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I totally thought this was going to be about irrational hatred for people. e.g. you have no reason to hate Person X and yet, you still want to punch them in the nose.

Aww thanks everyone! It was a snow day so all my classes were cancelled which I thought was a nice birthday present :)

You can post your schedule in a BP ad--my current ads all have my availability posted and then I just bump the ad 2-3 times a week.

The kitty I adopted from the TCR in January got really sick and the vet couldn't figure out what was wrong with her. She passed away last night. RIP Riff Raff.

I went through a baby names website and wrote down a bunch I liked and then picked the one I thought suited me the best.

The new Zero skate vid, Cold War. Yes, I buy skateboarding videos.

Oh, well when men are trafficked, they're smuggled. Apparently men can't be coerced/forced.

The Toronto Cat Rescue got me! I adopted a second kitty! Her name is Riff-Raff and she looks exactly like Grimlock, except a bit bigger. I am going to have a black cat harem.

This chart is problematic in that it conflates legalization and decriminalization, which are not the same thing. So for example, under Canada in the table, it lists prostitution, brothels and pimping as being legal--that's actually incorrect and misleading. Should the government of Canada do nothing and allow the laws to be struck down after the year long stay, then brothels and pimping would be DECRIMINALIZED, not legal. The wording is important here. If the government decides to implement laws to regulate brothels and pimping, then you could say that brothels and pimping were legalized. Legalization is regulation by the state. Second, referring to the criminalization of third parties as "pimping" laws is also misleading and may cause some to wonder why a country would be pro-pimps (as they're understood by most people), when in fact the so-called "pimping" laws criminalize ALL third parties regardless of exploitative relationships. These charts are certainly a good place to start if you're interested in prostitution law and policy, but like Wikipedia, they should be read with care and act only as a starting point.

I don't care how clean you are, I will only rim using a dental dam.

Hilarious list of stuff people got stuck in various orifices (not just butts). http://deadspin.com/what-did-we-get-stuck-in-our-rectums-this-year-1486766986

OMG. There is also a Mean Girls: TNG, which combines quotes from the movie Mean Girls with TNG screenshots: http://meangirlstng.tumblr.com/

Also, let's not forget that if a provider says she's "busy" she may not actually be seeing clients, but having her own life, not in the mood, or maybe she hates you (lol).

Are any of you familiar with Texts From Last Night? Well, some genius went and combined Texts From Last Night with screen shots from Star Trek: TNG and it is priceless: http://textsfromtng.tumblr.com/

Trolling anti-sex work feminists on Twitter.

If only the media would report them that way.

It's that time of year again: International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers. Today we honour those who have been taken from us and support those still with us. If you're looking to attend a Dec. 17 event in your area, check out the list of events posted here: http://www.december17.org/event-locations/

Just make sure you pick an organization that isn't discriminatory! Basically, just avoid the Salvation Army and you're probably okay. http://www.bilerico.com/2011/11/why_you_shouldnt_donate_to_the_salvation_army_bell.php

Just a thought--you know her in real life and it's never happened, so why do you think you should be able to pay her to get that privilege? Booking a call with her and not telling her who you are is called "FALSE PRETENSES" and nobody likes thinking Person X is going to show up and then having Person Y arrive. Forget you saw her ad, and don't ever try to trick her into seeing you by not telling her who you are.

This is a really excellent oral history of Nelson Mandela narrated by Desmond Tutu. http://www.mandelahistory.org/stories.php

My new fave sex jam:

In high school I worked at my parent's video store. Whenever I was closing, after I'd finished up, I'd throw a porn on in the staff room and rub one out before I went home.

There is a whole industry around the "white saviour" (white saviour industrial complex--give it a google).

So I was having a convo the other day with a guy and we were talking about face-fucking and deep throating and he kept lamenting that women can't face fuck like they do in porn; his partners always have to stop/gag etc. First of all, they're using hand signals in porn, you just can't see them. That is how the guy knows when to slow down, speed up, or stop. I can't breathe with cock in my throat. I panic if you're holding my head down and don't let up if I try to pull up. If you keep going after I have triggered my gag reflex, I will puke all over your cock. So, HAND SIGNALS! Use em'! Come up with your own. Get creative. Just make sure you've got a signal for "slow down", "stop" and "go crazy." This way you can keep going without having to necessarily stop all the action and pull your cock out, or you know, accidentally making your lady puke, which unless that's your thing, can be rather unpleasant. Happy deepthroating! xox

Carrie Moon Vanessa Vale Georgiana Sweet Me before I left Ottawa, LOL. But seriously, those ladies have some awesome tatas.