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Correct me if I'm wrong, but were the first replies not about how deceiving him was wrong? "Jumping" was probably the wrong word to use here.. I talk funny a lot and I type like I talk... what I was trying to say was; "...to see people shooting down one person's idea over something most of us do..." The idea wasn't that horrible... I'm sure lots of guys would like if their buddy hired them an escort. /shrug

My post was not directed at anyone.. If anything I was applying it to myself. I'm not going to tell someone it's bad to lie when I lie all the time. I'm sorry if anyone thought I was directing it at them. I try to speak in general terms and not really call people on their decisions as I am not the best decision maker in the world either. xo

You're right... it could be a bad idea. Medication can actually mess with sex drive, especially an erection. Maybe if you talked to your friend he'd actually be into it? My concern is if he's having sexual difficulty, an escort may not help. If she's all ready to go and he can't perform... it might just make him feel worse. I think everyone jumping down your throat for deception should take a step back and a long hard look at themselves. I really dislike coming to cerb to see a bunch of people jumping down one persons through for something most of us do... deceive and lie. Just my personal opinion...

Some do... and it does depend on the person, escort or not. It's more likely to happen if you've seen them as a client before... and you get along, share similar interests, ect... I think the last thing you should do though is go around asking ladies to hang out with you for free...

I had forgotten about this song.. "Moulin Rouge" I'll meet you in the red room, Close the door and dim the lights. I will be yours truly If indeed the price is right. So throw your sword, be my king, Let your passions rise and sing. Just show me the diamonds And I'll let you wear my ring. So just lay down beside me, Let us consummate. I know you're bursting, Let me help you deflate. If you want to plug in For a high-voltage connection, Show me cold hard cash And I will turn on my affection. Do you wanna help out? I'll let you. Just a little... So don't hesitate, I won't kiss and tell. No need to worry, 'Cause I'm a professional. The show can start as soon As I see money on the table, I have an empty space to fill, I'm willing if you're able. Do you wanna help out? I'll let you. Just a little... I'll meet you in the red room, Close the door and dim the lights. I will be yours truly If indeed the price is right. So throw your sword, be my king, Let your passions rise and sing. Just show me the diamonds And I'll let you wear my ring.

Uncovered oral sex is not safe, even protected oral sex is not 100% safe. If you google oral sex you will find that you can catch a number of STDs from it... I'd like to think most of us SPs take pretty good care of ourselves though (hygiene, regular health checks) and would not continue working should we learn that we had picked something up.

I think I've ever only had one SP not reply to my request for a reference... I later found out she had left the business and stopped checking her e-mails. Most of the time replies are quick and simple. They usually include; saw him this many times, was great, clean, sweet, fun, ect.. Sometimes you get what a great client they've always been and how they had a lot of fun with a guy.... that's about it. I get lovely, helpful, to the point reference from all the ladies I've asked.. I'm very appreciative of all the ladies who not only take the time to answer every time, but do it with class and friendliness... I've also never gotten a bad/negative reference.. Everyone has told me how lovely the gent I'm about to see will be and so far they all have lived up to such.

The problem is some of us don't have the time. I usually don't get more than 15 minutes at the computer at a time... I use that to check e-mails, reply, check cerb and such... a lot of the time I just don't have the time to read through posts. I have an overly busy life and see clients in between... for me references are not only a way of keeping me safe, but it's easier for me to check a reference and make an appointment than it is to be searching and reading. That is the thing as well, references do not work for short notice appointments at all, (Even though some still try...) and as you said have someone know where you're going... we all have our own ways of doing things... no one is forcing anyone to try to see someone who asks for references. We each will go with what works for us, you guys will do the same.

I use to do that... spend all my time searching out the person on my own, reading through their posts.. ect... It leaves little time to do much else and it can take forever. So now I only see those with references... it makes me feel secure when having people to my location and it saves me a lot of time and burnout not having to sit at the computer all day trying to figure out if you're ok from your posts. On a side note, before I had a recommendation I got next to no clients... the odd one a month... I had no "references" so people were less inclined to see me... I don't see how asking for client references is much different than you reviewing us... it is at least far more private and less detailed.

