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Nah, she was a university student who just needed a few extra bucks and wanted to experiment sexually...but not be a full fledged 'escort'. Wasn't into owning a cell phone and by the end of it, I was her only client. And she did some research into what the going rate was and intentionally set her price lower since she didn't deem herself to be a pro. $150/hr and I was her taxi to boot, so it's not like she was making less than many other girls on CL. No overhead, no agency fees or drivers...she did alright. On top of that there were times when she wasn't getting laid in between visits with me, so she'd be anticipating it just as much. Good times ;)

This is like the 3rd time someone has posted this story http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=18971

There have always been girls looking for cash through the Casual Encounters section, but there's a contingent of people there that religiously flag the ads so they rarely stay up very long. I hooked up with one girl from there about a year ago...said she didn't want to post in the erotic services section because she only had a residential line that was shared by 5 other people and erotic services uses phone verification. Most inexpensive sp I've ever been with, she was sexy/cute and the sex was amazing. Haven't tried going back ever since because the chances of that happening again are near zero! ;)

Not appreciating what you have is worse because you're not returning the sentiment (and perhaps vice-versa). When you turn down a relationship, you only think about the good that could have been, but it's all about the unknown. You have no idea what the warts and sores are like until you've experienced it. Unrequited love or passion lives more in a fantasy world where everything is perfect.

I do remember the anticipation I had leading up to getting that first BJ from my ex...oooo, a tongue ring, this is gonna be sweet! And any guy I'd ever talk to about it would say they always wanted to have their dick sucked by a girl with a tongue ring. It's on the same level as getting a beautiful girl in bed and discovering that she's not that great in the sack. I'm still not going to say no to either though....

There are a few, but can't think of one off the top of my head now. Based on my experience though, it doesn't make a difference. I was married to a girl with one and I could never tell. Granted, she couldn't give a blow job to save her life, but any other girl I've been with has been the same. If a girl gives good head, that's all that matters!

I love this but most often, if I'm not either telling her to wrap her legs around me or nudging her to do so, it doesn't happen naturally. Just do it ladies! ;)

Maybe for the media, prostitution is the new swine flu ;) At least for a moment anyways...

Well there you go...make sure you avoid bathrooms at all costs. Only bad things can happen there! Swine flu has changed how I do things drastically. I will no longer touch anyone or anything, leave the house, or give BBBJ's unless the individual presents the a 'swine flu free' card. Hey...don't be surprised by that last part, this hobby is expensive, I have to supplement my income somehow!

Unless she was tying both my shoes together so I couldn't walk properly, I would perceive that as, "Hurry up and get the fuck out!" ;)

CL was the big name mentioned, but I wouldn't be surprised if they were looking elsewhere online for info too. Not that I'm worried, but just saying...

Good lord man, how could you?! ;)

Actually, this got mentioned yesterday in the General Discussion area: Belle de Jour Reveals Herself

There was this bit at the bottom: "The Dyson Airblade folks are unhappy, saying the University of Westminster's methodology was faulty and noting that this was paid for by the paper towel industry." Not that any of it matters, this still could fall under urban legend, and definitely does not fit under SP Advertisements. There is another section for General Discussion here...no offense Tracie, just pointing that out ;)

No relation to Carrie Moon, but I believe Amber Moon has done some porn as well and allows filming for an extra fee. Not sure if she's still working though?

That might be a topic that deserves its own thread!

The writer of the article illustrated a prevailing mentality of ignorance that no doubt is common amongst most people: "I was convinced she was a man ? some sad-loser perv, writing titillation for other sad-loser pervs, in the guise of that great male fantasy, the prostitute who enjoys her work." I'm not saying it's a fault, just the reality of not truly understanding an issue with well-formed bias from years of conditioning. So the more Belle du Jours that keep popping up in mainstream media, the better it will keep getting for changing public perception. Great article WIT, thanks for posting...

For me, how a girl looks is almost irrelevant. Physical attraction is so subjective and your appearance is something that can't be changed...makeup and clothing only do so much. Besides, I have already made my decision whether or not there is a physical attraction based on pictures seen before. Granted, everyone loves a pretty face and that's not always shown, but that has rarely been an issue. It's all about chemistry and me getting the feeling that this person wants to be there and enjoys what she does. The chemistry may not always be there, but I am usually very relaxed and easy going and I think that most people can get along with each other if there is a mutual attempt to be courteous and afford respect to the other person. So if there's one thing that makes the difference and can be a learned response, it's appearing happy to be there. No doubt it can be hard at times depending on your mood, but if that feeling isn't really there, pretending it is might lighten the mood for the client and sp. And it works both ways... A hug and/or a kiss upon opening the door is usually a good way to warm things up immediately, but I personally never do this, even a lot of the times I repeat. It feels weird to me to initiate a hug with someone I've never met - it's too immediately intimate. Not a touchy-feely kinda guy. But if the girl initiates, it's a nice gesture and a pleasant start. Generally speaking though, if a girl seems disinterested and not trying, it's a huge turn-off. You're not going to get along with everybody, but I've noticed that the best and most popular girls have a reputation of making whoever they are with comfortable that they're always trying their best. Consummate professionals...

So what do you say if he says ok to your first answer? ;)

Oooh, I love the soaked beard smell after...it's like sniffing panties with every snort you take. Not that I sniff panties, that's just depraved ;) Too bad I can't be a kid again and not wash for days after. Can't have my colleagues telling me I reek of snatch...

I think you need to work on your soft skills....

I have a beard and it has never been a problem. Well maybe one time - with a sp that I had seen 10 times before, was comfortable being honest, and she just said that it was a bit prickly that day when kissing. DATY has always been well received also because I use my tongue, not my chin or upper lip ;)

Doesn't hurt to ask, just be polite and she can only say no. However, there may be a few out there that would be ok with it if they knew you wanted it beforehand...but they might want to prepare first before seeing you.

I am the world's greatest psychic. Actually no, you told me that was your favourite, I just have a good memory for that type of thing. And no I will not do your laundry, especially after telling us all how much fucking you've been up to...that's gotta be a lot of spunk to clean up... Posted via Mobile Device

I'd shag all 3 of them at once in an all male orgy, then kill Lenin and Stalin, leaving Trotsky behind to tell everybody about it. Marriage is out of the question though since I'm not gay... Posted via Mobile Device