YoungStud

There tends to be a fair bit of overlap in participation from time to time, it would seem Because GM events have wider appeal, there seems to be more chance to make new acquaintances for later one-on-one (or eventually poly - lol - depending on tastes and inclindation) meetings. I know there were several connections arising from the last GM social. Poly seems a bit more focused and perhaps not quite as relaxed a time overall as some newbies there tend to be a bit more nervous,for whatever reason, than first-time GM social attendees. That's offset by the fact that many of the regular poly social participants have become buds over time or at least have a freindly camaraderie. The group that plays together, stays together, etc. Lol.

I totally agree. Trying to befriend an escort will only result in her losing a client - you. The few occassions when an escort and I have become friends, it was a mutual thing that developed over a period time (as all real friendships do) and wasn't what either of us intially expected would occur.

I beleive she's planning to return again for a visit next spring. Sure hope so.

Too funny Berlin! LMAO! (Plus, luv ur tag line: a zaftig, punk goddess - too true and too cool!) I think you have a good point though. People are going to shop at Wal-Mart even though it's helped ruin small town North America and put hundreds of thousands of decent people out of work in Canada in favour of shoddily produced (but cheaply-produced goods) from government-run sweatshops in China, just to use one previous analogy in this thread. However, not everything for sale in a Wal-Mart is a cheapo piece of sweatshop junk. Just as not every escort ad on CL is a scam and a rip-off. And you'll never stop people shopping at either one as long as they exist. However, I hope women who advertise their services exclusively on CL realize they are likely cutting themselves off from a significant number of better-quality, more long-term and more lucrative clients. As well, if someone advertises on CL, EC and CERB, should we rate them based solely on their CL participation? Probably not, though by including CL ads in their marketing plan, they risk being tarred by a brush with an overall sleazy rep. But, bottom line is, just because an escort can pay hundreds of bucks for a paid ad on a classy website like EC doesn't mean her services are any good. I can think of a couple of escorts who've advertised on EC who have been as much a waste of time as anything on CL. Just because you can pay to advertise on EC doesn't mean you are any good, just that you're more likely to be an established reputable professional who is willing to invest in her career. So, challenge for Mod, it would seem to me, would be to make advertising on EC attractive enough to bring over more escorts who are only putting free ads on CL. Bottom line though, as long as CL exists, you'll never totally eliminate escorts who advertise there exclusively.

One reason I don't spend as much time as I used to on this board is that many of the threads and comments seem very similar to past threads and comments. Only natural when you have a constant influx of new members, I suppose. But still, not that interesting after awhile. Seems to me that http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=7579&highlight=first+interaction kind of covered the same ground. Anyway, as posted in the thread just noted, still fondly remember my first time, some 30 years ago, as an actual 20-something "Young Stud" Lol! "It was in Toronto a long time ago. lol With a buxom 20-something in a tight halter top and even tighter jeans. She was no-nonsense right-down-to-business SW who was very enthusiatic about giving value for payment. I will always remember her remark after I had cum in her mouth and she had spat it out the passenger-side window into the alley. "Jesus, you sure had a big load on you! When was the last time you came?". Okay, so it wasn't that romantic, but it was my first paid BBBJ [and my first "escort" (lol!) experience] and I really enjoyed it. lol"

It definitely is sex for pay. And those who forget that, as can been seen (sometimes all too often - lol) in posts on CERB, some of the "hobbyists" can get into some pretty weird fantasies and delusions. {;-) (Reminder - "She's NOT your girl friend!!! GFE is a range of escort options, not the description of an actual relationship." Lol!) But on the other hand, when it works really well, it can be friendly, sensual, with its own sort of genuine intimacy, satisfying, sometimes satiating {;-) - and certainly totally fun for all concerned. And from time to time, some genuine and affectionate long-term friendships actually can emerge.

Had the pleasure of seeing Jayne again. She’s been taking a break from the business for awhile. It’s always a pleasure, and not only for the sex. She’s a fun, friendly girl-next-door type who’s easy to spend time with, but who’s also very sexually experienced and enthusiastic. Great safe GFE with a splash or two (if you wish) of PSE to finish. Everything you can expect is very clearly laid out on her website (link at the top of this recommendation thread). Plus, for me, my favourite physical type: petite red-head. {;-)

You're an amazing person Kayleigh. Even if you aren't able to return for awhile, we'll still be waiting to see you again.

I second that nomination. Kayleigh is beautiful, smart, charming, friendly and also a very open and tireless sexual adventuress. A perfect spinner with a tight and toned body who is as enjoyable to chat and cuddle with in between the sheets in between the action as she is enthusiastic and endlessly pleasing on top of them.

A simple Google search for site:cerb.ca COF OTTAWA ESCORT should give results for postings and ads that include this feature on their menu.

Thanks to CH for taking over organizing the social event this Thursday (April 1). I've been away on business or up to my ears in busyness back here. Won't make this one. Hope to see some of you sometime soon in the future.

En tant que Jacques Parizeau a dit si bien, ces sont des immigrants maudits - comme les Anglais. :butt: BdR. (Lol) :rolleyes:

I browse and post when I have the chance - and urge. Could be three times a day or three times a month. All good, though.

Good advice, Angela. Really too close to the Montreal Road SW strolls for comfort. Nice park tho'. {;-) Angela wrote: River Rain Park in the summer at MCarthur and North River Road I would advise against that area. I don't know about these days, but when I used to live in that area few years back, it was a popular place for SW to take their Johns. Might prove embarassing if the LE spots you there.

It's sadly ironic how this thread and this issue seems to linger on.