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  1. Parker
    "legal obligations"... There's a big difference from them being there are you being forced to follow through with them. I know few clients who would want to take responsibility for this... but I personally know absolutely no escorts who would either a) go through with the pregnancy or b) if for some reason they did go through with it, would want the father to be involved or supporting them in any way. Obviously these types of people could exists, but I've never met or know of any at this point in time. When I think about it, I can't see anyone making a big fuss over it.. A woman in this situation may not care about the stigma or what people say about her, but she will worry about how people treat her child. Which is why, I'm guessing, you don't really hear about this situation much... other than in hypothetical questions on escort forums.
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    Saran wrap is fine, if it's not like 90% of them out there and isn't "microwavable". If it is, it's completely pointless.. It has microscopic holes to allow steam through, but which also allow bacteria and the like through. You can get non-latex and powder free dental dams, they're just not flavored and colored like the latex ones.
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    They do, it just doesn't make the papers or anything. I watched a national geographic documentary on prostitution that was actually fairly balanced and surprisingly positive. There are a couple others here and there that talk to higher class escorts and view sex industry through their perspective-- but they're much more rare. I guess hearing about happy people who enjoy their choices and escorting doesn't bring in the viewers. /shrug
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    But it technically is innocent and harmless... Just like money and guns. It's the people and what they choose to do with things that bring about "destruction". I think too much of men in general to start believing they don't have any self control or the ability to think of consequences. It would be insulting if I did...
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    I have to agree with this... If something as harmless as joining a website 'ruined' your marriage, it was already riddled with problems. Seeing prostitutes (typically) does not devastate families, even if they end up finding out. Money problems, violence, drugs and general resentment are usually what kill marriages. (At least as far as I can tell...lol) But, in all seriousness, if a marriage CAN be saved, I believe it can be saved at almost any time-- if not it might not have been worth saving to all involved. When someone leaves someone because they cheated, it's usually because there are other problems present... cheating becomes the straw, a good reason not to deal with bigger problems within a relationship. I'm not offended by your post, but I find it kind of pointless... If you're having problems in your marriage, leaving Cerb and hugging your wife aren't going to solve it.. I suggest people in this situation seek actual help, otherwise the same problems will just resurface and head you down a similar or worse path. Good luck!
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    So.. basically... "Sexual addiction" is just a fancy, attention grabbing term for someone's idea/participation in what is just unhealthy behavior. Gambling for one may be just some odd fun, while to someone else is becomes and unhealthy practice/obsession... Sex would appear to be the somewhat similar. While these sorts of things have 'addictive' qualities, I think calling them addictions is a bit confusing, especially since they're so subjective. To the OPs question... If you know someone who feels she has this sort of problem, get her involved in some sort of hobby, enjoyed activity, work out. Enjoyable activities will stimulate the same pleasure centers of the brain... so encourage her to find healthy enjoyable activities that she won't have to feel guilty or obsessive over.
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    What does one have to do to be considered a sex addict??
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    I get quite tired of people's ideas on what healthy looks like. I eat right and exercise, but when I don't exercise I don't put on much extra weight. I've just never been a person who can easily gain weight and I've tried. I find it rather insulting that people will slam the person who says anything about an 'over-weight' person, but will then turn around and tell me I'm too skinny, or I must be anorexic... I'm unhealthy looking. It would be nice if stereotypes and insults could just disappear, but instead they tend to just find someone else to target.
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    I would suggest getting her highly aroused first... Mine is hard to find if I'm not already turned on. It's not that far back, maybe a finger length. (my own.) It does feel different than the surrounding area, at least mine does. Mine's slightly smoother, yet firmer. If you google "urethral sponge" you'll find those medical looking cross sections, though since women are different it may be in a slightly different location, but in the general area. Next time you're with a lady you could ask her to direct you to it, so you know what it feels like. ;)
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    Though I know this works for many, I find the 'come here' finger motion distracting and uncomfortable to the point where if I was going to 'squirt', this would ruin it for me. If you're stimulating my gspot with your fingers, I need softer and very slightly changing movement. (I actually prefer bigger hands for this as well..) I'm, personally, much more likely orgasm/squirt from dick.. in simple positions, (Having my hips cocked to the side at weird angles with my limbs in all directions will not help me come, lol.) but I can come from fingers if done right. And while I love that my clients want to make me come, a lot of the time I have other things to do in the day. Making me come over and over for an hour at noon can put a real knot in the rest of my day. (I know guys can't multi as easily, but that doesn't mean it's easier on my body than it is on yours.) I come easily and hard.. it's a whole body experience. Even enough clitoral orgasms can leave me drained, tender and tired for the better part of the rest of the day... My advice would be to enjoy the experience... I'm not an escort because I want every guy to make me come, it's because I enjoy giving pleasure as well. I come (and relax) more when I know that the person I'm with is enjoying themselves and me. When I sense that they're not enjoying themselves because they're frustratedly fingerbanging me and it's not making me squirt hot lady come in their face-- it takes me out of the moment and ruins it for me. Just going with it, enjoying yourself and listening to any directions I have will make me come every time. I'm less likely to come if I notice you're trying hard to make me.. but that's just me.
