Parker

I took 'actual medication' to mean like prescription medication (I included medical cannabis with this too), sorry if I misunderstood in advance as this probably won't be helpful info for you. When I have a lot of difficulty falling asleep I take melatonin, it's a natural supplement-- like where you find calcium and vitamin d, but I find it super effective & it doesn't make you groggy, (sleeping pills don't do anything for me other than give me walking legs or flare ups.). On a side note, I've done some reading on how when you eat has more to do with your internal clock than the sun and how eating regularly and at certain times can greatly improve sleep-- but I've only read so much on it to date and am not well versed on the subject.. it might be something to look into though.

Happy Friday, Everyone! If you missed it or you need a refresher, you can find my most recent ad here --> http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=264336 <-- There you can find my contact, general availability & location info, rules, rates, preferences and payment options. Random Bits of Additional Info.. Stephanie Parker Stats: 31, Pisces/Rabbit (in case you're curious) 5'5'', 106 lbs, A34 shoe size: US 7 Light Brown Hair, Grey-Blue Eyes Random Questions? Outcalls: Outcalls are available under certain conditions. I don't go to private residences unless we've previously met.. and I can't really go anywhere for long without my pup at the moment, (we're still working on his independence training.) Social / Introductory Dates: Social Dates are available between 10am & 10pm, Mondays and Wednesdays to Saturdays. From having a snack or a cool drink in the park, a walk through Chinatown, gelato on Bank St or enjoying some great conversation over yummy take-away at my place with some smooth tunes in the background.. I'm pretty easy to get along with. ;) Favourites: Food: Vietnamese, Veggie Sushi, Dim Sum Pancakes, Pizza, Pastries & Smoothies. Drinks: Pink Champagne, Boba & Tea, Bottled Water (Fiji) Scents: Honey, Vanilla, Roses, Melon, Coconut. Fruit: Strawberries, Pineapple, Kiwis Colours: Black, Purple, Green Music: Jazz, R&B, Classic Rock, Lounge & Reggae Fabrics: Lace, Satin, Cotton Books: Non-Fiction, Manga, Historical Dramas, Fantasy Cocktails: Cosmo, Mojito, Sunrise Smokers: I don't mind smokers, but you can't do it inside my location, sorry.. But, I do have a private balcony and there are chairs and an asytray out there should you need to have one while you're at mine. (Vaping I'm totally cool with though.) Daily Updates: For daily updates and random pictures (mostly of my pup currently) see my super cool Twitter profile! @OttawaDoxy

