I came into this a little over a year ago. I admit I started out on CL in Van, but not until I had done a little research.
I cannot, for the life of me, understand why anyone would post anything other than their own pics? I mean, what are you supposed to say or do when the gentleman shows up? It is an absolute mystery to me why any man would stay after having this happen to him. I have read how this happens all of the time. I know of one gentleman who showed up and admitted to having two others as a backup, had I not been who I posted. It seems that this would be the smart thing to do.
If you are in the mood, and ready to go, why not have a backup plan? I'd hate to send anyone off with wood...that is why I am who I am. I've even offered to wear exactly what I wear in my photos, to prove myself.
It is completely unbelievable to me, to say the least.
Good luck on your adventures, and maybe have a backup plan in place, if at all possible.
Cheers!
p.s. I just realised I was listed as a hobbyist...lol I have changed that ;)
