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I remember having a copy of that on VHS back in the '80's, watched it many times. That movie is so old, Kim Cattrall was sweet and innocent in it...how things have changed...

Just like the lottery...everyone knows someone who knows someone who knows someone that apparently won ;) Didn't realize she was that small ;)

As I'm reading this, I just won a coffee...so I've won 2 coffees so far out of 10 cups. Odds are 1 in 9 so I'm doing well this time! I heard through the grapevine that a person that works in the same place as someone else I know rolled up a $10K cup last week I think. An XL that someone else bought for them ;) Posted via Mobile Device

I'm of the same mindset. I always go out of my way to be respectful and entertaining, and generally go for 90 min or 2hr visits when first meeting someone to ensure that a personal connection is made. Quite often more than half the visit is get-to-know-you chit-chat, where anything sexual is not discussed unless it comes up as part of the conversation. I need that to happen to enhance the experience, and it's obvious that real personal intimacy is very much appreciated, probably even more so than simply handing over an extra brown bill. If I had the means, maybe it would be different...but I don't.

I would agree that a rewording may help with clarifying purpose, but unfortunately I also agree with Caveman's experience with people ignoring instructions! "Let's see, it says type in 'YES' or 'NO'. Hmmm, I'll put 'THURSDAY'." Thankfully that's the minority....right???

I am seeing problems with the rep system already. My preference would be that you can only get positive rep and whether or not it's hidden wouldn't matter. Kinda sticks with the principle of the board in the first place - no negative reviews, only recommendations. If I disapprove with what somebody says, I'll either make a counter point in the thread or just ignore it altogether. Seems reasonable to me. The way it is now, I've seen someone go back to a week old thread that hadn't been bumped, gave me a disapproval for a simple difference of opinion on a subject that had nothing to do with the industry, and then not a day later complained about people doing the same to him. I could be a dick and go back to counter disapprove, but that's pretty infantile ;) I won't poo-poo the concept as a whole, but by the time someone new figures out what those 'power' bars are next to their name, they'll probably have read enough posts to realize whose opinion is worth a lick of salt anyhow. The vast majority of regular posters continually have some fantastic input, and there's only the odd few I don't care much for what they have to say, so I pay them no mind. And having a billion rep points won't change that either...

Makes me uneasy as well. When it's brought up and the SP says that their SO knows and is OK with it, it doesn't bother me so much. And then there's the girls here with multiple SO's in their personal life...I don't know why but that makes it totally OK for me ;) But I have come across a few instances where a SP mentions that they are imminently leaving the biz because they have met someone and don't feel comfortable doing this as a result. That's when I get a feeling I'm doing something wrong all of a sudden.

Tips are generally not expected by the real pros, but always appreciated. I think it's bad form for a girl to demand a tip, although in some places, there's a rate for the girl to show up and if you want anything other than just her being there, there's an extra 'fee'. As for how much, that's up to you. I think $50 for an hour would be a nice gesture, more if you're happy with the service and have the means.

My favourite from Dr. Strangelove: "Gentlemen, you can't fight in here! This is the War Room!" And these from the a time before most of us were born need to be here...they manage to be so suggestive in a time when you weren't allowed to be vulgar: "You know how to whistle, don't you, Steve? You just put your lips together and...blow." "Is that a pistol in your pocket, or are you just glad to see me?"

I've only had 1 undesirable exp and 2 that were hindered by language barriers. I don't have girls turning me down so I'm assuming I'm not in the bad date section. Good enough for me. I generally have a smile when they leave and so do they. That's the only recommendation I need. And something else that is telling: much like the silence when there is no review for a girl, haven't seen any of them give their opinion on this idea yet... Posted via Mobile Device

The girls have their private section with a bad date list and I am of the opinion that's the way it should stay. There's a few scenarios I can think of where this could become a problem in one way or another. Like if a guy doesn't get a review from a girl that he thought had a good time with him, maybe he would feel slighted. Might even go so far as to bring it up to her the next time he sees her and then she feels obligated to write a "review" for him and everybody else out there. And there could be a lot of reasons why a sp wouldn't write a review like, they just don't have the time because they've had 8 or 9 clients from the board in a given week. I don't think too many guys here see 8 or 9 different girls a week and if there are those that do, they sure as hell don't have time to write reviews for every single one of them. Or perhaps the client was good only in the sense that he was respectful and left a tip. Just because he wasn't a bad date, doesn't mean he was a good one either. This is still a business and I'm sorry to be blunt here, but there's no doubt in my mind that some clients are only good because of the money they provide. Furthermore, this board also acts as a marketplace of sorts. The paying customers are here to find information and make comments about the service they have received. As in any other business, it makes no sense for the entrepreneurs providing said service to openly display favouritism towards specific customers, since that could possibly hurt their business with those they are not getting the same respect. My two cents...