Welcome Lovees, Lovers, Gents, Gals & Future Friends! ;) Winter is finally over!! While I have a lot of big plans for this year and will be busy with the usual of life, work, hobbies and training my pup.. I will also be accepting and seeing new clients again! Nestled between Centretown and Chinatown, my incall location is clean, cozy and easy to get to. Near Bronson / Gloucester (There are cats & a pup at my carpeted location. The pup is technically 'hypoallergenic', the cats and the carpet though-- not so much.) Who am I? I'm an experienced companion who's been lucky enough to work (Independently) in the industry, off and on, over the past decade.. and though it has had it's ups and downs, I'm not sure the improvements I've made (& am still making!) to myself and my life would have been possible without the lovely people I've met over the years. My grey-blue eyes, super long, silky hair and youthful, sun-kissed skin are ever enticing.. Long legs, full lips and a perky bum are sure to impress, but it's my curious and eager-to-please personality that keep people coming back for more! I like to keep busy.. I work a few different jobs and have many interests and hobbies, from painting and photography to hiking, reading, gardening and writing.. there's so much to love and enjoy in life, so much to experience and explore. RATES Up to 30 minutes -- $100.00 Up to 60 minutes -- $180.00 2 hours -- $350.00 for every hour beyond 2 hours -- $100.00 Current Payment Options: Cash & Interac e-Transfer for Regular Clients, payment via Paypal may also be possible. *on electronic payments* e-Transfers can take up to 2 hours to clear, Paypal takes 3-5 buisness days.. Electronic payments must have cleared and be in my account before the date begins. I do reserve the right to refuse electronic payment(s). Please confirm payment choice and information before sending and be sure to keep any included notes or memos very discreet & professional. GENERAL AVAILABILITY 10:00am to 10:00pm Mondays & Wednesdays to Saturdays (Other days and times may be possible with advance notice and payment.) CONTACT INFORMATION [email protected] 613 501 2497 Those who contact me by call or text but don't follow my rules for such will be blocked.. Rules are listed below. @OttawaDoxy (on Twitter) ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ CURRENT RULES/POLICIES: Following my rules not only makes my life way easier, (therefore making me more happy, positive and eager to please) it also makes contacting me, booking with and seeing me, easier, quicker and smoother-- and it's the best way to let me know you're not a time waster, predator or otherwise too difficult for me to spend time with. Contacting Me via Phone (Texting/Calling) Please do not text or call me between the hours of 10pm and 10am, Monday to Saturday, unless you have pre-arranged a date and time to do so. If you need/would like to contact me outside those times, you're welcome to send me an email or DM any day of the week, any time of the day. The majority of the time, I'm unable to answer questions regarding; services, restrictions, turn ons/preferences or my physical attributes over the phone. If you have questions about such-- please DM, email or text me. I do expect that those who contact me have read the ad and shouldn't have to ask questions regarding rates, location, general availability, payment options, etc. If the questions you have aren't answered in my ad, you're welcome to ask me. I typically don't return missed calls & I only reply to (appropriate) texts if I can do so within 20 minutes, or if I'm told it's ok to do so beyond that. SAME DAY DATES I cannot do same-day dates at this point in time, even when I have cancellations. My schedule is, sadly, only so flexible at the moment.. And I find it super frustrating & disappointing that some like to go out of their way to dangle a date I can't do in front of me. While they may be available at a future date, they aren't currently. My Companion/Escort Rates are now Non-Negotiable and will remain so. Cancellations First time cancellation fee is $100. If you have a habit of cancelling or no-showing, you may be asked to pay for your date, in full, in advance. This is not an offer of sexual services for payment. Any rates and/or fees collected are collected for time and companionship only.

Happy New Year Lovees! After spending almost 12 years in the Ottawa area, it's time for a change of scenery.. So, this will be my last year in Ontario! As such, I'll be offering special Companion Rates as a thank you for all that the good guys in the city have done for me over the years. 2018 Companion Rates~ 1 hour, not prepaid: $200 2+ hours, not prepaid: $180 per hour 1 hour, prepaid: $180 2+ hours, prepaid: $150 per hour Please note: Companion Rates are now non-negotiable.

Ok, that's what screening is all about- screening out those who seem dangerous is part, the other part is people you just don't want to spend time with. It's nothing to take personally, everyone has preferences.. including clients, lol.. this shouldn't be shocking or anything.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS LOVELIES!! I will be working here and there (and have a couple sexy dinners planned) this month and will be staying at home in the city.. My pleasure pad is warm, cozy and just a hop, skip and a jump from Chinatown and Centretown where there are lots of places to eat, drink and be merry over the holidays! On a completely random side note; I've also decided I want to adopt an older dog in the new year and will be saving up the $600 needed to get the necessary items and adopt! Though I can be charming, interesting and all kinds of fun- I'm far more likely to be so when I get to be my down-to-earth self. (And while I'm passionate about many things, I prefer to focus on my date and keep the conversation light, fun and sexy when possible.) I'm an empathetic, open-minded and overly loyal person who loves animals, people and life in general.. It gives me great, personal pleasure to be helpful or make a positive difference in someone's life, even if it's not a big difference. Introductory Dates: Whether we meet in a little coffee shop, a quiet & tucked away diner or a hidden restaurant in Chinatown, you can expect to meet a discreet, yet friendly and non-judgmental woman who's genuinely interested in getting to know you a bit. Should we be compatible and a good fit, I'll be more than happy to set up a more private, Companion Date with you. Fees: Basic Introductory Date - $40 Breakfast or Lunch Date - $50 Dinner/Drinks & Nibbles Date - $60 Sensual Companion Dates: A Sweetly Soft & Sexy Surrogate Girlfriend Experience. I aim for a mutually beneficial and pleasing experience that leaves my clients wishing they had met me sooner! Attentive, caring, affectionate and naturally curious-- I'm an excellent surrogate girlfriend and offer an experience that's as close to an organic relationship as possible without actually being one. All the fun, closeness and experience of a casual relationship without the inevitable changing expectations and evolution you can typically expect from a "real" relationship.. The only thing you'll have to worry about is becoming addicted to me. ;) Fees: Fees are by the hour and are decided on a case by case/negotiable. Contact Info: [email protected] In case you missed it, my previous ad can be found here; http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=257952 (Nov. 15) https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=258184 (Nov. 21) http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=806240#post806240 (Nov. 26) Blog: https://miss-s-xo.tumblr.com

