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Yep, once I got beyond my 20s, it's been increasingly a question of finally being able to let go after staying hard as long as possible, rather than premature pops. I usually like at least 30-40 minutes before my first release, though if the BB oral stimulation is great (i.e. skillful, experienced, imaginative, varied and relentless in enthusiasm), hard to make it past 15-20 sometimes. Lol.

Oh, I don't know. Every interesting woman has her own way of looking good.

It depends. I've seen it both ways. Message could be: I live with someone. Enjoy your cheatin' adultery fantasy. But also know I have protection and this is our home, so don't even think about trying anything weird. (Framed bedside pics of a large swarthy gentleman with prison tattoos helps enforce this point. Lol) Or, message could be: I'm a hot chick on my own. You're my one and only boyfriend. Have your way with me. Indulge your fantasy. No evidence of an SO or BF anywhere. However, whether or not she has an SO or BF (or GF), either scenario could be true, There's a lot of fantasy and role-playing in this line of work, after all. For example, seems to live with an SO/BF could mean: Option one: "Gee, her SO/BF really looks a lot like Vin Diesel. Where _did_ she get that photo?" Lol. Or, option two: "Sorry, sir, that you had to come in from that room in the hallway where the door was closed. . . I promise never to bite her neck that hard again. . . She screams really loud when you do that too, eh? Nevertheless, I'll leave right away." Lol.

20 or 30 minutes to start if a short option is available. 8) Why waste money or time? You either know if there's a long term connection or not after the first short date. If unsure, book another short date. It never really requires two hours to figure out the chemistry, at least for me.) But up to several hours for a fav. Recently spent from 10:30 to 3:30 with my fav fav on a date which included a variety of ways of spending time.

They may have melted but I won't tell you how.

I'm cool and I'm clean, but I do have hairy balls. Two out of three ain't bad. 8)

Jessica22 should set up a new "disposable" Hotmail or Yahoo or gmail account and update that info on http://oneprovocativejessica.escortsite.com/contact.phtml Just because some immature hacker has grabbed an old e-mail doesn't mean your entire website is down the drain. And there are more secure ways to display your e-mail on a website. PM for more info about that.

Excellent post, Capman. Sometimes you just have to let it go and accept the losses. Easier in the long run, but always harder to do. Always hard to judge too, when you have a hard-on, how upset someone else is. Best just to take her word about how she feels. She probably knows better about that than either of us.

Well put, E.D.

As she's also "paused" her escort website, she probably did read what you (and others) had to say, Capman. Why escorts chose to have their faces, as opposed to other parts of their anatomies, on their web site picture galleries, is of course a personal choice, but a risky one, in my view.

Probably not the United States.

Peachka gets 50 points for spotting the Maclean and Maclean reference.

I like all this stuff, just not all at once. As long as you don't set off a metal detector at an airport, it's all good. Moderation and good taste rule. Place the hardware where you want, but be cool when you do it. LOL.

Go, girl, go! (As they would say in Cape Breton)

Hayley Mills. (I was in grade school then. lol) http://lh3.ggpht.com/abramsv/R-a9S_XRegI/AAAAAAAAMYI/xbakwmBUowk/s800/416118693_16db9743c3_o.jpg http://nogoodforme.filmstills.org/images/hayleymills2.jpg

I ran my own consulting business for more than a decade. Delivery time to clients was about 40 per cent of my time. The rest was marketing, prep, admin and upkeep. I was lucky when I saw a working week that had less than 50 hours in it.

My sentiments exactly. Group fun, let me know. Pretty hard to find around here. 8-)

And so is the season for outdoor sex. :twisted: Lol. See: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=6782&highlight=outdoor for some ideas. :-?

I agree. But thanks to Pete for asking and clarifying the situation. I was wondering about some of the same things myself.

This whole business is built upon discretion and mutual respect. I'll be the first to admit I've occasionally screwed up instructions. E.G. when the cell phone connection was less than perfect, I wrote down on a pad in my car "319" as the apartment number for what turned out to be a two-story building (219 was correct) and had to call back. (Lol - but still stupid.) If I arrive 5 or 10 minutes early, I'll call and say "I'm here, parked outside, but I know I'm early". Sometimes I'll be told, "Fine, come on up." Other times the SP will say, "Great, see you at our appointed time". Either way, I follow her lead. If I arrive earlier than that, I'll wait until within 5 or 10 minutes of the set time before I call on my cell. If I reach a voice mail, I'll leave a message, "I've arrived. I'm early. Call my cell if you want me to come up. Otherwise, see you at the appointed time." It's all up to her. I once arrived 15 minutes early for a date with a regular. My cell phone rang within a minute of me pulling into the parking lot of her high rise. When I answered, she said, "I see your car down there. No problem if you want to come up now." But the bottom line is, you arrive at her door when she expects you to be there, not when you happen to arrive. And you enter quietly and discretely, just like any other guest.

Easy to play Monday Morning Quarterback, but why did you let this a-hole in in the first place when he arrived ahead of his scheduled time?

Hey Rag, Interesting, detailed, no BS contribution. I enjoyed reading it.

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I think the average SP could care less as long as you can pay and are not a jerk. Most of the dates they see are boring, married, middle-aged guys (lol), so a ring won't really make much of a difference one way or the other.

I have good friend who's been in the business for several years. For her, half an hour with a boring, stupid or crude guy is too long; two hours with somebody smart, interesting and polite is too short. My view of dates is pretty much the same as hers.