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Might want to post your story with details in the Warnings section so that it doesn't happen to someone else. But only if you were deliberately swindled, not just short changed on service because that can be construed as a matter of perception. Other than that, not much else you can do...money's gone, chalk it up to a bad experience and forget about it.

No insinuation taken...it's all good ;)

I'm fairly comfortable with my own self, very much more than I used to be. Age/wisdom/experience has contributed to that. Still need to hit the gym though, more for feeling healthy and having more stamina...if a little shaping comes out of it, all the better! And back to the topic at hand - sorry - don't think I ever managed to get 3 off. Maybe once, can't say for sure. Generally I don't like to do more than 1 in a 1 hour session, because I like to be somewhat cordial to the ladies. But I can and have in certain cases. Anything over 90 mins, it's typical for me to get 2 off no problem. But it is all about quality over quantity...one good one beats 3 quickies and it's so much better to savour everything...

Definitely have to say the poly thing is extremely intriguing as I have always been a voyeur. But as much as we all share a same open interest here and people are not complete strangers, there's still that trepidation of exposing myself to another man that I'm not 100% familiar with. Put me in a room full of women I've never met, I'll be down to the old b-day suit in no time, but other dudes brings out that...competitive spirit in me. And since I'm a voyeur, that means somebody else might be too so it's intimidating to think that maybe I got a dude watching me do my thing. So...love to be a voyeur, not so sure about the voyee. Someday perhaps I'll join the poly group...after I hit the gym ;)

They're back? Sorry to say it, but they never left...they post multiple times a day.

Here's a perfect example of making a point where people will read it and understand. Brevity is our friend!

You neglect to admit that you in fact did say, "some rapes are worse than others" which is the point being disputed. My interpretation of that statement at the time wasn't so much that you were comparing rape scenarios, but equating one event that was rape to one that was not. The example of the woman walking into a motel room and sticking her tits in your face while you wish to remain faithful, but get aroused and do her anyways, was not something I think you perceived as rape (nor do I). That's human weakness. The example wasn't something set up to be a situation that was against your will, it was more about a man lacking willpower. Erin took issue with the blanket statement you made about some rapes being worse than others, and rightly so. No different than killing somebody...whether or not it is cruel or humane, they're still dead. But like I said, you were referring to one situation that was not IMHO perceptibly rape. Unfortunately, you worded it like that and it stands on its own in black and white which draws attention to the statement itself. Well, that's how I see it anyways... This thread has caused nothing but trouble.

Hell no! I have a hard enough time getting off with a BBBJ so CBJ is not something I'm fond of. Only if it's a CBJ 69. But if a girl doesn't do it, that's her prerogative, and I would never think anything less of that. BBFS is plain insane though. Yeah, there's risks with BBBJ, but there's risks with having sex with a condom, having sex with anyone under any circumstance really...

Anita, I think you're stuck on the idea of a man physically overpowering a woman, holding her down and raping her. But if a girl says no where the guy doesn't stop, yet she does nothing to stop him physically or verbally after saying no, is that not rape as well? He had sex with her against her wishes and with some people in that situation, their instincts are to freeze because they are scared and feel powerless. It may seem harmless enough, but any girl who has been in that situation will likely tell you otherwise. And the same thing can happen to a man if he is in a position where he is fearful of the outcome to reject a woman's advances. Of course it does not happen with anywhere near the same frequency as man vs woman, and the situation described in this case is not a case of rape. He had a choice and had sex with this woman. But with his diminished mental state/confidence, the ensuing debacle and grief that was caused by this woman, I can see how one can make that correlation that it was 'rape'...in the end, it's all how you perceive it, regardless if it's true or not.

I guess it's becoming commonly known and more in demand so, if a girl does it, she'll likely get more business from those not too fond of the informal CBJ. Now if they say BBFS, that's just a big avoid altogether.

Guess somebody must have flushed it down the toilet then ;)

They do not respond to text msgs or email, it's phone only. PK has been very explicit about this whenever they post here or on CL. Nor will they take blocked calls, so that option would be out for you as well. In all likelihood it's OK to call from your home phone, but it would probably be better for your own piece of mind just getting a pay-as-you-go hobby phone that has no affiliation to your name. If you get intrigued by someone else in the future that turns out to be sketchy and you use your home phone, there is the possibility that they could harass you. Very unlikely, but better to be safe than sorry. Being cautious is never a bad thing and a hobby phone is a small expense in the big picture. Not something that you would have to worry about from PK though ;)

I think people get too up in arms about their employers monitoring what they do and to the breadth that they do it. If you have internet access, email account and/or cell phone that is being paid for by them and is to be used for work purposes, of course it is within their rights to look into that. If I had a buddy that called escorts on the work phone and arranged meets through the company email and did research about it through the employer's internet, I'd probably give him a high 5 followed by a reminder that he was wacked for doing that. If he worked for me, I'd fire his ass for wasting my money. Because I could be spending that on SP's instead... This was a funny story though, Angela...but DND did take it a bit too far. Who knows, maybe some guy concocted some international conspiracy theory and thought you were a modern day Mata Hari? Ooooo, espionage/escort story, exciting! Why do I get the feeling that 5 mins after I post this, the RCMP will be at my door?? And if they come looking for you too, Angela...sorry! ;)

There is no insinuation about anything, it's merely caution. It's like walking up to a complete stranger and asking something personal - most people will not answer. When you get hostile and incredulous in that situation claiming that you're an 'ok guy', it doesn't help your case at all, it only makes it worse. And when you literally tell people that they're wrong, you will get nowhere. You really haven't done much to show that you can play in the sandbox by shitting on how others handle things and complaining about it all day. Where's the respect there? But whatever...bye....