Which is exactly why I do it. I, personally, find nothing less attractive than a guy who uses me solely for my body parts and becomes paranoid at the thought of being seen having coffee with a woman like me, (as if I have hooker tattooed across my forehead). I get that some guys are just using us for sex and little else, but if they can't even pretend that they want to treat us like the 'real' women they'd like to be seen with, I can't be bothered pretending I want to spend time with them.. I really don't need to be degraded so some dude can feel more secure fucking around.

When it comes to sexual assault and consent violations- explaining why I would not be discussing anything further with those with such an attitude was simply an explanation.. I find such views disgusting and it's within my rights to remove myself from dealing with persons who hold such views. There was no need to pick at me for such- if you took such personally, maybe that's something you should reflect upon as my comments weren't directed at you, just those who take advantage of Sex Workers "because they can".

I don't need coffee, but morning fun without food makes me super cranky.. As a tiny person who can never seem to gain enough weight, I need the food for the energy, lol. ;)

You were the one saying "she was asking for it", no? That sort of attitude isn't worth a discussion, no matter how justified you think you are.. These women aren't just holes for you to fill, they're actual people.

It's really not so much about the woman "being pleased" as it is clients trying to get more services than they're paying for (you're paying for a massage afterall, not the intimacy of a GFE companion).. We really don't get into Sex Work solely so guys can try to give us orgasms you know, lol.

Happy December Lovelies!! While I was hoping to be mostly caught up this weekend and was so looking forward to finishing the rearranging of my little pleasure pad and enjoying some time with some very lovely (& super fun) Gents this upcoming week.. I instead had the misfortune of being totally benched by some sneaky cold/flu virus that somehow made it's way through all of my preventative measures and defenses. :frown: But- I am already starting to feel better.. and will be contacting anyone I had to cancel on as soon as I'm completely over it and healthy again, though that probably won't be until later this upcoming week. Please note that I won't be booking Dates with new clients until those I had to cancel with have had a chance to rebook. Looking for information on services or how to book a date with me? Check out some of my most recent ads! They have all the information you need. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=257952 (Nov. 15) https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=258184 (Nov. 21) http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=258377 (Nov. 26) New Blog Info~ I couldn't get into my old blog, though I did manage to make a new one; https://miss-s-xo.tumblr.com (there's not much to it yet, mind you.) CONTACT: [email protected] SOCIAL MEDIA: Vanilla Twitter: @RationalRose_xo Kinky Twitter:: @OttawaCunt

Someone can totally correct me if I'm wrong, but-- I'm pretty sure that's not your typical massage service and is something you'll probably have to look to an escort or fetish provider for.

"not just something to rush through before work" was really all I meant. A lot of guys don't like being rushed through a date, makes them feel like we're only doing it for the money, and I'm just not a fan of being rushed through a date either. Personally, it makes me feel kinda whoreish (& while I don't mind being one, I'm not so much into spending time with people who make me feel like one.. well, in a bad way anyways, lol.) ;) Those are obviously just my personal feelings and preferences though- and I'm not claiming or assuming other Companions/Sex Workers share my thoughts or feelings on such, I only 100% know my own feelings and what's best for me.

There are several places for breakfast here, many open early during the week.. Capital Diner, Eddy's, The Scone Witch, Jacks, Wilf & Adas, Elgin St Diner, Gina's Cafe, Bread and Sons, Coras and Bramasole Diner.. just to name a few off the top of my head. Honestly though, I was thinking of breakfast/morning dates like an actual date.. not just something to rush through before work.