So many great lines but I'll stick to sex references. Not quite one-liners either but what the hell... Pulp Fiction Now look, maybe your method of massage differs from mine, but, you know, touchin' his wife's feet, and stickin' your tongue in her Holiest of Holies, ain't the same fuckin' ballpark, it ain't the same league, it ain't even the same fuckin' sport Boogie Nights My fucking wife has an ass in her cock over in the driveway, alright? I'm sorry if my thoughts aren't with the photography of the film we're shooting tomorrow, OK? (he actually does say "ass in her cock"...don't know if that was a flubbed line they left in or not) Reservoir Dogs It hurts her. It shouldn't hurt her, you know, her pussy should be Bubble Yum by now, but when this cat fucks her it hurts. It hurts just like it did the first time. You see the pain is reminding a fuck machine what it once was like to be a virgin. Hence, 'Like a Virgin'.

Hey, anything new can be intimidating and take time to learn the ins and outs. Happens to the best of us, just point the newbies in the right direction and then it's all good. Like just the other day...I like to think I'm a pretty quick study with technical stuff and figure things out. I had a friend in the car asking me about the time on the stereo that still hadn't been updated to DST, and I said that just the other day I had tried to update it and couldn't figure out how...too lazy to pull out the car manual. She looks at it for a second and says, "what about this button here that says CLOCK?" Oh yeah...

Doubt you'll have any problems with getting volunteers for the male cast members... Don't forget to include Erin_xo, she's a zombie master.

I drive around town looking for BBBJ everywhere and can never find it. I've seen BCBJ, BBBB, BCBW, etc but have yet to see BBBJ anywhere. To clarify, I've got the service called BBBJ from lots of girls, but still have not found a licence plate that says that yet. Never would have had this problem if I didn't know what the acronym meant...now I have to check every fucking car on the road every day... And just the other day at work right before noon, a man and woman were walking by my office in conversation when the woman says, "We should do Greek for lunch." Hearing something like that should make me hungry, but instead my groin started to tingle. Starting to feel like a Costanza!

I have shared my endeavours with a few friends - male and female - that I knew would not judge or look upon it unfavourably. No problems there at all but like I said, I knew they would be cool. I've had some admissions of them doing the same, friendly jealousy that I had the cash/time to do it, and also curiosity into what it's like from an unknowing perspective. However, most people I would prefer not to know purely because of the negative stigma from an understandable ignorance. If it were family members, I could deal with it because I could explain it from my perspective and really, I only care so much what they think. My parents disapprove about most everything in general anyways, and I've learned to be apathetic to their closed mindedness. I think I'd be more concerned about all my friends knowing because I know that there will be a few here and there making jokes behind my back like the typical, "can't get laid without paying for it" bullshit. But again, it wouldn't impact how they feel about me as a person, so that would be tolerable as well. Now work....well, this is the govt town of Ottawa where too many people have a bug up their ass about anything off the beaten path. It might not affect me professionally if word got out because chatter like that can be dismissed as rumour, but it definitely would not help either. One thing I will say is that I wouldn't have a problem if someone I knew couldn't understand why I do this. I had my own preconceived notions about the industry based on ignorance before I got involved, so that would be grossly hypocritical of me to judge those that don't/won't/can't understand. And after reading Nikki's post, this topic makes me think that - while not on the same level - this is similar to someone coming out of the closet with being homosexual. You discover who your true friends are because it's you they care about, not how you live your life and whether or not they agree with it.

True enough! Jeez, I wouldn't know if I'd be glad my neighbour was concerned, or pissed that they were too paranoid!

I had to stop paying my bills and taxes because they were getting in the way... Seriously, I don't care much for 'stuff' and have the simple pleasures I want/need, so the hobby doesn't limit me elsewhere. However, I probably could be wiser and budget better so that I am more prepared for the future. Hmmm, I guess savings would be my answer then. But I look at this as a temporary period in my life as I would not partake in it if I were in a relationship, and decided to have fun/sow oats/be adventurous or whatever since the opportunity may not arise again.

I'm all for privacy measures and find some of the actions taken by some 'free' society govts to be a bit excessive however, people are just WAY too paranoid these days. You read the 2 paragraph snippets in the news about certain events and get appalled by the intrusion thinking that it's 1984. But most reporting about court cases are seriously biased and lacking a lot of the details. Sure there are a few things that happen which are truly scary, but those are the exception and generally do not hold up through appeal. By the time they get reversed, it's not titillating news anymore and you never hear about it. No doubt some examples can be cited where this is not the case, but you know what...shit happens. I think a lot of people spend too much time fretting about things that will never happen or ever impact their lives. To me it's the equivalent of praying to win the lottery every week. I've read about those lucky winners, but it's never happened to me or anyone I know...

Use this site for research, try and find someone that appears to be what you like physically and mentally, save your pennies and arrange for a visit long enough to have time to make a connection with. If you get the right girl and communicate that it's your first time doing this, most likely she will be the one that will set the tone and make you feel comfortable. These girls are true professionals and have an intuitive way of giving you what you want. Some girls are understandably a bit shy at first, since it's no different than any other situation where you're meeting someone for the first time. Others are very outgoing and make you feel at ease instantly. Take your time to figure out what's good for you, be respectful and all should be well...

