yes, there are always exceptions to the rule. I thought that sharing our opinions was the idea on this site and I was very surprised to hear your comments, and while I respect them -I feel that it would be surprising and hypocritical to hear anyone on this site come out in favour of 100% monogamy. Bethany Xoxox

Archer, I think you have a great point about traditional views on monogamy affecting how people view sex workers and their clients. It is something that has been discussed indirectly in other threads and is definitely due some attention! Buggernot- I feel like my thoughts are so similar to yours that they may not even need stating but I have some pretty strong feelings on this subject so I am adding my two cents anyway- though they may look very similar to your 2 cents... Personally, I have come to learn that we- as animals- are highly driven by sex, especially me! I recently watched a video (linked from here maybe?) that mentioned how bizarro it is for us to expect monogamy when in reality the only animal who has yet to prove this consistently with no exceptions is some weird worm that lives in the stomach of a fish, who fuses with it's mate shortly after birth and is then stuck for life... We are setting ourselves up for disappointment when we expect others and ourselves to remain faithful forever. It can be especially hard to handle when we are the ones being cheated on, not to say that guilt doesn't have it's fair share of emotional weight... Many women have been raised to be "good girls" with the idea that you save yourself for your one true love and then live happily ever after. Unfortunately for the good girls, simultaneously, there have also been enough "bad girls" to fulfil the naughty desires of their husbands... (and vice versa) Of course finding out that your one true love has sullied your happily ever after is a touch hard to deal with and strangely it is more natural to harbour bad feelings against the "bad girls" for being bad when in reality these good girls are simply displacing their own insecurities/fears/anger onto the sex worker/mistress/girlfriend/insert other bad girl type here to make themselves believe that their husband had no choice but to stray/be tempted/corrupted/ etc... Perhaps some of the problem also lies within the "bad-boy" syndrome- tell me I can't/shouldn't have something and it only makes me want it more... In order to change this harbouring of negative feelings against sex workers and bad girls/boys in general it is important for couples to communicate about what is expected vs. what is actually going to happen even if that is something that neither of them wants at the time of the initial topic discussion. A friend I met on vacation recently told me how his gf made sure he brought condoms with him "just in case" and then told him to have fun! That is truly refreshing, and just the kind of mentality and acceptance that we all need to adopt in order to live happier and more peaceful lives without displacing our anger or insecurities on the lovers of our lovers. As soon as we stop lying to ourselves and each other we will stop all this negativity from being created to begin with, and then focus our energy on more fulfilling activities, like more sexy time for instance... ; )

Thanks for getting us back on track LouKing, and thank you so much for such a lovely review! ... Quick note to those who were waiting, my new album is up- can you tell I am excited, lol... Let me know what you think! My first topless shots ever on CERB(no, not all of them, lol)! No turning back now, lol... http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=1253

I second that squareness comment, but admit to it too- great coleslaw and the wings are great too! I have a friend who has a tough time with spiciness so I ordered them once with their apple butter bbq sauce...Wow, a definite must try, that is the only way I get them now!

My best friend and my sister both recently purchased their first homes with great deals on price in the east end- one in Vanier, similar issues to Hintonburg, if not worse- not terrible depending on your location and you get great value for your money, and the other in Gloucester (close to Silvercity/Gloucester Mall)really great price and schools are great in the Olgilvie/Montreal area and it is really close to DT from Gloucester mall too... I agree with Hintonburg being a great area too, if you can get a touch closer to Gladstone or Somerset I think you can avoid some of the riff-raff, and you are relatively close to Westboro and have easy access to the bike path along the Ottawa River. Good luck!

Lol, Michelle MA sent this link to me last year, too funny! No wonder she is the first on most toplists- and second, lol...

Great thread! When I was a lot younger my ex and I were terribly addicted to each other and I can think of a few situations that were really exciting, but I would have to say the wildest place was at Henry's car wash in Ottawa, lol! Went there late at night to wash the car but got it a bit dirty first- was sexy as anyone could have caught us in the act, but even sexier that no-one did. We ended up spending quite a bit of of time there that night!

I think it is important to expect that there may be many dangerous situations for both clients and providers. I completely agree with Fortunateone about the repeat clients aspect- from my experience it is true that many experienced hobbiests from CERB either already have their favourites(rarely venturing outside of that ) or they prefer not to repeat at all for sake of variety! I advertise on CL, EC, and CERB from time to time and all sites have given me caring, polite, sexy and respectful clients! I think my pre-screening process definitely helps me figure out who I would like as a new client, but honestly just taking the time to answer any questions shows me that a potential client sincerely wants to see me- perhaps doing the same with an SP will yield the same results, anyone who is really interested in meeting new clients will do their best to make them feel comfortable and safe. Apart from quality of clients, response rates from both CERB and CL are similar with a good number of leads making either a good choice for free advertising but EC's site has always quickly overwhelmed me with messages from new clients which has made me leery of renewing my ad- a little too effective, lol (this may be biased for me, being that I normally have the only ad in the exotic massage section). Hope this helps, happy hobbying all, stay safe!