If this bothers you, I suggest looking for ladies in places that are a higher quality platform where there are higher quality clients- there you are far more likely to find happier & more honest advertisers. Someone wise once told me; If you wrestle with a turd, you get covered in shit.

For those I've yet to meet, (and those I have)-- Over the next couple of months I'll be offering Breakfast Dates as an Introductory Date & Social Date option, as well Morning Companion Dates for those I've already met. (If they go well, they'll be here to stay!) Breakfast Introductory/Social Date - $50 (Available by appointment, Monday to Friday from 7:30am-10:30am) I do prefer places I don't have to spend a lot of time on the bus to get to, especially if it's early and it's the first time we're meeting.. Places within Chinatown, Centretown & parts of the Glebe are all (currently) quite easy for me to get to. COMPANION FEES: Are decided on a case by case basis. (Contact me with information regarding your requested date, duration and type of booking for fees.) Please Note: Estimates can be difficult to give without having met you and do not guarantee compatibility, or a booking, before we have met and/or a booking has been confirmed by myself. CONTACT INFO: Aside from contacting me via DM online, you can contact me via email: [email protected] I do not currently have a # that I can publicly publish & a contact number is only available to those I have ongoing arrangements with. Requests for my # from those I haven't met will be ignored. SOCIAL MEDIA: Vanilla Twitter: @RationalRose_xo, Kinky Twitter: @OttawaCunt Tumblr: Returning Soon! In case you missed it, my previous ads can be found here; http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=257952 (Nov. 15) https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=258184 (Nov. 21)

Though I currently have options for lunch, dinner and post-dinner dates, the idea of getting together for breakfast totally slipped my mind! My Question: Would those who are up in the morning like the option of being able to get together for breakfast or even just coffee? If you have anything to add, (to the idea of early/breakfast dates) please feel free to do so. ;)

You'd figure if they were simply expecting women to take the risk of getting HIV and being unable to work- they would actually offer more money for such a taboo service, but as I've experienced (& heard from other girls) the more common 'unprotected-sex-requester' is likely to actually offer less than our rates.. Such leads me to believe that they're not so much 'just' looking for unsafe services as they are looking for desperate women they can take advantage of, which is probably why most ladies instantly block and report those asking for this.

LOLOLOLOL! :lol: I wish!! In April I'll have been on Lyla for 10 years, which is also as long as I've been Independent, and I still get asked for it.. sometimes by guys I've already chewed out for asking. You can usually set up spam filters in email and on smartphones to catch phrases like "bbfs"/"no condom" and that can help you ignore the majority of them though.

It might just be me, but I've always found it impossible to consider such a service/activity with someone I've never even met. I don't think it's so much a 'heat of the moment' thing as it is a 'some people's bits are more appealing' thing, lol.. I don't know how men decide what bits they'll put their mouths on, but (for me) hygiene is only one of a few different things that help me decide such.