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    That's horrible... I thought they had laws against that sort of thing. Industrial plants with boiler systems have any water they dump back into water ways rigorously tested, it's insane, (and overly sad,) that they would actually just dump sewage directly into the water.
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    While I appreciate that blog post-- and people who want to keeps our waters clean... I have a hard time believing that condoms, of all things, make it through sewage treatment plants. Do condoms make it to natural water? Yes, but most likely not through the sewage system. More likely from people throwing them outside, getting into storm sewers, and from falling off garbage trucks and getting into the environment. (There's a major waste management landfill just outside of Stittsville, and garbage regularly travels from it and the trucks to the surrounding areas..) I'm not trying to say flush the condom, there are many good reasons to NOT flush condoms... .. I googled 'disposing of a condom' to see if there were any green, 'proper' or less harmful ways of disposing of a condom... all it came up with through were posts of people condoning flushing and guys afraid their one-night-stand would steal their DNA... /sigh
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    I don't think it's that people were making fun of your request/observation... It's just that, as with complaints about crappy clients, you're most likely 'preaching to the choir'... Since people too lazy to throw condoms in the garbage are probably also too lazy to read this thread... I don't think we have to worry about condoms in the rivers though, unless someone throws them in there or leaves them outside near a storm sewer... Waste water from your sink, toilet and shower goes to a treatment plant to be treated for solid and liquid waste before being put back into natural water systems.
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    Coming in a condom is not like coming in a sterile cup. Contaminated, untested sperm is not the first choice.. even then, you would need sterile equipment to try to force the already dying sperm into the cervix... It's so unlikely that is really borders on impossible.. Simply tv fiction. There are far easier ways for women to try and have babies...
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    Welcome! .. I'm sure you'll have lots of fun! xo
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    What about in that little space where you can choose a smilely for your thread? Some people use them, a lot of the time I see this sheet of paper looking icon, which I'm guessing is the default.. Anyways, could you just add little SP and MP icons that people could choose to use if they wanted?
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    No, they don't have any good reasons to... but they do. Even recently there was a guy who was on here pretending to be an escort. Why is beyond me, but it does happen. .. but this has become overly off topic..
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    Neither of those are actually sex though... One is actually the opposite of sex. I personally believe being "safe" with anything starts with being informed. Current STD information can be found here; http://www.cdc.gov/std/default.htm ...
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    I find this chart to be inaccurate and outdated... BBBJ is listed as high risk for Syphilis' date=' which the medical industry does not currently consider it, based on not only how it is transmitted-- but also based on how often it is tested and how easy it is to test for, which it is tested for regularly when you go for STD testing. It also lists protected vaginal sex for no risk for several STDs, I think that's beyond misleading-- [b']Using a condom does NOT negate all risk involved[/b], especially when used incorrectly or past the expiry date. Nothing is really safe... Leaving your house everyday isn't safe. At least when it comes to STDs you can take control, practice safe sex and get tested regularly... There's no test for if you might get run over by a bus leaving the house.
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  24. Parker
    It goes both ways... I don't think everyone always means to be dishonest though. There's a real balancing act between dishonest and brutally honest, and most people like to be somewhere in between... where someone lies in between is a guessing game. I think how we deal with people comes a lot from previous interactions.. If you were tried being honest with someone in the past (either client or provider) and got a bad reaction, you might be less likely to be as honest (or honest at all) in the future... It's also a matter of perception and how honest you believe someone is being with you... I don't believe it's as simple as someone wants to deceive you and that's that, people are rarely that simple. I personally try to graciously accept compliments if I feel they're honest or not... While I prefer honest, I'm not going to waste my time getting all upset about it. I just try to be honest with people and hope I get the same, and that's really about the most I can do about other people anyways. ;)
  25. Parker
    Dr. Phil is a moron, granted... but this woman actively sought out his advice on how to not be an escort as she didn't like the work... just the "gifts." You don't go on Dr. Phil and cry about your life because you're proud of what you do and full of self esteem.
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