shypilot

It's obvious you are truly missed by all who know you my dear friend. I can not even attempt to verbalize how I feel other than to simply say you are and will always be my smile.

Hello Cat, mrniceguy is right both are actually hosted by the same organization and implies that their server is not responding in a timely manner. This is not an uncommon response from Rogers and Yahoo. There are many possible reasons so any reason would simply be a guess. I believe you will notice that the message dissapears after a week or so once they figure it out. It does not mean that your messages were not delivered. Hope that helps.

Ok guys I know Cat has a thread on this and I found her position was well made concerning cancellations. But it clearly appears to have fallen on deaf ears. I was very fortunate to spend time with Emma today who is visiting from Halifax. She is an incredable lady and I found out how many cancelations she has had since Friday and frankly I was very suprised, considering the expese she has had to deal with in simply getting here. I understand that things happen but let's face it gentlemen we asked her to come back. We made bookings with her when she announced she was comming which was the basis for her decision to book the flight, room and the list of expenses that she must deal with. I think Catherine put it best and I am reffering to the guys that are and do cancel, "PULL YOUR HEADS OUT OF YOUR COLLECTIVE ASSES" the ladies deserve our respect and genuine consideration. I for one will not even book with a visiting lady unless I have made sure I am going to make it. If for what ever reason I have to cancel I make arrangements to give her at least half of what I had comitted to. I do not have a lot of disposable income but I do this out of genuine appreciation and respct for what these ladies go through. I appologize for the rant but I truly feel this needs to be kept up front until we have got the message which appears not to be the case.

I am not prone to posting many recommendations but I had to in this case. I had the wonderful opportunity to spend time with Emma today and it was fantastic and without a doubt I will be repeating. I can say that Emma just blew me away. She instantly put me at ease and has a wonderful sensual and sexy presence that is irrestable. It was simply one of the best experiences I have ever had. I know this sounds over the top but what can I say she is amazing. Do your self a favor and catch this jem before she is gone I think she is only here for the week. I know I am booking again before she is gone.

I am not prone to posting many recommendations but I had to in this case. I had the wonderful opportunity to spend time with Emma today and it was fantastic and without a doubt I will be repeating. I can say that Emma just blew me away. She instantly put me at ease and has a wonderful sensual and sexy presence that is irrestable. It was simply one of the best experiences I have ever had. I know this sounds over the top but what can I say she is amazing. Do your self a favor and catch this jem before she is gone I think she is only here for the week. I know I am booking again before she is gone.

Cat, Ottawa is a darker and a much more lonely place with out you. You have brightened the lives of so many especially me. You are truly missed when you are not here.

I have said this before and as far as I am concerned Catherine is the best I absolutely adore this woman in every respect. I won't bother repeating what everyone on here already knows but her new place is wonderful an escape to paradise! 10s all around and if I had my choice her score would be 20s all around.....

Well My Dear, If it is this weekend I offer this warm body and you have seen my ride. Not fancy but plenty to hold on to.

I believe you may get some understanding from board members but I agree little sympathy would likely be offered. LOL

That is it exactly, being lost in the moment where nothing else matters but the person you are with. A hug is just what seals the moment.

Nicely put Catherine, it is too easy to look at what you do as just another business and you are so right. I am willing to bet not too many of us on here would be willing to put ourselves in your position my self included. We do need to be reminded about the cost of doing business goes well beyond the monetary. I personally believe it is always important to let the sp know how much I appreciate their efforts and in truth that applies to any person I deal with. It does make a difference.

Well jughead it may not have been what you were hoping for but it is definitely a step in the right direction and it appears that you did impress the boss so congratulations that is not an easy thing to achieve. Cat is right about the fact that it is an opportunity to see where you could improve and apply it in the work environment. Remember it is never over but simply the conduit to seeing other opportunities and knowing when to grab it. Believe me they will present themselves you just have to keep your eyes open and be willing to see them.

Pete is absolutely right on hygiene. What a turn off for the SP and if you look at it the other way around I am not likely to stay and definitely not likely to comeback if the SP does not really care about her appearance. I may be old school but I believe it is important that as a client remembering to be a gentleman and showing the lady respect goes a long way to starting things off on the right foot. Conversely if I am greeted by a woman that shows no concern for the language she is using on the initial meet or is in a rush the effect can be very negative.

I was just thinking the same thing. A little structure to start things off would probably get this moving very well.

I have to jump in and say it is the only way to conclude a great session, take the time to relive the moment and appreciate the lady you are with. Catherine you are sooo right.

