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Thanks for the interesting comments. My take on strip clubs is quite different. I like watching the dancers. I like watching the clients and seeing their reactions after the Champagne room acting all cool. I like having a beer or two. Watching a girl twirl on the pole, hang upside down, twirl her hair, land in a splits, peel her clothing off, and all the classic moves, makes me glad to be living a burkha-free country. The lap dances are a tease and part of my fantasy life. I have found that when the dancers like me, it is they who bring up extras and quite often (more than once a month) this leads to other activities: travel, shopping, sex, girlfriends, etc. The money is not an issue - it may become one this year with the recession and the bankruptcy of a major client - but I see stripclubs as entertainment and fantasy. When I want to get my rocks off, I see a MA, a SP, a girlfriend, or sometimes just hook-up.

This is an extraordinary thread. Thank you to all. It struck me however, that the title has "Gentlemen" in it. If one is truly a gentleman, much of this advice would not be necessary. Perhaps, we need a "finishing" school for all the lads who have not quite become accustomed to the proper ways of treating people, men and women, but especially our delightful courtesans who care to our fragile needs.

Who can recommend a GREAT sex swing? I promised Emma one some time ago and I always deliver on my promises - sometimes too slowly however.

Are you looking for a true S/M partner or a little slap and tickle. The first is harder to find - the second is a typical menu item. Once someone trusts you, they may give you some control. When they completely trust you, they hand over their power for the play session and you can take them almost anywhere you want to go. Good luck/lick and have fun

I had a phone conversation with one of my favourite dancers yesterday. She was frustrated by customers' increasing demands: let me finger you, let me play in your ass, suck my cock, etc. She loves dancing and teasing. She is also a sweetheart that will have sex with guys she likes and trusts (believe me, we just had a little getaway that was mighty fine), just not in the club where she can get in trouble and lose her ability to make a living. Is this normal - are the stakes being raised towards full service in clubs? Ladies: how do you deal with this? Guys: are you pushing the boundaries?

Saw Layla today for a few dances - she had some more tattoo work done. Work taking a look. Her dances get better every time. What a sweetheart and HOT.

Good rec - will look for her next time.

On my way back from the airport late last night, I was still wound up but too tired for a SP and didn't think any MAs were still open - except for one that I avoid. So I stopped into my favourite dive - the NuDen. Aside from the limits on # of black girls that they allow to work there, the clients do not seem to be so much into the sistas. This is the second time I have had a dance with this girl - Nala - Haitian and El Salvadorian mix. Hot, firm, great nipples, KILLER ass, and I love when she reveals that delightful pink pearl inside. I had 4 dances that were very performed very sexily, very erotique. At the end she says: You night my night. Well darling - if that makes your night, you certainly made mine.

Michelle - just a helping hand is like calling the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel just a painting. You have world class hands darling. Posted via Mobile Device

Erin - you would have loved the two women I was with last night - with two other guys. Nothing says fun like a three scoop snowball. Let's connect soon - it may be me that needs some retraining.

Hi Bethany - I am back in "commission" and back on a mission. I will need to repeat our excellent time together soon.

I am in Victoria BC for business and not feeling like visiting an escort, I decided to have a few beers in a stripclub. The Fox Den Showroom Pub is a nice place - easy parking, pretty clean, great looking girls but to someone used to Ottawa and Montreal, the lack of touching and lapdancing surprised me. Getting over the WTF factor, I decided that watching hot girls dance is fun. This club is more like a night club - lots of women show up, couples, and the atmosphere is very party. After a few beers, I decided to sit down in perverts row and tip the dancers nicely - they then give you a poster and sign it. This went on for a while but then I joined a group of two couples who were partying - late 20s and early thirties. One of the terrific blond girls I was sitting beside Hanna loves the girls so we play a game of getting her the posters in exchange for her flashing her tits and my tip. We close the club down at 1am and headed up with about 40 others upstairs to the dance club - grind for an hour or so - shuts at 2am. A group of us decided that the party should continue at my hotel. Fuck - these girls could suck cock but this didn't stop then from eating their pussies out and snowballing my cum and the cum of the two other guys that joined us. Another great night - cost me about $200 in tips and drinks. Watching girls each other out - priceless. I am tired and kinda hungover - but had a great time in Victoria.

