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I would like to echo those sentiments and those of all other brown-nosers. Lol. See: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15911&highlight=2000

Sharon is a freelance writer I know and a good one. Thanks for being our Internet "librarian" Wrinkled!

As SB noted, YMMV. Often the case with any provider. I like petite redheads, so sure worked for me. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=J&t=4961 Also, Amanda is pretty amazing. She doesn't work full-time, but catch her when you can. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=A&t=16867

Forever?! Fuckin' forever??!! No fucking way! Lol. Thanks for your kind words of support and encouragement, though, buggernot. Lol. But in the end, as I think President Bush (was it he?) has said on more than one occasion, it's all just a fucking game. Lol Or, as I think I've said (on more than one occasion - lol), live your life large, write smart, enjoy the moment, take lots of chances and always be a moving target. Sorry that the Dude has had to pay the price for many of those things, but I feel that, in sum, everything which has gone before has done a lot to restore the balance, as well as a certain sense of humility and atonement, to an otherwise unnecessarily solipsistic and overly confident universe. ;-) Nice to see, in any event, that as of the votes cast on 10:25 p.m. Nov 26, that the Dude is tied for the lead. Lol.

In re-reading this thread, in addition to all the good things that have been said in response to this question, I have to say that if you need to have that explained to you, well, you really just don't get anything. Just my opinion.

I'm with you, as previously noted. Just wanted to expand on why. I've never really liked these kind of "comparative threads" for several reasons. First, if a women is left out of this kind of "list" through no fault of her own - she could have the world's most stunning face, but if no one bothers to add her, she won't show up here - it's kind of insulting. Second, gents, why piss off lots of good-looking women by failing to mention them as your fav? Lol. Third, unless she's really not into dong this kind of thing or her life force has been so suppressed by bad things in her life, just about every woman I've ever been with in the escort world has had her own really attractive, really gorgeous, aspect to her face that reflected her own personality and her own inner beauty in an external way I could really appreciate.

I think it's time guys like you, who post interesting stuff from time to time based on real personal experience, rather than necessarily people who spend a lot of time posting about everything because they're interested in everything (I've been in both camps), should be recognized. Having not only had the privilege of imbibing a malt beverage with you in person at a CERB event, but also as a fan of your sometimes feisty, sometimes idiosyncratic but always interesting posts, I hope you do well here, Mr. C-man. Woohoo indeed!

Strip clubs are for office parties. Masseuses are for medicinal massages. And for everything else, there's independent SPs. Lol.

Hey Melaine, You're square. Lol. But I agree. I do love those ribs at Montanas. Good point. From two squares. Lol.

Wed 02 Dec - Social Event - 4:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Downtown Ottawa - enjoy some beverages, food (if you wish) and pool (with cues, not towels - lol) with like-minded individuals in a relaxed pub setting. Sponsored by the Poly Social Group. But based on past practice, by no means limited to Poly Group members or participants. A good way for males and female members of CERB with one-on-one (or broader) interests to meet face-to-face in a relaxed setting, contemplate the possibilities and have some fun, shoot the breeze, whatever. A good time is usually had by all. PM me if you're interested. (Just giving Dummpy a hand, since no one person should have to organize everything. Lol.)

Wow, impressive list! Thanks for the tip about the Sweet Grass, particularly. And after more than 20 years, glad to hear the Vineyards basement is still serving that same cheese platter. (Lol.) Must be one of the longest-running Market successes. Most move on and morph in the Market after a few years.

Wed 02 Dec - Social Event - 4:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Downtown - enjoy some beverages and pool (with cues, not towels - lol) with like-minded individuals in a relaxed pub setting PM me if you're interested.

I think it was you. Lol.

Cat, Two thoughts: 1) Good advice 2) You've had a very interesting life

Indeed, part of your charm: honest and sweet.

Hey Cato, you've done a lot in a year. Congrats, dude!

Suri is an escort enigma wrapped inside the conundrum of a philosophy lover whose mysterious will o' the wisp presence, sensual beauty and wild sexuality charms, often entrances, but then, often eludes (in the long run) most, if not all, those who have had the pleasure of meeting her. No matter how hard they try to catch the firefly of their fantasy in a jar - they look, they grasp . . .but then, it is gone. Perhaps, someday, someone will succeed. "All great deeds and all great thoughts have a ridiculous beginning." - Albert Camus

You are so cool. And have such a great attitude. Congrats. You deserve it. This is really good for you. Keep it up.

For newbies: In order to participate in a Poly Party 1) Show up to a Poly social event so that we can put a face (and a personality) to the handle. If the members attending the social event (M&F) have a good feeling about your maturity and discretion, you could then be asked to participate in future Poly Parties. 2) Develop one or more in-person connections with some of the practicing members of the Poly Group. Or the well-known members of CERB. A recommendation from a well-known trusted provider (or respected male CERB member) who are members of the Poly Group could enable your eligibility to participate in a Poly Party. Given that some Poly group members have been hassled on-line in the past in various rather nasty ways for their participation (actual, perceived or on-line) in the group, we tend to be rather cautious about whom we invite to attend. Also, most events fill up quite quickly, so we can afford to be fairly chosey about participants. And of course, maturity, discretion and group chemistry are essential to successful events.

Annessa makes a really good point. Most providers usually will ask for an extra donation for fulfilling special requests of any kind. And even if they don't ask for one, it's probably the right thing to do to provide an extra gift anyway. Because someone's just done you a nice favour and it's always good manners to show one's appreciation for favours.

Yeah, that is so totally cool! Never met either lady but I've always really liked both their posts. Glad to hear they had such a great time together! Plus Mandalay's guy. Lucky dude!

Like the asking for Greek and asking for photos threads underway on CERB recently, just ask politely. There are a number of women who will do this with the right client under the right circumstances. But most won't advertise. And they won't do it with everyone. (Among SPs, Emma kind of flaunts it. And so she should. Totally amazing experience! Our "PM Queen", so to speak. Much better than Stephen Harper and HRH combined. Lol.) I expect, most, if not all of those who offer PM as a "private personal option" so to speak, won't ever do it again with anyone who posts in a public forum that they've had this service from them. Lol. Discretion, politeness and chemistry. We're lucky to have so many women who are into so many things if the conditions are right. Just observe those three words and you may receive more than you expect. If you don't, you probably had a great time anyway. If you do, you should regard any extra as a bonus. Which is undoubtedly worthy of an extra gift (beyond any negotiated fees). Particularly if you want to repeat. Lol.

Wow, so there's hope for me yet! Lol. You always write so well Cat. And always have such insightful things to say.

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I think the answer here is kind of like the thread on asking about Greek. As for all "extras", it doesn't hurt to politely ask. There are some providers who will allow photos and videos under certain circumstances for certain clients. Most of them don't advertise this fact. If they do agree, be prepared for conditions such as a review by her of all images before you leave and a immediate deletion of any digital image files she doesn't think are suitable. Expect anything identifiable (face, tats, etc.) to be grounds for immediate deletion. (As noted, YMMV.)