YoungStud

You may be right that the media hype this negative aspect of the business to be much more what has been proven in court. But I think it happens more often that we think. (See links below.) Bottom line, much rarer (if ever) for an independent SP to be accused of being an illegal immigrant working in under duress in a whore-house for a bunch of pimps. http://www2.canada.com/vancouversun/news/story.html?id=431cc5d2-4496-4400-b367-403d9a07a454 http://www.startribune.com/local/12494456.html http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2004/01/23/SEXTRADE.TMP http://www.nytimes.com/2002/09/19/world/tale-of-sin-on-west-coast-with-asians-smuggled-in.html http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/1999/aug/21/michaelellison

Still, good first guess. (ROFL)

Personally, I'm a lips and tongue guy more than a tit-licker. But good to get the nips in there, so thanks for that. Breasts. Aureoles. Nipples. Very sensual as well. Perhaps "TTT" for a letterism? (Acronyms are groups of letters taken from the first letter of other words which can be pronounced themselves as words e.g. NATO; letterisms must be enunciated letter-by-letter e.g. UN.) TTT=tongue touching tits

Mmmm! Work with her rhythm.

Depends or whether or not you had to learn touch typing in high school. We had an odd course option that meant I did in final year. And glad I did. Howeve, can you teach me the two-finger thumb touch stuff sometime? And then, when we've had a break, we can move on to texting on a cell phone? ;-)

"Bare nuckle" or "bar bell", it all tastes good to me, for whom variety is the spice of life. I'm not a piercings or tat guy, but they can add a kinky element from time to time, and I've always been partial to kinky. 8-)

Best of luck Apex, though I'm not fighting any battles with anyone.

Not to go off on a completely different tangent, but there's the former South Korean Foreign Minister Lee Bum Suk. Not to mention the former Alberta Minister of Culture, Horst Schmidt. Okay, sorry, I will now un-hijack this thread after this brief break for additional comedy. 8)

Well, there's always Dildo, NL. Seems peaceful enough by daylight, but wait until after dark when the sex toys come out to play! http://www.virtual-tours-newfoundland.ca/Dildo/dildo.html

Time to start dating women who aren't in high school. lol

Freud believed that those people who "forgot" something at someone's place were merely indicating a sublimated desire to return. :???:

I think Caveman is right. As long as the sheep is a consenting adult (Eeeww!) No lambs tho'. 8)

Someone who does this really doesn't want to be there or doing this work, it seems to me. Nothing to do with masking sounds. She simply doesn't like fucking guys for money and wants to distract herself from what she's doing. So, she should get out of the business pronto and the client should leave, IMHO, because she's just making herself more unhappy and angry and you might as well be screwing a blow-up doll - there's no level of connection at all.

You could RTFM if somebody wrote one (they probably have), but probably best just to trust your feelings at any moment and your experience. As Inaluki notes, you have to pay attention to her (not just for DATY, but for pretty much everything). To the extent you can instinctively supply what she's looking for at any given moment, you'll have a better time. After going down on hundreds and hundreds of pussies (just a conservative guess - lol - tastes like more - lol - yum, yum!) over the years, just go with the flow, so to speak - lol, and be creative - that's about all I can offer.

See this thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=6005&highlight=Rose

Well, Toronto Star and Toronto Police seemed to claim to have some facts a couple of years ago: http://www.thestar.com/printArticle/153970 The article is not very positive about the SP business, but then this sounds like a very sleazy, exploitative aspect of it. Why anyone would go to the mutually degrading kinds of setups described here when there are a good range of independent escorts available who chose to do this work and do it in a respectable and safe way is kind of puzzling.

Annessa can rub it in my face anytime. :smile:

Hey, Bambi, what happened to your other recommendation, which had several thousand views?

Women of colour are pretty much like any other group; some are hot, some are not. Shy is definitely hot. My recollection is COB, not COF, but the end result still looked (and felt) very nice.

Never really cared that much who came first - or second or third - lol. As long as one or more participants (preferably including me), does. But I do agree DATY is a very satisfying means of satisfying. Also, given that at least half (IMHO) SP "orgasms" are faked just to make the client feel better, the hardest to fake, (again IMHO), is the DATY to completion orgasm. And so is the most enjoyable when it's real and you're down there at "ground zero". Lol.

BTW, Erin had mentioned this organization in her footnotes for "sex work fact sheet part 1" post: http://peers.bc.ca/ I think they have an excellent web site and some very interesting ideas. Subject of an interesting CBC Radio Sunday Edition documentary last year (April 20), on their plan for a coop brothel. Unfortunately, doc not available for download.

Excellent point, Caveman.

I agree. The logic seemed muddled from time to time. They seemed to have a thesis they couldn't quite support with interview material, so there was much more weight on the narration to carry the POV, rather than having it evolve from the first person material. Robin Benger has been making docs for more than 25 years here in Canada. Usually he does a better job.

Agreed. Except for Greek, I pretty much include all the rest in every date I can, among other possibilities.

Very true. Some SPs like to chat about more personal things, especially once they get to know you. So I'll follow her lead in that case, and if I ask questions, they're appropriate to the level she's already established. If the conversation stays at the level of how's the weather, I'm fine with that too. The goal is for her to feel comfortable with you within the limits she's set for her own comfort zone. Because when's she's comfortable with you, you will definitely enjoy your time together more. ;-)