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I thought you were referring to age, 65+

In my experience, if there is no chemistry, play through, be polite, pay your dues, say thank you, leave. End of story. Do not be a cheap wanker.

A "like to see" list is a must.

I think the advice here is good. Perhaps explaining more clearly what you offer and what type of client you are looking for. As a kinkster in my private life, I know that lots of people don't understand the S/m dynamic and how it differs from the B/D dynamic. I have explored being a sub. I am not. I tried being a switch. I am not. I tried being a Dom. This works but too many rules turns me off. So, I am kinky with a dom tendency. Perhaps offering men a safe space to explore their relationship to power in sex is one way to attract the right clients. ps: Your look is delicious.

partly what you make it and partly how you respond to events that make you. Just like the t-shirt: "Guns don't kill people, I do." "Cerb doesn't make me see women for play, I do." Cerb is a forum. You enter. You participate. You engage. You pay. You repeat. Dear Sir, you did this. Be responsible and pay the price of admission or leave. It really is no more complex than that. Thank you to all who have responded to this thread. ps: my wife loves hearing about my adventures - her voyeur tendencies mean that I always have hot stories to tell with more detail being the best

surprised me today - red polyethylene sheets for Nuru massage, liked how they felt

I am pretty certain that good reviews help drive SP business but does it have the same effect on massage. Guys: how difference does a review make for you in selecting an MA? Ladies: does a good review help attract good clients, does no review keep them away? I usually write one as a thank you and "service" to the community.

After reading the reviews, I was almost doubtful that some one could be "that" good. My doubts ended the moment I walked through the door. Jessica is stunning. Jessica is warm. Jessica is welcoming. Jessica is almost too lovely. Too lovely, as in where do you start to describe the experience, really, it is overwhelming. She is playful. She surrounds you in her eroticism. She engulfs you with a passionate touch. I wanted to devour her and submit completely at the same time. The shower is spectacular. The NURU massage takes you to another world entirely. The cuddling makes you release completely. This is a GFE experience I recommend. Highly. Completely. (almost with regret because I want her all to my self - but that would be selfish.) Anything to watch for? Nope. Anything to improve? Nope Anything more to say? How much time you have? (Review 2 for 2012)

Very funny. Good name tough.

I like Touch because he hasa great signature. Here's to peaks and valleys.

How about multiple massagers - 3 MAs one after the other - any experience. Thinking of birthday present for self and buddy.

So privacy is most important? What about comfort? Champagne?

Pee play can be fun but I only participate in this activity with long term partners. Both giving and receiving.

http://ca.news.yahoo.com/video/tech-22186835/warrant-less-snooping-28294881.html Legislation from the federal government would give police the power to look over your shoulder when you're online, without a warrant

Hips. Nothing more to say. Well, okay. That soft space above the pelvis and below the rib cage. It's like handlebars when she is on top, and like a steering wheel in doggy style. Puts one in a perfect position to move up or down - when a woman walks and moves her hips, everything else comes into perspective. Hips!

NCSF just posted this article on sex addiction https://ncsfreedom.org/press/blog/item/the-naked-truth.html SEX ADDICTION FUELS MOVIES AND HEADLINES, BUT DESPITE THIS, WRITES RACHEL HILLS, IT REMAINS POORLY UNDERSTOOD WAToday If 2011 was the year of the Hollywood hook-up, with casual-sex flicks such as No Strings Attached and Friends with Benefits, 2012 seems set to be the year of the sex addict. Thursday sees the release of Shame, the critically acclaimed portrait of sex addiction starring actor Michael Fassbender. A recent Newsweek cover reported an "epidemic" of the condition, saying it was leaving a trail of destroyed marriages, careers and self-esteem in its wake. Then there is Thanks for Sharing, a new sex-addiction comedy starring Gwyneth Paltrow, due out later this year. Sex addiction has been a media constant for several years now, thanks to serial philanderers such as Tiger Woods and Charlie Sheen. But the new breed of sex-addiction-fuelled pop culture is darker than its cynical predecessors, concerned with putting the condition on the map as a real and serious illness. Take Shame, for example. Fassbender's Brandon might be tall and chiselled, but his life is far from enviable. Deliberately isolated, Brandon interacts only with his sleazy boss, his emotionally fragile younger sister (Carey Mulligan), and the carousel of women he brings into his bedroom. Sex comes easily to him when it is paid for or anonymous, but he falters at even the faintest flicker of intimacy. By most people's standards, Brandon has a lot of sex with a lot of different people. But is he an addict? And if so, what does that mean? ... Proponents of the addiction theory will tell you that their model is morally neutral. Where the tabloids lambast serial cheaters for their sins, those who refer to it as an addiction seek to de-stigmatise the behaviour, explains addiction specialist Robert Mittiga, director of the GATS counselling and treatment program in Adelaide. "It's really not a moral issue. It's a serious illness," he says. But even medical science isn't value free. Remember that as recently as the early 1970s, the American Psychiatric Association still classified homosexuality as a mental illness. Similarly, deciding who and what qualifies as a "seriously ill" sex addict and what is simply a "healthy expression of human sexuality" means drawing boundaries with highly moralistic implications. How much masturbation is too much? How many partners is too many? Is there a difference between using sex as a panacea for your frustrations and being chemically dependent on it? Not to mention that the science of sex addiction is contested in itself. The term has been rejected for inclusion in the 2013 edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, the psychiatrists' bible. And the sex addiction screening test (SAST), one of the main tools used to diagnose sex addiction, has been criticised by high-profile sex researchers such as Dr Petra Boynton and Dr Marty Klein for being too broad and ambiguous. "All the SAST really diagnoses is high libido," says David Ley. At times, the long list of types of sex addiction can read like an excerpt from a 19th-century catalogue of sexual deviance. Cheating, swinging and BDSM? All symptoms of sex addiction. Having sex with someone of your own sex when you think you're straight? Sex addiction. Rape and paedophilia? They're often a manifestation of severe sex addiction, too, says Robert Mittiga. Even telling sexual jokes or hugging too much can be a sign that you're a secret sex addict, according to some sources. ...

Hmm, that does sound interesting - not so sure about PistolPete's suggestion - yowsa

That sounds like the theatres in Frankfurt Germany - very private and lots of fun.

I suggest that we should get a certified professional boob tester in for the job. Here is a list of critical tests: - motorboating test - cheek assault test - suck-ability test - handful or more test - and a range of other scientifically proven tests. My fees are quite reasonable.

Has a MA ever done something during a massage that surprised you? What was it? Did you like it?

Which club in Ottawa-Gatineau has the best champagne rooms? Why are they the best?

Thanks for this thread. It feeds nicely into the "Shy?" thread I started. Meditation and breathing exercises help me get centered in business, sports, and other potentially stressful situations. Given the uncertainties of meeting a new intimate partner, it would likely have a similar effect.

The cowboy reviewed her: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=80520

Thank you antlerman and Julie Wilde. Nice to know that it is not one-sided! The ideal is to "lose myself" and to just "be" in the moment. Perhaps, like much in our busy lives, we expect too much and we miss what is really there. Something to keep reminding myself of - just breathe. ps: Ani DiFranco is very powerful poet.