Warm Up with a Fun Winter Friend! Whether you need practice, a confidence boost or coaching on talking to women, being in a casual relationship or attracting and appealing to women, you can expect to have fun and gain good company (and information) in a friendly and helpful setting. I love life, animals, people and am an overly empathetic woman who cares deeply and is easily influenced by the feelings of those around me, which is one of the many reasons I like making sure those in my company are relaxed and happy.. I care deeply about those in my life, no matter how temporary they may be in it. I think one of the best parts of having a Girlfriend is the honesty. When she compliments you, you know she means it and when you're being a jerk, she let's you know it rather than letting you make an ass of yourself. ;) We all have different needs, wants and desires- But I think the need and desire for attention, affection and human companionship is universal and we all need human contact to be healthy humans who are content within our daily lives. Even with my love of people & my very big heart, I'm not very well suited to serious, monogamous relationships at this point in my life and am much better at (and happier and healthier in) the professional, more casual and mutually beneficial relationships Sex Work allows me to have. As a Surrogate Girlfriend, I get to offer the genuine caring, comfortable & convivial closeness one should receive from a Girlfriend, without the pressures of jealousy and changing expectations.. (Yes, I'll always expect a certain amount of respect- but no, I'll never expect to be the only woman in your life or want our relationship to progress beyond what has already been defined & agreed upon.) RATES & FEES: Fees (outside of Introduction/Social Fees) will be decided on a case-by-case basis. Depending on legth of desired date, screening methods used, etc, a brief Introductory Date may be required prior to booking a longer or more private date. This meeting usually takes place in public, (such as a local cafe or pub) & stays under 45 min. Introductory Date - $40 Wanna make it a bit more fun?* Lunch Date - $50 Dinner or Drinks & Nibbles Date - $60 *You treat me & I treat you! Getting to know someone over a meal is one of my favourite things to do and if you're happy to pay for my meal, I'm more than happy to charge less for my time. While I understand those meeting me for lunch aren't always able to spend an entire hour on a meal, I do typically require at least an hour for dinner. AVAILABILITY: Monday - Saturday I'm only available for 'same-day' with those who have arrangements with me. I find same-day requests, from those who do not have arrangements with me, irritating and they will be ignored. LOCATION: I'm currently located in between Centretown & Chinatown, but have no difficulty making it around Chinatown, Centretown/Downtown, the Glebe, the Market & Old Ottawa South. Depending on destination, travel/travel expenses may be required. CONTACT INFO: Aside from contacting me via DM online, you can contact me via email: [email protected] Please Note: I do not currently have a # that I can publicly publish & a contact number is only available to those I have ongoing arrangements with. Requests for my # from those I haven't met will be ignored. SOCIAL MEDIA: Vanilla Twitter: @RationalRose_xo Kinky Twitter: @OttawaCunt Tumblr: Returning Soon! In case you missed it, my previous ad can be found here; http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=257952

I'm not your average Sex Worker. My 30 years on this planet hasn't been average, or always the easiest. Though it has given me an appreciation of the beauty and love there is in life, a knack for understanding different perspectives and a very big, but realistic, heart. I care little about the things that divide people like religion, race, class, politics, looks.. But I do care deeply about animals, nature, life, art and even people. People I know, people I've never met, people who are hurting, those who are alone and those who are weak or vulnerable. My empathy even extends to people I don't really care for.. I still relate to their experiences of love, pain & loss as human beings. I tend to be overly mirroring- which I've been told is not so nice for some people, but I don't do it intentionally and am trying to be more mindful of such. Though this does mean that if your attitude towards me is abnormally short and totally self-interested, I'm likely to come off the same without even realizing it. Aside from my unconscious effort to seem more like the people I'm communicating with, I'm much more comfortable, relaxed, adaptable and content when I get to be my genuine self. Whether you need a confidence boost, help talking to women, practice being in a casual relationship or just some company, attention and affection, some time with me could be just what you're looking for! ;) RATES: Surrogate Girlfriend Services (Casual Companion Services): For the time being, I'm not keeping much in the way of set rates & they will instead be decided, by myself, on a case-by-case basis. Depending on legth of desired date, screening methods used, etc, a brief Introductory Date may be required prior to booking. This meeting typically takes place in public, such as a local cafe or pub and usually stays under 45 minutes. Introductory Date - $40 Wanna make it a bit more fun? Lunch Date - $50* Dinner/Drinks & Nibbles Date - $60* *You treat me and I treat you! Getting to know someone over a meal is one of my favourite things to do and if you're happy to pay for my meal, I'm more than happy to charge less for my time. AVAILABILITY: Monday - Saturday. LOCATION: I'm currently located in between Centretown & Chinatown, but have no difficulty making it around Chinatown, Centretown/Downtown, the Glebe, the Market & Old Ottawa South. (Locations beyond Westgate Shopping Centre, Carleton University and the Rideau River may require transportation/transportation costs to be covered by the client.) CONTACT INFO: Aside from contactin me via DM online, you can contact me via email: [email protected] Please Note: I don't have a work number that can be shared publicly at this point in time. Currently, a contact number is only available to regular clients and those I have ongoing arrangements with. Requests for my number/me to call you without you being one of these will be ignored. SOCIAL MEDIA: Twitter: @RationalRose_xo Blog: Returning Soon!