VedaSloan

My dad is an electrical contractor and straight up, he doesn't negotiate. He puts out a bid for a potential job (eg. a contract with the city to maintain the traffic lights and erect lights at two new intersections), which is the price he feels the time/labour/materials are worth and he either gets the job, or he doesn't. But nobody says to him, "Hey Big Red, will you do it for this amount instead?" Or "Instead of 45/h, what about 35?" I can guarantee you, he'd laugh right in your face. I give clients the benefit of the doubt ONE TIME (mainly because I don't know you or your background and maybe where you come from, it's considered insulting not to haggle, I have no idea), and this is being generous because it says ON MY WEBSITE that my rates are not negotiable--so you either didn't read it, or you're deliberately disrespecting me, but as I said, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt the first time. And this is only if you're polite about it. For example, is your rate negotiable? Reply: no it isn't. The end. If you persist, it's game over. This of course, excludes all those guys who text things like, "free gym membership for free massage?" (real text I got a few weeks ago). In which case, I don't even reply. So I mean really, it's up to you. Negotiate if you want, but don't expect a response.

Ok, maybe it's just me, and maybe I'm too honest, but when a client gives me the money at the beginning I count it, and if there is more than my donation, I usually tell them in case they made a mistake. Except for one instance where the client took back the extra cash, the rest have all said something like, "oh it's a tip for you." It's kind of awkward, so my suggestion is to go with Gabriella's suggestion: put the tip in a separate envelope and leave it in the bathroom/nightstand/whatever on your way out.

It Ain't Me Babe-Bob Dylan (couldn't find a decent link) White Satin- Zeds Dead remix of the Moody Blues track Walk Away-Ben Harper Just Like Heaven-The Cure http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RS_ux2H473I Not In Love-Crystal Castles ft. Robert Smith

More. Because I clearly love depressing music. So Real-Jeff Buckley Lover, you should've come over-Jeff Buckley The entire album Rock Bottom by Robert Wyatt (it's the album he made after he became a paraplegic). http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWsqUX83IZE To Be Of Use-Smog Just about anything by Elliott Smith--though my favourites are: The Biggest Lie Pretty (Ugly Before) Lost Cause-Beck

Please please please let me get what I want- The Smiths http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRYpd3_roHg Sunset-The xx http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGCtyvWAE3g 1000 Memories- Bad Religion The Calendar Hung Itself-Bright Eyes Ghost- Sky Ferreira Oh These Walls- Julie Doiron Legs- PJ Harvey

Yeah, I thought I was a 38 G, and then I was at Tryst Lingerie in Toronto buying new bras and it turns out I'm a 38GG or a 40FF depending on the bra/style.

Once, about three years ago, I got an email from a client saying he'd gotten chlamydia and just to be safe I should get tested. I didn't have anything, but I appreciated the email. If you're adult enough to be fucking, and adult enough to get tested, then I think we should all be adult enough to inform our partners if we've caught something.

Clients come and go. That is the nature of the business. I've certainly made connections with many clients and I am always disappointed when our journey comes to an end. Not because it is a loss of income, but because I genuinely enjoyed our time together. As for clients seeing other escorts, I just assume they do. It doesn't bother me. Ottawa is a fairly small community--I've recommended other escorts to clients and other escorts have referred clients to me. I just see it as good business practice. If you respect your colleagues, they're more likely to help you out and vice versa.

I've done brown showers in the past, at a premium.

See if Lucie at 101 Sparks will do you. She is amazing.

Nipple suckers. Basically suction cups for your nips.

My prescription sunglasses. Best investment I ever made. Plus, now I can ogle people on the bus and they'll never know!

You can watch the proceedings here: http://scc-csc-gc.insinc.com/en/clip.php?url=c%2F486%2F1938%2F201306130500wv150en%2C001Content-Type%3A+text%2Fhtml%3B+charset%3DISO-8859-1

If I'm ever out Winnipeg way, I know who to call ;) Likewise, if you're ever in Toronto, you know who to call :)

I don't do explicit shots--I want you to come see me not just wank off to my photos.

Eating couscous and posting to this thread. Then I'm gonna eat strawberries until I burst.

I hate the term "john." It's demeaning! I go with client, almost always.

Don't say anything. I may be pretty out as far as being out goes, but I still get to decide who to disclose to and who not to. It's a safety issue--I don't know who is going to react positively or negatively and in some cases, I'd rather not take the chance. I don't know this woman or her parents, but please don't tell them. Not everyone has a good relationship with their folks and she may never be able to tell them and that's ok. If they're asking, tell them you don't know and to take it up with her.

Yes, there was another SP who used my real first name and every time I saw her post or a review of her, I instantly thought "WHO IS TALKING ABOUT ME?" And then I remembered where I was.

Yay, another middle class woman who thinks we're all broken, desperate women! Could she be more condescending? Also, I really enjoyed how she described us relationally ("reducing someone's daughter to a paid means of sexual enjoyment"), as if we only exist in relation to someone else, and we're not individuals at all or anything. Garbage, utter, garbage.

Ahh the delight and joy of submission. Wish it were me!

I try to avoid body descriptors because things like "curvaceous" mean different things to different people. Just post accurate photos and entice them that way!

Perhaps, but the Criminal Code incorporated laws that were on the books much earlier. For example, the bawdy house laws. A bawd was an 18th century term for a madam.