The only ones I can think of... Prostitution is the world's oldest profession - Cobra Starship Wrong Way - Sublime Naomi - Neutral Milk Hotel When the sun goes down - Arctic Monkeys

What I really don't understand is why you did not direct your client to cerb where he could post this himself then. Abortion has nothing to do with the fact, and honestly throwing around words like that just cloud the situation. You're judging someone based on something you heard from another person. Not something you saw, not something you confirmed by talking to her. You're right, they should be warned... but how do you know if the people who chime in to say you are right have actually seen such? If they did and were so appalled why are you the first (someone who has not seen anything) to say something? If it's different than a pregnancy fetish is also something else better left to be debated by medical professionals... I know plenty of women who have been put on bed rest and they aren't having sex everyday. I just think that this is becoming overly one sided with not one person ACTUALLY involved jumping in to say anything.

I guess I just don't get how this is worse than escorting with an unborn child. There was an entire thread about "preggo" fetishes... and some recommendations... but when the child is no longer in the mother it is somehow more at risk and everyone's business? As I said before... I just don't think this is the place.

And I am in complete agreement with you, I just don't think this is the place to be discussing such at all. This is not a morality or family forum... This is an escort forum.. People here largely practice activities that some people find just as offensive as we may find what this SP is doing. I only worry if we start judging her, it opens us up to judge on others... and this is the last place where anyone should feel judged or worry about the possibility of such. I would just rather this site be about our lovely ladies and the good times we have with. While I know this forum is open to other discussions, I'd rather them not be as controversial or judgmental as this one... ...Also... These forums are not private. Anyone can read them. Are we not increasing the chances of her getting caught simple because police can see this thread here and connect it to the one on CL? There's too much to think about here, and none of it is my business... Nai, out! xo

At the same time though there have been pregnant SPs, an not a person here jumped down their throats OR made posts about it. I get that people won't agree with it, some people will find it wrong and immoral... But, there are a lot worse situations for a child to be in. Beatings, starvation, the other day I saw a documentary on meth and the parents were smoking these chemical drugs not 4 feet from their 5 and 6 year olds. So.. while some of us may not agree with it.. I don't really think it's our place to judge. Not here anyways.

Did you ask her for no bra or panties or a matching set? I don't think there's one reason why someone would say they'll wear something (for example) and then not... It could be she just doesn't care... maybe she forgot.. or it could be a simple error in communication. xo

Very sorry to see this article and hear that you had no news of it ahead of time... But at the same time I think we should all remember that you do not have to be a member of cerb to read the threads, announcements or even see the pictures... you just have to type in the address and click ENTER HERE. The internet is far from private and you really have to go out of your way a lot of the time to protect your privacy here. I think we should always be prepared that if we post things on the internet, they could attract unwanted attention.

Even if you get a bunch of replies to who is the best, you may still be left with nothing more than a big pile of names... which means you'd still have to browse the ladies and their recommendations... Might as well just cut out the middle part and jump straight to the recommendations.

Lifestyles makes a condom called "snugger fit"... I believe a few other condom companies also have a "snugger" size. I've also found that One condoms (they come in a tin) are a bit smaller than average, but they're not some of my favorites. xo

What a great thread, kudos to Annessa for starting it! ;-) One of my favorite parts of being an SP is being able to show off my lingerie... cute outfits, heels... even better when wearing such gets such a great response from whoever I'm wearing it for. I've learned things, been told fascinating stories and have been taken to beautiful places.. all by some of the sweetest and most interesting people you'd ever want to spend time with. And of course there's always great sex.. can't forget about that.. xo

Suri, I actually read an article online recently that may be helpful... http://collegeuniversity.suite101.com/article.cfm/dating_your_professor_or_ta xo

I'm a little more than shocked that you got so violent over 60$... I understand that some guys are looking for the "best deal", but when it doesn't go your way you got violent with a woman you described as 5'4'' and 110 lbs?!? I understand being mad, but I really think some self control should have been exercised here.

Poly, in regards to sex & marriage, usually refers to Polyandry... I would assume it is different from orgies as "poly" relationships tend to include one person of one sex and multiple people of the other sex... Whereas orgies usually refers to group sex settings.

It's not always financially possible to do such. With escorting costs, rent, utilities I'm already up to almost 3000$ a month. Seeing how I barely make 1000$ a week escorting (I see one client a day max), a second place would cut into the money I make outside of escorting. I take incalls in my home... I also require either a listed contact number or reference... it appears to do an amazing job of keeping the "idiots" away. I have yet to have any problems.. or pop ins.

The sad part is it's not as rare as it use to be as so many people are taking part in unprotected oral sex. HIV through oral is also becoming less rare which is why some countries like Australia and Germany are now enforcing mandatory condom laws for escorts. (Dental dams must also always be used.) Getting tested every month is a good idea, regular testing is key as some things (like HIV) may not show up when first contracted... and as Suri said, can be completely asymptomatic.