Rates are not posted on here unless it is the ladies advertising for themselves. And if you're new, you will not be afforded the same respect as an established member...it's about respecting the ladies and giving them a friendly place to be instead of the other boards that exist where things can get nasty. Most of the guys here will try to protect the girls from any potential bad clients and do not take chances giving info to just anybody that asks, especially brand new posters...

It's not the norm, but it also depends on the question. If you ask a question that appears disrespectful, or something that could have been answered by doing a simple search on here, you may get some attitude.

You should definitely try that out and experience the client side of things. It is everything as you described, especially the first time, but that's part of the excitement. And fortunately you have learned much about how to avoid disappointment by participating in sites such as this ;) And don't forget to share your experience with everyone here after...please!

Being in a bad mood or having a bad day or having a bad life, that's no excuse for lack of courtesy. It's selfish is what it is. I've had many angry, miserable days and I don't even like people for the most part, but I'm still always polite and courteous. Do unto others and all that shit, you know? But it is vexing sometimes, especially when you are being nice and the same respect is not reciprocated. I went grocery shopping last night with my son, he's in the cart and I have a about 30 items in there to unload as I pulled into the lineup. Then this cute young thing shows up at the cash with just a pineapple in her hand and instead of standing behind me, she positions herself next to me in way that was suggesting to me that I should let her go ahead. Maybe she wasn't, who knows, but I don't kiss anybody's ass just because they are good looking, and I was getting that vibe from her since she probably always gets what she wants. Comes to my turn to start loading stuff on the conveyor and I say fuck it, she's just got a pineapple, let her go ahead. So I smile and wave her in front of me and she smiles back with a thankful nod. She places the pineapple on the belt at the end (guess it was really heavy) and needs to wait for the preceding person's groceries to get scanned through. So what does she do but stand at the back end of the conveyor going through her purse the whole time while the whole other load is scanned and her pineapple is the only fucking thing on the belt right at the very front. I'm standing behind her with a young boy who wants to get the fuck out of the cart and me wanting to load all that shit to move things along quicker...but she's totally oblivious to all this and just stands there like a wax statue and matching IQ. So I think what happens a lot of the time is that nice people get drawn over to the dark side after having to deal with inconsiderate assholes all too often. My gut reaction with this situation was, "That's the last time I let somebody in line!" But I won't change, I'll still be polite and considerate. If I never got rewarded for it though, might just become jaded and say fuck it, no point anymore is there?

I think this is the best way to go. Subtle and little potential for insult. Other than that, go with your instincts.

I found it entertaining and somewhat true to what limited knowledge I have or could imagine it would be like, but I thought that the main character Belle should have been a little more emotionally engaging with her clients. She wasn't cold, but she was a bit dull with them for the most part. Of course there's enough SP's I have been with that were just there in body only, but I wouldn't see them again. And they weren't charging what she was charging! Maybe that's what they were trying to go for or how the author really was when she was working, however it would be nice to see a portrayal of that life where the girl had a more interesting personality and showed more depth. It would be easy for someone who had no idea about that world to get the impression that the only outcome is a jaded personality. I still liked it though...didn't know there was a 3rd season, guess I'll have to look for that now ;)

Aw Emma, I think you should just ignore whatever comments were made that you found upsetting. We're having a vote and unlike a regular private vote, some people are publicly championing who they think should win and it might sound negative against someone else. I don't think that's the case here and even if it were, majority rules and that majority so far has said that you are the best choice for the award. To be perfectly honest, PistolPete and YoungStud (but not the dood!) were of 2 of 4 posters I selected, and you were not...but if you were to win, I would think that's awesome and you are fully deserving of it. There's a lot of people on that list that deserve it, but you've been an amazing contributor to this board and if you end up getting all the extra bling to show for it, kudos to you. Without posters like you, CERB would be a dull place to be and would likely dry up and die. Stay in the race sweetie!

Just makes me wonder if you don't show up with a condom will she have any? Or if I bring 4 is everything free now? And what would happen if I showed up with the industrial sized box from CostCo?

I mean like, come on wtf is this? http://tinyurl.com/mb66pv CL is a treasure trove of humour sometimes, you have to give it that ;)

That story made my dick hurt from getting an instant boner under my laptop...awesome...

It's bullshit, that's what the big deal is. If you paid for 2 hours and she spent a half hour on the phone talking to other clients to book other dates, that would be unprofessional. There's no difference here. It has nothing to do with it being a fantasy.