Regarding the scenario that Ava presented, for me personally if I had met a SP socially before knowing she was a SP and contracted her services, I would rather she pointed that out if I didn't catch on myself. That's just me though, can't say every guy would want that. Something to laugh or chat about I guess... And for sure, if I saw a girl I frequented in public somewhere, given the right circumstances I would definitely say hi and stop to chat if that appeared to be cool. If I have been with a girl more than once, it's because there has been a rapport and to me it's no different than running into someone you work with that you like. Only when everything seems appropriate of course ;)

All that has been mentioned here is deplorable but sadly...not surprising. This is essentially a public forum where people are given a veil of anonymity and there will always be losers and douchebags hiding behind that to create shit for whatever purpose. And given the underlying intimate nature as the overall context of the board, some people get either emotionally retarded or petty and vengeful. For what it's worth, most of the regular posters I see here are intelligent and savvy enough to weed through the bullshit. The bad apples will keep popping out of the woodwork, but it doesn't take long to weed them out and get rid of them.

It takes a certain type to haggle, and in regards to this business it is downright classless. Personally, any discussion in regards to money at the beginning or during a visit, brings to mind that the experience is akin to an illusion and I do not want to go there. On the flipside, I had a recent encounter where I tried someone new and I booked for 90 mins. Damage was 300. She was sweet and I wanted to see her again so I contacted her directly, not knowing any other specifics about different durations and those rates. I said that I was looking for 2 hrs and that I didn't know how much that would be and threw 360 out there as an example so to speak. She responded back saying that she was OK with that and we met again, had a good connection and all was well. I tried arranging with her again a few days later and only wanted an hour this time. Sent her a message and asked how much an hour was without mentioning an amount this time. The response was 260. Based on history, that seemed a bit out of whack and I politely mentioned this to her, that I might as well do the 90 mins if that's what one hour will be. She comes back saying that she can go to 220. Right away, that made me feel very uncomfortable, I don't want to negotiate and that wasn't my intention. I respect these girls very much and quibbling over money does not give me a good feeling. Spoke to her on the phone to explain this and she was very sweet and understanding; said she likes to give breaks to regulars. But I stressed that having a static rate scale would avoid confusion and any scenarios like this. In the end, I wanted to prove a point and said how about 200 for the hr? She said sure thing, no problem, see you tomorrow. I hung up the phone after and had this horrible sensation in the pit of my gut...I really found doing that unsavoury. Now I was going to give her 220 anyways, but she contacted me about an hour before arrival and said she was running late...2 hrs later than we had arranged. I said that was too late, so we'll have to do it some other time. But all of that just shows that haggling fucks everything up and there's no need for it. Besides my initial confusion and disdain for negotiating, there's also the question that did I get pushed back because someone else was giving her more? Don't get me wrong, she was a sweet kid and I bear no animosity, but seeds of doubt like that will likely mean I will not go back. And I definitely will never negotiate again...

It takes a certain type to haggle, and in regards to this business it is downright classless. Personally, any discussion in regards to money at the beginning or during a visit, brings to mind that the experience is akin to an illusion and I do not want to go there. On the flipside, I had a recent encounter where I tried someone new and I booked for 90 mins. Damage was 300. She was sweet and I wanted to see her again so I contacted her directly, not knowing any other specifics about different durations and those rates. I said that I was looking for 2 hrs and that I didn't know how much that would be and threw 360 out there as an example so to speak. She responded back saying that she was OK with that and we met again, had a good connection and all was well. I tried arranging with her again a few days later and only wanted an hour this time. Sent her a message and asked how much an hour was without mentioning an amount this time. The response was 260. Based on history, that seemed a bit out of whack and I politely mentioned this to her, that I might as well do the 90 mins if that's what one hour will be. She comes back saying that she can go to 220. Right away, that made me feel very uncomfortable, I don't want to negotiate and that wasn't my intention. I respect these girls very much and quibbling over money does not give me a good feeling. Spoke to her on the phone to explain this and she was very sweet and understanding; said she likes to give breaks to regulars. But I stressed that having a static rate scale would avoid confusion and any scenarios like this. In the end, I wanted to prove a point and said how about 200 for the hr? She said sure thing, no problem, see you tomorrow. I hung up the phone after and had this horrible sensation in the pit of my gut...I really found doing that unsavoury. Now I was going to give her 220 anyways, but she contacted me about an hour before arrival and said she was running late...2 hrs later than we had arranged. I said that was too late, so we'll have to do it some other time. But all of that just shows that haggling fucks everything up and there's no need for it. Besides my initial confusion and disdain for negotiating, there's also the question that did I get pushed back because someone else was giving her more? Don't get me wrong, she was a sweet kid and I bear no animosity, but seeds of doubt like that will likely mean I will not go back. And I definitely will never negotiate again...

I know that this is a recommendation board and not a review board, but I just have to say, that show sucks ;) I never thought I'd be bored listening to girls talk about sex until tuning in to FourPlay. Nothing against the girls on the show, I met them all and got hammered with them one night and they were fun, but they do need to work on the content of the show. I've seen the We-Vibe device though and it does look very intriguing...been thinking of picking one up as a gift and seeing the results.