Wow, it has been quite some time since I last posted a review. As some of you recall, I started in late June of last year, a series of reviews that was to reach 43 for the year. Although, the end of the "year" is approaching, I have not written the number of promised reviews yet - so, instead of limiting the timeline, I will just continue adding as I feel like it. I now feel like it. I met imkrissy last week: http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=20634 She advertises as a fit, busty blond. She is indeed a fit, busty blond. She also beautiful eyes, soft skin, a sweet personality, and nice way of meeting your needs. Booking was easy - we just exchanged a few pms here on CERB. Location was terrific. Clean, fresh, and discrete with easy parking. Krissy met me at the door wearing sheer, white lingerie. She welcomed me in with a big hug that included crushing her amazing breasts into my chest. At that moment, I knew I would have fun. She offered water or a glass of wine. Guess which I had? We had a shower together that made sure we were squeaky clean and proceeded to the massage. She has good massage skills and asked what type of massage I wanted. Since I was not looking for deep work, we just played with touch. It felt great and made me even more relaxed than expected. Krissy has great curves which are a pleasure to explore and when she wrapped her lovely breasts around my excitement - well the contrast of soft against hard was almost too much to bear. After some required exertion, I came to have a great big smile on my face. In fact, now that I am thinking about, I still have a smile on my face. Overall, a positive experience that I think would improve with repeated encounters. Would I visit again - yes. Would I recommend imkrissy - yes.

Erin - congratulations. You really do put the PRO in professional. Nicely done. Posted via Mobile Device

Stopped in at the NuDen yesterday in between meetings. Enjoyed a few dances with both Layla (brunette, tall, great body with little b cups and a shaved kitty) and Portia (blonde, great manmades, killer nipples with piercing, and a shaved kitty that opens up all by itself). Nice distraction with beers. Off on a trip - will be back in a couple of weeks. Posted via Mobile Device

Madchemist, Are you going to enter the discussions on a regular basis or is Kyla your only interest? or Is it just me or do a feel a little shilly?

Erin, Richard Poulin is a frustrated old Marxist who has been trying to reinvent himself since the collapse of the soviet union - from what I remember of his work, sex work is an example of capitalist exploitation and a further commodification of the bodies of women. Peanuts any one?

Vegas is the best! Glad you enjoyed it. Looking forward to my next romp soon.

Not sure what my kinkiest might be. Variety is good but I have learned that I need to be a little bit moderate - not a strong suit for me. Look forward to really getting back up to speed. Have two hours at a dungeon in San Francisco booked on Friday, should be fun.

Hi - we connected but in a different way - in Chicago at a conference with 3 men and 3 women - us included. Lots of fun but she is now on a tour in Australia and pacific. Poor Aussies are goin to be tired.

Good Afternoon my fellow Cerbites, Yawn, stretch, fart, coffee. Okay, this bear has been in hibernation since October - sort of. I think the last review I did was of Ava Jones, which was number 21 of 43 for the year ending in July. Not that I haven't been busy but most of my escapades were slowed down by a friggin heart attack. Yeah, a small one but man does that hurt and then you just freak out a bit - okay a lot. So, while I still travel like a hurricane looking for a mobile home, I have been pretty quiet on the pay for play front. I have three months to finish 22 reviews and would love your suggestions. Yeah, I have a few ideas but I really hope that you, my fellow perverts can pull some gems together. Thanks.

Joyful, I just finished another book on demographics - yeah I am a nerd. 1982 was the coming of age for Gen X - small cohort in their prime for a much larger cohort of baby boomers - small supply, large demand. Today, the NetGen - those 31 and less are a cohort bigger than the baby boom and they are now serving two smaller cohorts - Gen X and aging baby boom. Perhaps supply and demand - one theory. Perhaps - change in the commodity of sex, more available and often for free. Two theories - still only worth 2 cents.

Erin - it has been ages but wanted to let you know your new site is bonus.

I love "vacation snaps" wink wink. Nothing brings back the memory of having a ladies' saliva on my manmeat than a digital photo captured at that moment just before gagging. Is this a common service offered by the lovely women who post on CERB? Should this be featured, something to add to the basic service, or a part of the play - I know some women get positively soaking wet from the click of a camera shutter.

Nerves can be a big barrier. The biggest sex organ is your brain. Try breathing - deep breathes in, deep breathes out, imagine a scene that turns you on, get relaxed. This may sound trite and easy but relaxing is a skill - work on becoming relaxed and cumming will be easy.