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Hmm... I've actually gotten the opposite a couple times, where I've been told that they really enjoyed themselves but they're not really into "spinners". I completely agree with Emma, our body size has nothing to do with the personality of the person, and I would much rather be known as Naomi than a spinner. xo

It's fiction, and a good read so far.

I started reading, The Hidden Life of Humans by Erika Ritter, love it so far... re-reading Confessor by Terry Goodkind (such a fantasy nerd). Started on Neil Gaiman's Graveyard Book, but I haven't gotten a chance to actually sit and get more than a couple pages in.

Depending on the circumstances, I don't think an explanation is always necessary. Sometimes things come up in our personal lives such as periods, family, friends or other things that we may not feel like sharing, especially with a client we have yet to meet.

I don't really think it just has to do with that... I know the laws and I still would rather charge for my time then for the sex.

This whole distrust of ladies really worries me sometimes. I get e-mails about how asking for a listed contact number is "silly" and pointless, but at the same time I'm not sure how I'm expected to trust a strange man to come into my private home when I'm not trustworthy enough for a listed number. Trust is a two way street... or at least in my books it is.

I know people probably don't want to hear most of this, but I see Anita's point. No, I don't think most of my clients would hang around if all they were paying for was good conversation... ... at the same time though I don't think it's right to say she doesn't get it because she's a MA. I mean, as a MA she's under the same scrutiny and reviews... and I'm sure without lovely breasts, a positive attitude and a happy ending, most MAs wouldn't have that much business as well. No, you may not want to "own" her for an hour... but maybe you'd like the feeling of exclusivity, of having her all to yourself? Making her your girlfriend or lover for an hour? I think with escorts, for the most part, you know what you're getting. It's piece of mind, it's getting sex when you can't (or the type of sex you can't), doing things your wife won't... maybe it's just an ego boost... I'm sure there are tons of reason, just depends on who you ask and when you ask them...

I love denim suspenders, they're too cute.

Congratulations Erin! You sounded great this morning. ;)

Three shells... For some reason Demolition Man pops into mind... probably not that one though. The guy goes to use the bathroom and instead of toilet paper there are three shells. ... I'm not sure if they're ever explained. xx

It's very natural to be nervous about losing control, such as being tied up. Couples can have problems doing it with each other, let alone people with complete strangers. I've had clients who wanted to be tied, but not helplessly... Tying large cuffs into rope (that doesn't tighten) or velcro cuffs are good for this, you're not actually tied up, but you still get to play with it a bit. Things like being tied up should never be done if you're not comfortable with them and the person you're doing them with, though that should go without saying.

Some of us have times like that because we do other things in the times not listed. As for the "I have an opening left here", I've said it. It doesn't always mean that I'm seeing other men that day. Sometimes I have to drive my sister somewhere, or I have an appointment... ect.

Yes, they can be... lol I love bondage rope... it's soft and versatile. There are really too many great toys to choose from.

All very good points... I think I was mainly confused as to what their main purpose was, (which I know now. lol.) 8)

No but I'm sure they boot people for B&S and shill and such.

Shouldn't we be booting these people from the site rather than removing reputation points?

Maybe I'm just overly confused, as it happens from time to time, but... I really don't get these reputation points. I lose "reputation" because someone "disagrees" with something I said/ an opinion I had? ...Maybe I'm missing how these are helpful?

I was overly sad to read about stuff this like this going on, especially here. Akhenaton & OutForFun both make good points. It worries me more that ladies are accepting BS info on clients from other clients. I can't imagine having faith in anything a client said about another client... from another provider is one thing, but another client? They would lose any and all credibility in my mind, not to mention the option of making a booking with me. I don't find that kind of drama appealing from anyone, least of all a man. My only concern would be if maybe the lady in question is just making excuses? I think there are probably a number of reasons a recommendation should be pulled (B&S, Scamming, ect) ... this could be one of them, bad client care maybe? I would agree that if someone no longer felt like he should recommend me, he should pull his recommendation. That way anyone who did see me would be deciding for themselves and not based on something you said but would no longer agree with. That way (at least here) you're not in the position to have to disagree with something positive you may have said. -Nai

As taken from my website; "...and lush lips that are currently adorned with a single lip ring." Some of us ladies do put a lot of work into our websites and put valuable information about contacting us and such on them.. I really appreciate clients who take the time to read a little bit of my site so that I don't have to waste time answering questions already answered and such. Nai xx

In the advertising section of the Rules & FAQ this can be found; "Advertising your services here and participating in the discussions here are free for everyone. All we ask is if you place a link here to your own website as part of your signature or advertisements that you return the favor and place one of our banners (linking to our site) on your website in return." I was wondering if this is a must do or something CERB would just really appreciate, like a tip? xx Nai

Congrats Doll! ;-)

I've only been in Canada for a few years but I've been overly lucky. I've run into lots of friendly and smart people. I've only run into the odd less than intelligent person... and no conspiracy theorists whatsoever! I've been wondering if Canada has any of these? I've met a lot of people in the States who are paranoid of government conspiracies, alien conspiracies... I never seem to run into any Canadians with the same fears.

Like myself.... lol

Rhode Island is another state, they have similar prostitution laws to Canada.