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As a provider, I need a way to vote for both options! I love this work and will probably always do it for as long as people will continue to pay me, but I also have goals that this work facilitates (eg getting a PhD).

The fact that you've basically ignored or just completely missed the entire point of what everyone on the board's been saying to you. And I don't dislike you, I don't even know you.

Dude. You dug yourself this hole. Reread your posts. What FilmGeek said to you was SPOT ON. It's as basic as this, if you (the general you, not you specifically) can't read the extensive info that's been provided on our websites and in our ads, if you're in such a rush to get your dick wet that you can't even bother doing a bit of internet research (hi, there are guides to client etiquette out there: a quick google search of "escort + client+ etiquette" pulls up this link http://bellastr26.wordpress.com/2010/05/19/client-etiquette/), you should just wank off. If you have read it and can't be bothered to follow our rules/requests/etiquette, that says a lot about you and it's a GIANT RED FLAG. Dudes who can't respect virtual/online requests sure as hell aren't going to respect my wishes in person. I am running a business; my website is written to answer as many common questions as possible. I still get a billion "what are you rates" or "where is your incall" questions when all of that wonderful info is provided on my website AND in my ads. Usually I redirect to the site. If you come back with yet more questions that have already been answered, well you can just forget seeing me. I don't have time to repeat everything that I've already spent enormous amounts of time SPELLING OUT for you. Not to mention, if you made it as far as making an account on CERB, then you can access the "new to this?" section and don't need to be making excuses about not knowing how things work.

An all "Jolene" mixtape. http://bitchmagazine.org/post/bitchtapes-all-jolene-all-the-time

Just watched the latest Jason Statham and really enjoyed it: Parker. It's similar to movies like Payback.

I'd say "sex" is anything that you're doing with a partner once all the clothes come off (or even before the clothes come off): nude groping, oral, mutual masturbation, penetration (with fingers, dicks, toys), etc.

Watched two tonight that I enjoyed. I admit, I didn't read the entire thread, so my apologies if these have already been mentioned. 1. The Colony. Entertaining, sci-fi/post-apocalyptic movie about a group of survivors living underground after an ice age and then some cannibals who try to eat them all. Some dumb plot stuff (like, hello, it's blowing and snow-stormy, and yet, the cannibals can follow the dude's footprints?), but otherwise good times. 2. Oblivion. Enjoyed this one but kinda felt the clone bit was totally ripped from the movie Moon with Sam Rockwell. Tom Cruise is a security repairman and Earth is basically dead after nuclear war with aliens and his job is to make sure the aliens don't destroy this hydro thing that sucks up the oceans so that the surviving humans will have water on Titan, the moon they've colonized. Then he rescues this woman from a downed ship and all hell breaks loose.

I gotta agree with antlerman. If he expects you to go down on him, he should go down on you. Fair's fair. And since he refuses, fuck him. Better fish in the sea who love a wet pussy.

Also, there's this thing called Febreze that you might have heard of ;)

I had the same problem whenever I tried to organize gangbangs. I think the key is to book more guys than you normally would, knowing that a bunch won't show up.

I'm with Cleo--I wear leggings and dresses/skirts almost exclusively. I do, however, have a really broken-in pair of boyfriend jeans from the Gap that I will sometimes wear in the summer for lounging around.

I wear men's cologne and deodorant. I also buy men's razors because they're the exact same as the women's and half the price usually.

I list services on my website so that you have an idea of what I will or won't offer. It doesn't necessarily mean that I do all those things all in one appointment. It just means that they're available if the client is interested. My sessions are still very much go-with-the-flow despite the fact that I do have a "menu" as it were.

Taking a break from packing.

I prefer to be addressed by name, and I try to do the same with clients.

In high school, I always used to refer to Dr. Pepper as DP until someone pointed out that it also meant double penetration.

Cleo Catra and I both have our lips pierced.

I'm not on Twitter. I'm already addicted to enough websites, without adding another :)

None of it has been debunked. Many of the posters have told you, repeatedly, that comparing sex work to other professions is a false analogy. At this point I'm convinced that you just want to be right--listening doesn't seem to be one of your strong suits.

Ha, and after I just gave you rep points, I just remembered: SECTION 212, The Criminal Code This law makes it an offense to: a) Procure or solicit a person to have illicit sex with another person. b) Entice someone who is not a prostitute to enter a brothel for the purpose of prostitution. c) Hide someone in a brothel. d) Procure someone to become a prostitute. e) Convince someone to leave their residence and become a "frequenter" of a brothel. f) Direct or take a new arrival to Canada to a brothel. g) Procure a person to leave Canada to become a prostitute. h) Exercise control over someone for the purpose of prostitution (commonly used against pimps, also used against escort service owners, managers, and phone operators). i) Drug someone (which includes getting someone drunk) to enable another person to have sex with the person who has been drugged. j) Live wholly or partially on the avails (profits) of prostitution (commonly used against pimps, often used against husbands, lovers, boyfriends, etc.). Evidence that someone is "habitually in the company" of a prostitute, or lives in a brothel, is, in the absence of evidence to the contrary, proof that the person in question lives on the avails of prostitution. The Supreme Court case only challenges section (j). One could argue that a review convinces someone to leave their residence to visit a sex worker-- incalls, and working from your own space or sharing one with another escort amounts to a brothel under the law, currently.

No idea. Maybe another member may have some thoughts on this.

Well, as others have said, I think the police have bigger fish to fry. But that is why many sex workers often have a disclaimer on their sites and ads that reads something like "money exchanged is for companionship only and anything else that happens is between consenting adults." I don't go out of my way to flout the law, but I'm not sitting around worrying about the cops either. If they really want to arrest you, they will.

Hey Mod, Quick correction. The laws regarding communicating for the purposes of prostitution in public were put in place before the advent of the internet, so we actually don't know whether advertising is legal or not. The paper Now Toronto was charged a number of years ago for solicitation, though the charges were eventually dropped. http://www.rrj.ca/m3837/

Quite frankly, if you have to haggle over 20 dollars, maybe you should consider that you can't afford to see escorts.

Well damn, if people are adding five years to my 30, I look pretty awesome for 35! HA. Seriously though, I put out my real age and birthdate because I have nothing to hide and it isn't a privacy issue for me. I don't even look 30 anyway.