I agree with you fully Dummpy, it is a private matter between him and his SP and is inappropriate to ask more than he has offered here. The SP's I have met in my limited experience have always been open to discuss anything and have always provided an honest and straight forward answer. Not always what we want to hear maybe but a straight answer none the less.

That is all to true antlerman, this has been one of the best threads I have read hear. Anonymity provides us the ability to say what is actually on our minds and hearts. Men in general are a very funny breed when it comes to reveling our feelings to each other, it simply is not done. It would be a very funny thing to watch indeed if you did try to start this kind of conversation in a bar.

This is one of the most interesting threads I have read in a while and it begs the question of what is love. Having bin married for many years the similarities in how one feels is not that different. I can say with all honesty that I could easily marry a certain SP if she said yes and I have no reservations about it. She has provided me with friendship, caring, intimacy, emotional support and more. I was married for 20 years and I loved my wife with everything I had. The feelings I have for this SP are equally intense if not more so. But in the end you still have to maintain your perspective, this is a business for her and although it is possible the feelings can be mutual it seams to me you have to figure how strong you are to handle what she does for a living. Believe me I have no illusions about how she feels and in the end I have a friend for life. How different are these feelings from the feelings you may have with your spouse when you think about it. I am no longer with the woman I married but I still love her and cherish her friendship. If you think about it and if you have fallen in love with an SP, part of what you feel is associated with the person that she is and what she does. If she was to stop working, especially if she enjoys her work you are forcing a change I suspect you would not be too happy with. So in the end what I am trying to say is if you are fortunate enough to have met an SP that you can and have become emotionally attached to cherish the time together, enjoy the friendship that you have and if you are fortunate enough that friendship will last but don't expect it to be more and you will find that is quite a lot on its own. Loosing a friend; a very close friend hurts whether you are married to them or not, that won't change but keeping things in perspective does help. Heed the advice others have offered on this thread, it is all valid.

When your right your right!

These gentleman are all correct, your safety should always be first and foremost on your mind. If the guy is unwilling to be upfront with you then simply tell him to move on he is not likely serious about getting together. He is certainly not showing you the respect you deserve.

I think that would do well mod and your point is well taken. I have based my decisions on first getting to know the long time users here and the SP's and like you said these are the ones to pay attention to. There are certainly good indicators as to when a post could be a shill or not and with the added effort on your part to identify and remove these posts should help a lot. Thanks for effort

Well said to all, I am still quite new to all this and I have found this thread very informative. I agree completely with what mod is saying, I work in technology and even thought the internet has been around for 14 years in its current incarnation the one thing that stands out is that many many people, legit or otherwise consider this the environment to make a quick buck. Lets face if for a relatively small amount of money you can make yourself look like a full corporation and be completely anonymous. For many this is an invitation to cheat and rip people off, be it in this industry or any other. This board from my experience so far provides an invaluable resource to both hobbiest and SP's. It provides a safe environment where we can let each other know what is going on. As far as what has been happening with the bait and switch and shills when identified I feel it is very appropriate to let members know. From the hobbiest's side we know not to use them as dummpy said there are plenty of legitimate and beautiful ladies around. For SP's thinking of working with an agency it helps them avoid what could be a very unpleasant situation. Again well said to all, maybe we should have a section to cover all of these types of situations, shills, bait and switch etc...

Now that's the ticket, leave it to you dummpy to come up with the perfect plan.

Happy Canada Day to all and yes it is a wonderful city.

I tend to agree with most of what you are saying dummpy, but having been on both sides of the track more than once, I do differ with you on the issue of social assistance, wages and working a bit. In my life I have been blessed with the ability to drag myself out of some very deep holes. But many people are not so fortunate and truthfully the last time I went down that hole I almost did not make it out. I was on social assistance for a while and it was the most demoralizing and degrading experience I have had to date. Whats worse is once you are in that position the system (contrary to general statements of our politicians) makes it dam near impossible to get back out on your own. I am definitely not advocating a welfare state the problem is that the system is seriously broken. In the end there is no simple magic pill that will fix all inequities but a helping hand can change a life and sometimes a world, I just ask that you keep that in mind that's all. I compleatly agree with your sentiment that we make our own lot in life, and I know you probably can understand whrere I am coming from having made and lost careers and fortunes yourself. It is simply not all of us are even given a choice, like the children in cars with smokers as a small example. Sorry but I guess I needed to rant back a little.